Hi,
From what I've read you didn't really have a very good or fantastic session with a girl, but had a few bad ones, including a disastrous one with Cristina (Stoofsteeg). Having session with that kind of girl doesn't help at all for evacuating the sexual tension you've had cumulated from no masturbating during weeks. If the girl is a rip-off whilst you are excited about the idea of having sex without knowing she's a rip off but actually discovering it during the session, the sexual tension just goes down to zero and the feeling of frustration can be very intense. Basically you were here to evacuate all the sexual tension and the reply you have is just a serious monotonous tone if not an hostile & pushy attitude.
coolwhip45 wrote:
I'm about 8 weeks away from my trip so I'm going to stop all sex now, so I have a bunch of libido pent-up..
My last trip to Europe I spent a week in Germany and a week in Amsterdam.. after visiting so many sex destinations by the time I got to Amsterdam I was sexually worn out.. probably from poor diet (beer)/sleep and too much traveling as well contributed to poor performance.. The wallen girls were not patient with me and expected me to have a rock hard erection instantly..
Rip-off artists are waiting for having the most money they can have in the shortest time. Their will is to make you leave the kamer as soon & fast as possible after you've paid. They don't care what you want, and especially if you need to be aroused/excited by a visual or something you might like (the view of a tit, seeing the butt, fantasize about feet or neck, or hair,etc). The fact that you are drinking beer is good way for the rip off to say and think that you are not capable of being hard whilst it's not necessarilly the truth (some men are capable to have erection after three/four or more beers, it's not exactly the same with the use of drugs).
If you go to a girl being considered as good/very good/excellent provider (and there are many examples, check the girls listing with the TOP 10, you can't go wrong with those), there is NO reason she will not take her time at the beginning of the session to put you at you ease, tease you a little bit, do some fondle, touching, etc.
Then she will offer what she has to provide for the price you've paid, and you really should have a good time.
You can have instant erection if you feel fine with the girl, NOT if she insisted on the fact you must have the hard-on as she wants it you to have.
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well long story short it was taking me 2-3 mins to get hard for the girls and before I could get hard they made there usual insults and was trying to get me out the door.. or at least one girl was..i.e. Christine a well known rip-off.
Once again, too bad, but it is happening with pushy girls, not, generally with good providers.
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My point is I don't want to wear myself out this time around and have too much sex. So I'm thinking of holding off for 8 weeks
You can have a wank maybe six or seven days with porn before you go. You will be in a period when it's not too much or not enough. The amount of excitation for those 8 weeks without any sex relation could make you cum very fast during the first session, but again, it depends on everyone, some guys cum really fast, some need much more time. The best is to say to the girl that it has been a long time since you didn't have sex (the best providers know how to listen to somebody and not judging him/her for that), and you might need more time for a second pop, etc.
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By the end of the week, I'll be looking for the Amsterdam girls who provided good foreplay to get me going,, instead of trying to rush me and expect and instant hard on.. any suggestion on girls who provide good foreplay?
Max
German Kim
Ella (Bethlemsteeg 10)
Katie (La Vie en Rose 3)
Emma (Goldbergsteeg 7)
Michaela (Stoofsteeg 6-1)
Agniezska
Anna (Trompettersteeg 5-1 & Sint Annendwarsstraat 26-1)
Helena
Femke
Natasha in the Singel
Haley in the Singel