So i might fly to Amsterdam soon and i would like to lose my virginity but im not sure how and what i should do when i come here. I will fly from another country and stay a couple of days. I dont have much money so hotels might be hard...
Any ideas for a cheap but safe hotel near the airport ? I will stay for like 3-5 days depending on the flights that i find.

I'm a little shy when it comes to sex and stuff like that cause im overweight but i am open when it comes to talking.

Any ideas on whats best for me?

I would try and stay more centrally, get the atmosphere of Amsterdam, and save yourself the journey each time back and fore to the hotel.

If having sex is your priority you want to be near the action, cos if you're far away maybe you'll just build up your anxiety during the twenty minute or so journey to Central Station.

Lots of the women I've spoken to over the years have taken guys' virginity, so it's not a big deal.

De Wallen is the main RLD and even though it's quieter these days it can be a little intimidating for the nervous with all the tourists and other groups, so to pick a girl to "try out with" either build a shortlist from recommendations in the girl and trip report sections on this site, or maybe consider one of the other two, smaller, RLDs :-

(1) De Pijp which is in the vicinity of the Rijksmuseum, so a tram 16 or 24 to to Ruydelstraat, walk back to the main road you passed and the windows faced the canal.

(2) Singel, it's off/around Spuistraat, so walk away from Dam Square to Damrak (wide street of hotels and gifts shops) and then cross Niuezijdsvoorburgwal and you're on Spuistraat with some windows, others are in the sidestreets or parallel street Oude Nieustraat

Advantages of 1 and 2 are that the women get more local customers, can't really afford to be rips offs, and it's a slower paced, relaxed atmosphere.

I appreciate you're good at talking, but in my opinion a good provider, someone who treats you nice, who has got you horny (and your own instincts are important too, not just what reviews say) is sufficient.

Sex is not rocket science. They will put the condom on, give you a blow job to get you started and then probably initiate things to sex quite quickly as it's 15-20 minutes on average per session. It won't be the most romantic experience in the world, but chances are you'll have some conversation and most of the women I've met are nice and easy going. It's fun.

And providing you're polite, smile, smell good with good hygiene, your body/shape looks are not relevant, the women are there for the money.

Good Luck.

Thanks alot for that info. Really appreciate it! Just to clarify though do you mean that i should stay in hotels in the central or did you mean there are other options?

I'm going to start looking on the reviews to see whats up but if anyone has any suggestions on a good cherry popper then i won't mind your opinions :P

Btw I'm sure that i will most likely pop just from the blowjob probably so are there girls that wont mind that? Cause i don't want to pay for 1-2 mins of bj and then pop and my times out xD.

Thanks again Danny69

I would stay central, I have used IBIS
near Central Station and there is a budget version nearby so maybe cheap enough.
In a 15 or 20 minute session it will only be cum once. Just ask they keep blowjob short or ask for hand job to make sure you are hard if necessary and then have sex.
I don't think it is worth paying too much more money up front to have a longer session at leat until you know you really like the girl. Maybe try someone out , who cares if you cum from
BJ it's still nice; and then go back a bit later for another session. It will be better as you both will be more relaxed with each other.

Agnieshka can't think how she spells her name is excellent for someone new to the game. Check her out in the review sections. Girl next door type, foreplay and awesome BJ.

I would agree with danny69 about staying in the city, not at the airport.

The big hotel websites have rooms for quite a range of budgets, so you should be able to find something cheap fairly close to the centrum.

I usually use Hotels.com, where looking randomly at some midweek nights in August the prices start from around €50 per night for cheap hotels, or more like €25 if you're prepared to stay in a hostel (it would be cheaper at other times of year). If you have a limited budget you could also try Priceline.com where you can name a price, a star rating and an area, then the website either declines your price or allocates you a hotel room for that amount. I think there's a similar site called Hotwire.com where you can see the price, the star rating and the area but you don't know the exact hotel. Or just stick to the big sites like Hotels.com, Booking.com and so on and look for something cheap with reasonable reviews.

