Wasteland is a huge fet party that attracts around 3,000 people. Held two times per year in Amsterdam. They have a web-site that tells you all you need to know. Next event is April 21st. They even have buses that take you there (Zaandam) and back starting at 9:30 and going till 6 am.
If you check Danny's web-site at absolutedanny.nl you will find some other information.
Boudoir Bizarre can be searched for as well.
Mistress Manita has a monthly party at the Showboat.
Sameplace has a monthly party as well.
Hope this helps.
Thanks for that roland, we will look in to that.