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Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-05, 12:04 pm

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Hehe oki :P since I'm a big guy inwanna do it with a tall girl and a petite so its not far off that i do them all in a 50e session xD. But lets not be greedy i suppose. I will go see them all first and the one i seem to like the most shall be the one i try first. However i will go for a more relaxed 1h session in the park for my first time so we shall swe how it goes next week. Dayum I'm excited for the trip ^^
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-05, 12:10 pm

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Matri13 wrote:
Hehe oki :P since I'm a big guy inwanna do it with a tall girl and a petite so its not far off that i do them all in a 50e session xD. But lets not be greedy i suppose. I will go see them all first and the one i seem to like the most shall be the one i try first. However i will go for a more relaxed 1h session in the park for my first time so we shall swe how it goes next week. Dayum I'm excited for the trip ^^


You gotta let us know how you get on, we are all rooting for you :P
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-05, 1:02 pm

Matri13
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JayAbz wrote:
Matri13 wrote:
Hehe oki :P since I'm a big guy inwanna do it with a tall girl and a petite so its not far off that i do them all in a 50e session xD. But lets not be greedy i suppose. I will go see them all first and the one i seem to like the most shall be the one i try first. However i will go for a more relaxed 1h session in the park for my first time so we shall swe how it goes next week. Dayum I'm excited for the trip ^^


You gotta let us know how you get on, we are all rooting for you :P


Hehe don't worry i sure will :D
And thanks ^^
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-06, 1:23 pm

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Perhaps head to Love Club 21 thai massage. They offer massage and sex for under 100e and the pressure is off as in your head you're there for a massage (which then turns into sex..!) Always found the girls there to be very friendly.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-06, 6:52 pm

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Are there any specific girls you would recommend at Love Club 21? I like the idea of a more passive experience with massage, but I went there about six months ago and the service - including the massage - was very mediocre and I only got around 30 minutes out of the hour I'd paid for. I kinda felt ripped off to be honest. It wasn't as bad as my experience at Asmara, and it's possible that I was just unlucky, but I still wouldn't take another chance on it without a specific recommendation.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-08, 7:43 pm

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Glad you've got your flight and hostel booked.

Your RLD shortlist looks pretty solid (Out of those girls I've only seen Ella, but Agnieszka is a well-loved star performer and the other 2 sound pretty good to me!). You've got 2 on days, 2 on nights.......I would suggest perhaps making it into a "long list" with a couple of back-up options on each shift (it can be frustrating to look for a girl who turns out not to be working on that particular day).

So stick to your list, but if I was picking any additional names as back-up options these would be my personal suggestions (i.e they are my favourites but not necessarily "the best" - it all depends what kind of girls you like (looks, personality) and what kind of session you want.

A trio of girls virtually right next to each other on dayshift -

I already mentioned Lilly at Stoofsteeg 12 (Wed / Sat / Sun days), excellent at €50 and I would seriously consider her IF you can find her free! Ever so friendly and extremely good-looking, you can't go wrong with her.

3 doors down, also on days, is a nice girl called Elena at Stoofsteeg 10-R who might be worth considering if you are in the mood for a simple €50 suck and fuck with a very good-looking friendly "girl-next-door" type. A very nice girl, when I saw her it didn't really feel like I was with a prostitute - not because she did any GFE stuff but just because she was a nice friendly girl. Looks like a bit of a moody ice queen in the window but she's talkative and rather lovely, the kind of girl who makes you feel at ease.

A bit of a "wild-card" - if you prefer to be with a very confident petite girl who knows how to take control, in-between Lilly and Elena you have Angel at Stoofsteeg 10-L. You would need €100 for a proper session, and I wouldn't recommend her for your very first time (she's a bit wild and unpredictable), but I doubt you would forget a session with her in a hurry! Behaves in a very sexy way, knows how to turn you on and get you hard, good eye contact when sucking cock......again not exactly a GFE by any means but pretty full-on, a very sexy girl who knows what she's doing. If you like the look of her, you could always give her €50 then let her persuade you into a €100 session, explaining that you are on a budget, and see what she offers (you can always ask "would you do X" and see what she says). Not an official recommendation (she's €100 and can be a bit of a handful) but as she's in between Lilly and Elena I thought I'd mention her......the little minx.

On nights, if you fancy the idea of a very hot black girl you could always try Mary at OzA 13. A laid-back, friendly and very beautiful girl, good for a quick session at €50.

My personal favourite on nights is Rosie at OzA 110-3, although I can't recommend her fully to you because she will probably upsell you to €100 (worth it but obviously not great on a budget) and she doesn't always take her top off unless you're a regular. Very cute and petite though, very enthusiastic during sex, excellent blow-job....again it's not GFE, a little bit more porno, but a big turn-on.

