I've been going to the RLD from a couple of moths now. what i tend to do is wander around near the winnows until i find a girl that catches my eye, problem is i don't last very long and because of that i feel like i kinda wasted my money on something that only 5 minutes. i'll most likely stick to 50 euro sessions but even then i feel like i still had time left.

Just have a wank just before you go to the rld, should help you last longer

Just enjoy it even if it is for 5 minutes!

Take some drugs...

Medical or recreational, they usually can help.

You could get a toy of some sort and "train". I believe Fleshlight makes a toy specifically for this purpose.

Practice stopping when you are close to cumming. I'm always horny as hell when I get to the RLD and could cum within 5 mins or so. During a 30 to 60 min session I will stop perhaps 10 times. Either telling her to stop while she is sucking or stopping myself while fucking. This builds to a far more intense orgasm and I couldn't imagine going back to just cumming first time I get the urge. I'm not talking about tantric sex or squeeze techniques. I'm just talking about stopping as you feel the sensation approaching the point of no return. After a while you can hang on the edge of orgasm for several minutes. Practice while wanking and you'll be sorted.

dora was skilled at this is keeping you on the edge of cumming then easing off.In a 2hr session i was lucky to cum twice but along the way i could have manage 3 maybe 4 times.I would suggest a good wank in your room then go out for a girl or visit 2 girls first one to get the 1st cum out of the the way 2nd to enjoy the time more without worrying about it.I dont know how old you are but this also tends to slow down the older you get or atleast it is to me lol.

What george said.
Basically, it takes practice. If you happen to have a partner, ask her to help. She needs to be able to stop - and I mean freeze - when you say to. Then it's a matter of pushing it to the edge and stopping as many times as you can stand it. Sore of an exquisite torture.

If you don't have a partner, then a toy or good old Rosie Palmer and her five sisters will do just fine. What is important is to recognize the feeling of urgency coming on before it becomes unstoppable. push yourself to the edge and when you need to stop an orgasm, clamp down like you're having to stop pissing (Think about taking a hefty leak in an alley and suddenly you see a cop approaching. Clamp it! Now!). If you don't stop soon enough then just enjoy the orgasm and practice again another time.

Another thing you can do is simply Slow Down. Women don't like to be jackhammered anyway. Take some time to enjoy the experience. In fact, if you slide inside a woman, stop completely and stay that way, you will lose your erection. Without some action, you will lose sensation and, not long after that, your erection. We don't want _that_ of course, but it does demonstrate* that there must exist some happy medium between losing an erection and popping off too soon. So if remaining motionless causes you to lose erection and what you're doing now causes you to pop too soon, do some homework and find out what speed you need to go to last longer. When you feel the urge to cum starting to build, Slow Down.

I actually enjoy pushing the edge and repeatedly pulling back from orgasm. Learning control allows you to spend a lot more time enjoying the woman instead of just the orgasm. Lots more positions. Lots more variations on strokes. Lots more things she can do to you. The orgasm just puts an end to things. It has become something of a challenge for me to see how long I can avoid it.

Oh, yeah. Almost forgot. There are some breathing techniques too, but we'll save that for another day. Look online for information about extended male orgasm. That should get you started.

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* Try it! Remember that you must remain motionless - at least your genitals. It doesn't take long and you can't feel anything. You can't really even tell that you're inside a woman.

When I am with a new (working) girl I always test her ability to stop with a fake "stop" early on. Sometimes they aren't paying attention or not interested in playing along. It's very rare though and most find it amusing. They are usually quite impressed and some will even count. It just adds to an already enjoyable session. On really long sessions I always give her a break or she's likely to get pissed off with it eventually.

I'm a bit jealous - I often have the opposite problem where I don't really feel horny enough to fully enjoy the sex, and it can sometimes be a bit of an effort of concentration to finish. If I get a session where I'm so turned on by the girl that I cum as quickly as I did when I was a teenager looking at my first porn mag, I think it's great!

I'd agree with the suggestion of "tactical wanking" before you go out for your sessions - and if you masturbate frequently before you even get to Amsterdam it should mean that your dick needs a bit more attention and physical stimulation before it's ready to blow its load.

Also, like George & Dogsafire say in more detail, just practice stopping your movements when you can feel an orgasm building - wait until the sensation that your dick is about to spasm subsides, and then carry on.

As you get near to orgasm, you could also experiment with thinking about other things unrelated to sex.... global current affairs or whatever.