If you are staying 3-5 nights, remember that Friday and Saturday are usually the most expensive, if you can avoid them it would be cheaper.



Once you've "popped" that would normally be the end of the session, even if it's during the blowjob. If you are feeling really horny and you are already nice and hard when the girl puts the condom on, you could skip the blowjob and concentrate on losing your cherry.

If you are feeling a bit shy or nervous, you might find that this balances out your natural horniness and you can last a bit longer, or that you need the blowjob to relax and get hard. Either way, don't put too much pressure on yourself to "perform", just enjoy being with a naked girl and don't think too much!

If you are on a limited budget, you don't want to waste it on a girl who will start upselling, keep her top on and start telling you that sex is another €50 e.t.c, so yes it's a very good idea to read the reviews and choose someone who is recommended.

If I could lose my virginity again I would probably do it with Lilly at Stoofsteeg 12, because she's very beautiful and really nice, I think she would treat a virgin very well. It can be very tricky to catch her free (she only works Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday days and is very popular) but that would be my personal recommendation.

Another girl who would give you a good time for €50 would be Ella at Bethlemsteeg 10 on dayshift.

[Edit - you can find Danny's recommendation here - Agnieszka]

Obviously you might have a particular idea about the kind of girl you want, so just read through the recommendations and see which girls other people recommend. If you come up with a "shortlist" you might as well post it here and people should be able to tell you if they are good choices, or if any of them have moved kamer recently e.t.c

I don't think the main RLD is particularly intimidating during the daytime, but it can get very busy at night. Once you are in the room with a girl it's a different little world anyway. Take a good look at George's map of the RLD so you know where the kamers of the girls you are interested in can be found and what the rooms look like from outside (you can click on the map to see a photo of each little group of windows).

When you approach the window, the girl will open the door to speak to you, just ask her name (check it matches who you think it should be) and ask a simple "€50, suck and fuck, naked?". If you've picked a nice girl it won't matter if you stand there like a frightened rabbit and forget to say anything, they will tell you it's €50 and take care of the rest!

As for losing your virginity, you've probably thought about this a lot, but just make sure you're genuinely comfortable with the idea of losing your virginity with a prostitute. There are some really nice girls in the RLD, but the situation of paying to suddenly get naked with a girl you don't know can feel a bit weird! Don't expect anything too intimate or romantic. I expect you are fed up with being a virgin at 22 and just want to fuck a hot girl.....in that case go for it!

There's a similar thread here......lots of people have done this, you'll be fine. Don't build it up in your mind into some momentous event, but do have fun! If you pick the right girl it will be something that you look back on and smile to yourself ;)

Thanks alot both you guys. I'm definitely going to put those on my shortlist since they sound amazing! I seem to like Ella and Agneskia cause i would like to try daty aswell :P ive always liked the naughty kinda older girl (like 28-36 age) that would seduce and be the assertive one so i will see how the ranking on the shortlist will be. Im pretty tall so i dont know if i want a little bit more of a busty or a perite girl but you guys have sent me off to a great start.
Damn 25-50 is pretty good. I checked some others and it was around 200 per night and that in 5 days is dang crazy. Thanks to you both!

Btw judging from what i have read im guessing kissing on the lips is hard to find? Ive only managed to kiss two girls. Once when i was 8 and 13 after that i became shy as hell. So i would like to try kissing again :P

Kissing can be hard to find, yes. Simona on Sint Annenstraat will do it as an extra, but you'll need to pay more. I would recommend her, she's got the full pornstar package in terms of looks and skills and is very nice, though she can be a bit more pricey.

I would also strongly recommend Veronika on Stoofsteeg during the day. Very nice, friendly Russian girl. Very good looking, great body. If anything, she undercharges for her services. Very reasonable price-wise, and very skilled. I can't see anyone having a bad time with her.

I do have an anxiety disorder, so I understand social anxiety very well. If you have any questions or anything I could help with, feel free to ask.

I can totally relate to your situation as I've been there myself many years ago. I was only 20 years old when I lost my virginity to a prostitute. I was shy, self-concious about my appearance, socially awkward, and I wanted to visit an older girl who would be understanding, friendly and take the lead, as well as be willing to kiss and cuddle (i.e. girlfriend experience).

