I wanted to get some advice on how to respond to the girls at the more aggressive FKK's (i.e.: Palace, Oase, World).

In the past, I have told them I'm still looking around and not ready now, but maybe later. Some of them seem to get irritated with that response while others will check back with me later, then get irritated when I still am not ready to choose them.

The thing is, this is an honest answer for me. I know I'm good for 2 or 3 sessions and I want to make sure I select the best girls for those sessions and if they are a possibility, I don't want to tell them "no", hence the reason for me saying "maybe later".

Have any of you mastered the response to the girls without pissing them off?

Such pestering behaviours are exactly why I avoid Frankfurt clubs like the plague, in addition to the overpriced entry fee.

My response is gradual.

1st step : you answer frankly but just as politely and gently "NO" invoking your reason (you want to take your time to make your best choice, you have just arrived in the club and you're tired after a long trip, you've just come out from a session, she's not your type of girl) no matter what.

2nd step : you still stay kind and polite, saying something like : "please do not insist !"

3rd step is mean : "Don't waste your time ..."

At 4th step : you get angry and say "Lass mich in frieden bitte !!" well that means "Leave me alone please !"

In my experience I get rid of pretty much 90% of these sharks after the 3 first steps

You are clear, you are polite - what more do the girls expect ?


I agree with your and Farid's even more gradual approach. And that should be sufficient communication. But some girls just don't / can't take 'no' for an answer. In that case I would love to have a fly swat to beat them out of my vicinity. And honestly, you may consider these girls for later in the day, but if they sense your feelings that bad, one may wonder if they are really good providers. I would scrap them off my list.

And unfortunately it's not just the Hessen clubs that have those girls. They are - although in certainly less numbers - in NRW, too. Even in small 'Babylon', where the local troll is Nicoletta (RU, what else ?). The 'Hello, baby' -calling gives me the creeps. But then, she gives a well-over-par blowjob. As a last resort session (a good cumming before hitting home) she's unbeateable. Decisions can be that hard sometimes....


Gaston.

I have to say I'm a sucker for the larger clubs because of the larger selection of women. I tend to go for the large breasts on a thin girl (natural breasts preferred) with a great looking face. You need a lot of girls to choose from to make that happen :)

I found out that the girls aren't supposed to approach you at Samya and Living Room which is kind of nice.

I found Palace to be the worst with Oase right behind it on being constantly asked. But I also found the best selection at Oase with World as my second pick providing you can deal with the nuisance of being hounded non stop.

I just wanted to make sure you guys didn't know some magical way to make them go away without pissing them off that I wasn't aware of. It's nice to know that I wasn't doing anything wrong.

Gee. What a chore. Beating off naked girls wanting to have sex with you.

At Goldentime, I had only 2 girls approach me. From what I hear, that's going to be totally different at Oase. I hope I can handle the pressure.

Wonder what the best way of saying "Hang on, let me check my list to see if you're on the good list or the bad list".

@deadhead
It is definitely flattering when it is just 2 or 3 girls... but believe me when it's 20 or 30, it gets on your nerves especially when some of them seem to get mad. I'm very polite to them when I tell them "not now, maybe later", but a small percentage get ticked at that. I had one girl at Palace to ask me every 30 minutes and by the 4th time she asked, she said I should just tell her "no, I'm not interested at all", but the problem was she was in the top 5 of the pickings for the club... I'm just too damn picky and wanted to make sure I had the 3 best (if 3 is all that I stamina for). Hell, I figure I'm paying, so I should get to pick the ones I think are the best looking.

When are you going to be at Oase? I'm planning on being there on October 4th or 5th. I've always been mongering alone except for the last two trips and it was fun having someone to shoot the bull with in between sessions. Send me a PM if you're going to be in the area at the same time.

Yes, I'm told it's closer to 20-30 girls who approach you at Oase. It's only going to be my 2nd time at a FKK. Goldentime is tame by comparison apparently. Like you, I only have the stamina for maybe 3 girls, with 2-3 hours between, and I can definitely see how one might try to be choosy and girls constantly approaching might become annoying. We'll see how it goes.

Won't be there until Nov 10th, so you're on your own. It was going to be Nov 11th but I don't like the idea of Lingerie Day, so I'm moving it up a day.

I prefer the clubs where the girls can't approach you, the problem with the big clubs like Palace and Oase Is that some girls prey on the clueless tourists/businessmen, any girl who hustles you In the first 5 minutes of entering the club Is no good.

@deadhead - I've just come back from a trip to Oase. Maybe I'm just not that good looking - I don't know - but I certainly didn't have to beat the girls off and no one made a real pest of themselves. There was only only grumpy cow that had bad attitude when I said no but apart from that a simple shake of the head as they approached made them change direction and keep on walking.

I've had a far worse time in Artemis and Villa - Oase has jumped to the top of my list :-)

I've similarly not had a problem. The occasional girl offers, or in the Kino asks, but I've yet to actually feel pestered at Oase.