You could also see whether a little bit of alcohol (or possibly weed) has an effect. I wouldn't start drinking multiple beers before your session (in case you start needing the loo at an inconvenient moment) but maybe a small amount of spirits might make you last a bit longer (it's a bit unpredictable and individual, but I often find that if I'm very slightly drunk I can still get hard and feel horny but it takes me longer to actually cum).

Another way to extend the session might be to spend longer just touching the girl before your cock gets involved. If you've visited a girl before and she knows you cum very quickly, she might not have a problem doing this in a standard €50 session.

Or perhaps try a privehuis....a bit more expensive, but you also get a massage which makes the session longer, there is less of a rush into BJ & sex. You *might* be able to negotiate "multiple pops" with some girls for a bit extra.

Or do what ams2008dam suggests and cum quickly with a first RLD girl, go back and take a shower, then go out straight away for another session.

It sounds like you are feeling young and horny.........so enjoy it!

Ironically I just had this issue with a women I just started to date here at home. She is a HOT spinner type Latina and after 5 minutes last night I was spent. She told me later she gave the full attention right off the bat so that could have been the problem:) I usually can stop by thinking about my ex wife or work,,but when I was ready to pop after 5 minutes I simply couldn't prevent the inevitable. The fun part was that while I was starting to cum, she told me "don't waste it" and quickly went down and sucked me dry" Best non-paid sex I have had for a while,,but I did spend $150 on dinner:)

At 53, its not easy to pop right back and since we had both been drinking it even made it harder (not literally). She gave it a good try but after staying up the previous night on NYE to 4:00 AM, I was kaput!

Will try again later tonight.

One other irony is when I took a Hydrocodone at World FKK a few years ago, I could not come for any girl,,stayed hard all night. Not sure if that was a good or bad thing but it was fun trying!~

From this and previous posts it sounds like people are going a little too far before stopping. I've found a happy safe place where the feeling is good but I know I won't go over the edge. The last time I screwed up was in 2009 with the famous Nina in Utrecht.

I've really only had it happen one time with provider. A group of us went to Goldentime and I saw what was to me one of the most beautiful women I had ever laid my eyes on. Elektra, from Tenerife. Gorgeous eyes, long dark hair, beautiful smile, light olive skin that looked deliciously smooth, and fantastic body. It took me a good while to approach her despite the fact that she had smiled at me several times (I was in awe), but when I finally did she was very friendly and we were soon off to a room. Simply stunning in every way, and an active partner. We were in missionary and just looking down at all that perfect femaleness, I lost it. She literally was so freaking beautiful that I couldn't help but pump one out. There was no controlling it. It was worth it.

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Had to laugh. I know just the type you would choose. I can see where there could be a problem making it last.

As far as the cost goes - there's no such thing as free pussy. You know that. You were married.

I fucking hate hydrocodone. If a doc wants to give me some, I refuse it. I would rather just deal with the pain. It totally kills anything remotely associated with sexual ability. I don't even think you could get me hard by soaking my dick in liquid nitrogen. On top of that I say nasty, hurtful things - words that would never normally come out of my mouth even if I was pissed at someone. Nasty drug.

Be sure to keep us updated on la neuva chica caliente.

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I had that happen with Dita once. She made me cum twice in about 15 minutes with her mouth. I was trying every trick I could think of to hold it back, but it just wasn't gonna happen. In fairness, I gotta imagine that Dita could make just about any guy cum on command if she wants to.

Durex make a condom with a special formulation, it has a small amount of de-sensitising gel inside the tip.

I haven't used it myself as in the rld the girls supply the condoms.

From what I have read it works incredibly well, and is one low cost, guaranteed solution to this problem. In fact from the reviews I have read if anything it works too well:)

I rather like the effect of hydrocodone...it's a euphoric and doesn't lead me to say or do mean things...but it can put the kibosh on sexual activity!

There's a product called Priligy that I've heard good things about...

I found the most important thing to keep it going is to breathe consciously while doing it. It helps you to calm down a bit and allows you to try and get some control. The rest comes from practice.

Yes. Breath control is a big help.
A sharp inhale can help in stopping an orgasm. Exhaling at the wrong time can let one go that you could have caught.

I also tend to make sounds to help maintain control. Animal sounds is about the best description for them. I know it may sound weird, but none of the women I have been with have minded (though do I get comments) and most think it's hot.

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