I'm going to be blunt about this: I think Amsterdam RLD (especially the main one) is a bad choice for you. I would highly recommend an escort or a privehuis based on your situation and what you're looking for. Take your time to check reviews of girls; look for the glowing reviews, make sure they can give you everything you're looking for, and book in advance if you can. Kissing is extremely uncommon in the RLD, and the girls tend to be young, although the Singel does tend to have some older girls during the daytime. On the other hand, many escorts/privehuis girls will kiss without even being asked (do check reviews beforehand to be sure though). Another nice thing about an escort/privehuis is that you normally pay for time. Therefore, if you pay for one hour, then you stay for one hour, so you can relax without being under any pressure to rush things.

Back when I was 20, I spent days reading reviews and ended up booking an hour with very friendly 30 year old independent escort. I explained my situation up front and asked her directly if she would take the lead. She was very understanding and willing to accommodate me. I was super nervous on the day, but she was amazing and really put me at ease within moments of meeting her. I don't think I'll ever forget the moment when she greeted me with a deep kiss and cuddle as I arrived in her apartment. Visiting her was one of the best decisions I ever made.

Thanks im gonna check them out soon. Really appreciate the help.
As for the escort thing i was actually considering it but some seem to say that an hour would be a waste since if i cum right away it will kinda ruin the hour or something. But yeah the gfe seems to apeal more to me but the problem there might be that i will need to pay alot more and also have a hotel room etc. Now i never was the cheap kinda guy but i don't have that much money really and i can't afford the 200-300 euro for a good girl with gfe plus the higher cost of the hotel etc since i will stay 3 or 5 days.
Now inam open minded so if u have any other suggestions about an escort or where i can find such things on another website then i am more than happy to try an escort first then maybe go to the rld some other day.

It will be the first time for me traveling to another country alone and ive also never been in the netherlands. But all you say seem to be very logical and if i get better options i will definitely opt for the escort aslong as she wont mind me cumming more than once if thats the case.

Much like jimmy_nova, I very much understand your situation, I too lost my virginity to an escort in Amsterdam 2 years ago at the ripe age of 24. It was the most expensive thing I have done so far in life and by far one of the best.

Whilst I understand that it is highly unrealistic with your budget, I must recommend the virgin experience from society service, it was the best decision and money spent in my life. Have a read of their website, specifically the virgin experience part. You meet up with the escort at an incall location provided by the agency with no extra charge so you can actually stay in a hostel or cheap hotel during the trip as I did. I too am a very shy and awkward person with the most terrible skin imaginable and has only managed to kiss 4 girls from 14-24, and no girlfriends ever so it seemed that losing my virginity would never happen.

I chose society service virgin experience after alot of research and decided to heck with savings! You get 3 hours with a lovely and beautiful girl who not only provides the best intimate GFE, the experience is taylor made for nervous first timers. They will initiate conversations, tease you with light brushes of your hands and thighs, build up the excitement by giving light kisses over your face and neck; and passionate french kissing. You are also allowed to pop more than once and the escorts are understanding and instructional to first timers.

You also build a bit of connection with them since you get at least 3 hours of her time/ The experience, especially at the conversational part, made me feel like I am a smooth talking stud who can land a gorgeous girl. The experience was relaxed, intimate and seemingly (at least in my mind) romantic. I think you would be looking at 950 Euros though at least if you choose this. I saved up for 9 months to go on this trip and to have this virgin experience. This in my opinion is the best possible way, in our scenario, to lose your virginity and it is def worth it.

I would not say that losing my virginity has suddenly made me the next Casanova, I am still very self conscious about my looks and nervous as fuck around girls. But it has definitely done me a world of good and I have at least started to land a date or 2 here and there. Fruit for your thought.

