I'm a 20 year old guy with a good deal of sexual experience under my belt and a taste for some kinky stuff.

A couple years ago I started using viagra recreationally, back then I was a lot less experienced and had some trouble getting it up sometimes from what I imagine was just nervousness and anticipation. I find that every few times I go without the little blue pill I have trouble, say 1 in 3 occurences. Usually I can wait it out and get to it in a few minutes but I'm wondering if I'm developing a dependency on the drug and could really use some advice from some guys with more experience than myself.

Specifically I wanted to know if you think its a good idea to use viagra to supplement some of my adventures in amsterdam and around europe. Again I'd probably manage just fine without it but its the difference between 2 and 5 rounds with an escort and if I'm paying might as well get my money's worth right?

Any feedback appreciated (obviously not something I can discuss in person)

As far as I know viagra has no physically addictive or habituation (diminishing returns) effect associated with it.

However, when it comes to sex one can become psychologically dependent on almost anything. This is the psychological basis of extreme fetishism. If there are guys who, psychologically, can't have sex without wearing a mask made of chicken feathers, I'm sure there are guys who can't have sex without viagra for purely psychological reasons.

But I don't think this is what is going on in your case. It sounds like you simply expect a little too much from yourself. Having sex 5 times in a row? That's quite a bit! You should expect needing a "refractory period" where attaining an erection will be almost impossible. And needing a few minutes to attain an erection sometimes? That's not a problem...that's an opportunity! There are lots of highly enjoyable ways to spend those few minutes. Explore them!

All of that said, if you take viagra within the normal dosages, and if you have no abnormal side-effects, I don't think taking it should be a worry. But again, it doesn't sound to me like you actually need it.

Thanks for the reply, nice to have some outside opinions, will probably continue to use but only on special occasions and maybe also for first impressions haha

As long as you don't see it as a must and can function without, do you really need it.... But we all have our vices. I've used it before and when visiting my regulars, I've noticed they will put globes of lube on, compared to other non use times. Then again, the last hooker I screwed here in the the states included the blue pill and some weed, it was a great time..do what you want man, but realize as you get older, you may require it and if you use too much, it may not be as effective... Good luck. Hopefully it doesn't diminish it's effects with long term use, but as said before, psychologically, it could become a need for you to get hard.

I would say don't start with it unless you really need it. It seems I'm psychologically dependent on it at this point. As noted, there's no physical dependence with this; my kamagra-free porn viewing confirms it. :-) For me, it's always been about nerves (even with girls I've seen before... I don't really know why) and in the beginning the kamagra gave me a confidence boost I suppose. Trouble is I got in the habit of never having sex without it. Years later (I'm mid-30s now) I have trouble if I don't take it and also don't last as long. The kamagra seems to have a bit of a desensitising effect and increased stamina = more value for money in my mind, so I take it. But I feel it would have perhaps been better to learn to go without it because now I'm not sure what I do if, some day, I can't obtain it anymore. YMMV. Just one perv's experience.

If you only take the stuff to 'get your money's worth' (as in doing it more times because you paid an escort for a fixed period) you are fooling yourself immensely. 20 ? For Christ's sake; you are young enough to explore the world on your own powers and see where that leads you to. And if that is less than 5 times in an allocated slot, get to live with that. I totally agree with Neuro that instantaneous erections are not per se necessary and that 'warming up' can be a pretty good time.

BTW, when girls notice you take the stuff, they won't like you for that. Certainly not if your only goal is to get more bangs for the buck. Prepare to get the dirty look.


my 2 cents,

Gaston.
(grumpy and over 50 - and never even dreaming of coming 5 times within 24 hours - and not bothered by it neither ;-)

Ah, to be 20 again.
I don't think you have a Viagra problem. You are just impatient.
While it is physically possible to have five orgasms with your hired escort, it can become uninteresting.
Not fun, not sexy. More like work. A chore.
Viagra can't help that.
One of the glories of kinky sex is the build-up. Anticipation, denial, re-engagement, restraint, building to a long-delayed but highly satisfying climax. Quality over quantity.

Viagra will give you good wood, though it may blunt sensitivity.
It is nice to know you have it "just in case", but it can be a problem if you don't have it , and stress as a result.
I still like viagra on occasion, but it gives me bad indigestion if I use it regularly.
Beyond that, I don't think it hurts. I wouldn't consider it addictive.

I've become more selective as I get older. I'm interested in sexually teasing the girls.
Once properly teased, the good ones are able to pull orgasms out of me whether I am taking Viagra or a tictac!

Weasel

Also grumpy and over 50. Interested in making a hooker come 5 times, then going to bed early.

I take it at clubs and parties more often than not. This because there is so much on offer, but not always with a build up (although just being in the place can be very horny). To be really crude, there are times when a hole is on offer and if you don't fill it, the next guy will. And I hate the thought of missing out! Pills give me the feeling that wood is available on demand. With the Mrs, never. Window girls or escorts, why bother? If they are good they'll get it out of you, and if you do have stage fright, so what? You never have to see them again if you don't want to. Like Weasel, I can find them de-sensitising some times, and you can end up sawing away in a very unsatisfying and un-sexy way, desperate for a third or fourth orgasm. I like to try and quit before this point, but sometimes the boner is just too distracting even thought you know it is going to be hard work. I think it is a feedback loop where the fact that you have wood makes you think you are horny, even though you are not. This is a good time to get high/pissed.

Take kamagra tablets, its better than viagra now

Well, how surprising you would say that.

Kamagra4uk.com is flagged as a scam site.

http://www.scamadviser.com/check-website/kamagra4uk.com

Good find Shink.

Is the issue getting it up/hard or just coming.

If it is coming I would buy some China brush and just put a drop on the end of your friend and you won't come for quite a while. Plus you can have multiple erections all with diminished sensitivity.

If it is getting it up...then don't drink any liquor or fluids that affect the kidneys, bladder or prostrate; don't smoke and don't take any bumps to the pubic area like many bicycles seats do for me; be generally healthy and be under 50 to 55.

You can build up a psychological dependence.

Regards, Roland

... be under 50 to 55 ...

Yeah, right. Thanks for that brilliant piece of advice.

No more restaurant tips for you, kiddo.


Gaston
(grumpy)

Gaston,

While I agree that you can be grumpy (probably more likely unfocused); you are over 50? What?? Say it ain't so, mate!


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