Alternatively, you may try visiting a privehuis to lose your virginity which would be more in your budget, and the likelihood is way higher that the prive girls would provide intimate extras like kissing on the lips, than your common window girl in the RLD. I visited Park 118 and Sexclub Vienna before in Amsterdam and they both have some decent providers. And Park 118 has a decent website and twitter account with pictures of their girls

I actually read it yesterday before coming here. It was sick how awesome it was and i became very excited and then i saw the pricetag. Unfortunately i dont have that much money atm to spare really. I really really wish that i did :(
I have reaserched the prive thingie the least so i have no idea where those things would be. Isnt it the same as sex clubs but free?

Now im getting anxious again xD so many options and i dont know what to do :(

An escort would certainly be the ideal situation, I think. The trouble is, they get very expensive. For a first-timer, I don't think you'd want just an hour. By the time you and the girl get settled, get to know each other a bit, maybe have a drink or two, you're not going to have much time left, and this isn't something I would suggest rushing. Society Service is fantastic and I've only ever had positive experiences with them, but they do come with a very hefty price tag.

This is why I suggested Veronika. You can get an hour with her typically for €150, and she is very accommodating. If your budget is on the lower side, I think she's a very good choice. She's one of my go-tos, I usually see her at least 3 or 4 times every trip and I always have a great time. She really is a very nice girl and seems like the type who would go above and beyond for a first-timer.

I haven't had any experience with prives, personally. From my understanding, they generally work out to be cheaper than a window girl and sometimes with more extras on the menu, often more of a relaxed GFE type of experience. They do seem to be pretty hit or miss, though, and what you'll get may vary drastically depending on when you go and what girls are available.

See how you feel when you get there. Keep in mind, most prives are not centrally located, so they do require more of a time investment, and if none of the girls there that day catch your eye, it's basically a day wasted. See what you feel like doing. If you just want to rip the bandaid off quick, so to speak, Veronika is there.

This is not my experience. A good escort who is aware of your situation should pace the session appropriately for you, and many escorts won't mind if you want to cum multiple times (again, check reviews or ask first). Even the privehuis lady I'm visiting regularly now asks me how many times I want to cum and paces the hour appropriately. I think these are the traits of a true "professional" within this line of work. ;)




Again, this is not my experience. Escorts providing GFE can be found at a very reasonable cost if you look in the right place. My first escort encounter was £120 for one hour, including DFK, GFE, cum multiple times, etc. Many independent escorts accept incall appointments (i.e. you visit them), and the rates of many independent escorts are favourable compared to RLD girls. I can often find girls in the Netherlands charging €120 or less per hour, which is pretty much unheard of in the RLD. Similar rates are applicable at most privehuises. I live outside of Amsterdam and I pay €100 per hour with my regular girl for a full hour including DFK, DATY, GFE, etc. She's easily better than any experience I've had in Amsterdam RLD; we talk with like good friends; no awkward silence or forced conversation; everything goes very naturally and she seems to enjoy the sessions as much as I do! To be honest, this kind of experience doesn't seem so uncommon to me outside of Amsterdam.

Okay so i will try to find an escort until the time when i will travel there comes (1-2 weeks from now) if that doesn't work out too well i might go for veronika or perhaps to a prive house. I really really appreciate your help guys. I dont mind paying 150€ an hour for an escort for my first time but that means that i most likely wont be able to go for the most well known sites like SS. So do u know any good sites for this? Sorry to ask so much but i just started looking recently and many sites are in Dutch.

Where would that be? Genuine question, it's not something I've ever really researched and I wouldn't know where to look for reliable info.

An escort could be a good option if you find a recommended girl, although it might be awkward in budget accommodation unless you do the "incall" option which then involves transport e.t.c

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For info on the prive scene, see my post in this thread which has links to various threads. The three best known prives are probably Park 118, Asmara and Sexclub Vienna. They are not that difficult to find or too far from the centrum, for any of those 3 you can take a tram. Google maps and streetview are your friend, you can't go too far wrong. Also see the GVB website for info on tickets, maps of the tram network e.t.c. A trip on a tram is actually quite nice, especially if there is a naked girl waiting for you at the end of it......

Asmara
Address: Willem de Zwijgerlaan 70
Nearest tram stop: Willem de Zwijgerlaan (trams 12,13,14)
Typical price: € 110 for 60 minutes; Body to Body Massage, Oral Sex and Sexual Intercourse

Park 118
Address: Sarphatipark 118
Nearest tram stop: Centuurbaan / Van Woustraat (trams 3 or 4)
Typical price: 60 minutes of oral and vaginal sex will cost 95 euros

Sexclub Vienna
Address: Rijnstraat 224
Nearest tram stop: Victorieplein (tram 4)
Typical price: €115 for 30 min "full service"

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The problem with a prive is that the quality of the girls can be highly variable. On the one hand you might get a fantastic hour-long session with a really nice girl who blows your mind for a very reasonable price, on the other you might get someone who is just going through the motions, and the only thing blown is the money in your wallet!

Still, if an hour-long session sounds appealing, it is a nice option, and you get to spend more time with a girl without the hassle of arranging an escort (you just turn up at a prive and choose your girl). I wouldn't necessarily expect much GFE (unless you are lucky), and the girl might well end the session if you cum early, but even so it can be nice to have a girl rub oil into your back and then slide her breasts over you (body to body massage).

Worth trying, but too many times I've recommended trying a prive only for someone to have a rubbish session with a completely useless girl! At least in the RLD you can walk around with a clear list of recommendations, that's a big advantage, plus the price. If someone can tip you off on a really good (but cheap) escort, that might also be worth considering. And the prive thing is worth trying (even if not on this trip), but can be somewhat "hit and miss" unless you find a nice regular girl.

Yeah i feel that the GFE is something that will make it memorable or atleast easy to digest than rushing it or just doing the deed since im abit sensitive i would love the feel of the girl too. So what im thinking is escort first with GFE price around maybe max 200 euro max(found a girl in golden girls called eva and i gotta say im pretty smitten by her but its 300 euro so im abit discouraged because i will be pretty broke xD)

After that i might go to the RLD to try some 50euro SNF some other day during that trip.

I can vouch for Ibis as well. It's right next to the train station and surprisingly quiet. Also if you're looking to save money on accommodations you might want to look into hostels. Cheap, cheap, cheap. You give up a lot of privacy but get to meet a lot of cool people in the process. And save $$.

What do i do with my bag etc ? Do i get a locker or something. Btw is ibis a hostel ? Or what is it ? :P sorry im a noob xD

Generally independent escorts via Kinky.nl, in combination with reviews on Hookers.nl. Both sites are in Dutch, but they're manageable with Google Translate. I don't have any experience with escort agencies, so I can't speak for those.



This is true, but you don't need to walk in "blind" to a privehuis. There's nothing to stop you researching available privehuis girls, just like many people do when visiting the RLD, and I would strongly advise doing the research (one of my worst experiences ever was a spontaneous visit to Asmara). There may be less privehuis info here than the RLD info, but sites like Hookers.nl tend to have lots of reviews of privehuis girls. The other advantage of a privehuis is that you can call ahead for an appointment with a specific girl at a specific time, whereas browsing the RLD puts you at the mercy of whether your desired girl decides to show up, and whether she's already busy or not.



I would never put price forward as an argument for visiting the RLD. €100 can easily get you an hour at a privehuis, whereas you'd probably only get 30 minutes for €100 in the RLD.

There's no reason why you should cum fast. You know your own body so masturbate at the appropriate time(s) in the days (or hours) before hand.
I personally wouldn't use an escort because I want to properly see and chat to a girl before hand. Even after my multiple trips I would be extremely nervous waiting for some total stranger to turn up. My advice is a window girl like Agnieszka for as long as you can afford. She won't give you everything you want but you shouldn't expect too much from your first encounter anyway. Don't just walk in though, chat a bit first, check her out and do a few laps of the RLD. Only if you are 100% certain go back and take the plunge.
I lost my virginity to a girl in the RLD and it was the best decision I have ever made. It wasn't until 2 or 3 more visits though that I really started to enjoy it and explore the many options available.