Like I say, you might want to add a few names that other people have mentioned, just as "back-up" options. Also there will be times when you are wandering around the RLD just for the hell of it, and it will be more interesting if you can think "Oh, that must be...." and put a few names to faces, even if you don't intend to visit them.

Another thing in the RLD - don't forget to take a stroll around "La Vie En Rose" a.k.a "the covered area" (through a door on the right just past Ella's kamer on Bethlemsteeg). I was in there earlier this week and all the girls had the doors open inside - I wasn't planning to visit any of them but it was cool to be walking among these nice-looking busty girls through a dark corridor lit by UV lights.

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I'm glad you've got some names at Park 118, a bit of research gives you some idea of what to expect. Like jimmy_nova says, sometimes there might only be two girls working, other times there might be six.... it depends on who happens to be rostered for that shift and who is already busy with a customer. Like he says you could always phone ahead to see when your choices are working.........or just turn up and see who's available and who you actually fancy.

Thinking about food - it can be easy to end up spending a lot on food when you intended to save it for the girls. You mentioned a steakhouse (which shouldn't be too expensive and it's nice to have at least one or two nice proper meals). If I don't have any better ideas I quite often go to "NY Pizza" (several dotted around the city, there's one on Damstraat near the RLD) where they sell decent-sized slices of pizza for about €3.50 each (or 2 slices + can of drink for €8). Also there's a Domino's place that sells takeaway slices fairly cheaply - it's on Lange Niezel (or possibly Korte Niezel next to it) at the end of the RLD nearest the train station. 2 slices plus can of drink for €6.50.

If I want a proper entire pizza there's a reasonable place called "Il Panorama" at Herengracht 194 (corner of Herengracht and Raadhuisstraat) which is a very short walk from Dam Square (where trams 13,14,17 go past as they head from Dam towards the Westerkerk). The name sounds posh but it's almost like a pub/bar inside, very casual. My pizza cost about €13 but it was very nice.

Wok to Walk is also fairly filling and cheap (again, there are several around the city centre) where you choose your ingredients and they stir-fry it in front of you while you wait.

"AH to Go" is quite useful (an offshoot of the Albert Heijn supermarkets which sell ready-to-eat snacks). There's 2 of them in central station, a big one right at the back (by the river) and a smaller one at the east end of the concourse near the entrance (it's on your right hand side, right at the end, as you come into the station from the big square outside). I often buy sandwiches from there, croissants, pastries, that kind of thing.

A reasonable burger place I found not far from the Leidseplein is "Ellis Gourmet Burger" at Prinsengracht 422 (on the corner of Leidsegracht and Prinsengracht). If you were coming from the Leidseplein you would walk down Leidsestraat (following the tram lines towards the centre), then turn left down the Prinsengracht (canal), the burger place is on your left not too far away. Another cheap place I liked is Cafe Overtoom (Overtoom 413). It's a long way from the centre but if you happen to be in the Vondelpark it's not too far away. I think they only do lunch, I arrived just before 6pm and the kitchen had closed, but the really nice Dutch woman went and cooked me a vegeburger anyway!

Then there's the dreaded FEBO fast-food outlets if you are desperate....

All the places I've mentioned are pretty casual places where you won't feel awkward eating on your own. Nobody cares! And it's nice to sit down occasionally and watch some pretty dutch waitresses with tight butts buzz about.

I'm not much of an expert on pubs and bars, but if you want a quiet sit down and a drink during the RLD dayshift, De Prael (entrance on Oudezijds Armsteeg) is a nice place. To find it, head down Oudezijds Voorburgwal from the Oude Kerk (huge old church by the canal) towards central station - Oudezijds Armsteeg is a little alleyway on the left, at the point where the path on the other side of the canal ends and comes across on a bridge. There's also a little De Prael shop (its actually a brewery with a bar and shop attached) on Oudezijds Voorburgwal itself - the entrance to the bar is just beyond that down the next alley on the left (look for the teardrop shape on the sign). During the day its nice and quiet and fairly dark inside, perfect for skulking when you've just fucked a girl and don't know what to do next other than needing a drink. A Bitterblond is €2.90, the drinks are small (probably 250cl), all brewed on site (you can see part of the brewery through the windows inside) but some of the drinks are quite strong.

And don't worry about the language, everyone you are likely to speak to will speak perfectly good English, don't even bother asking if they speak English, just be polite. Amsterdam is a nice, friendly and safe place, but obviously like any city do take care of your cash and cards and (if not in a secure locker) keep them on you where they are difficult to get at (e.g not in a back pocket, rucksack pocket e.t.c). It might sound obvious, but let's face it there are a lot of things to distract your attention when you are wandering around the RLD.....blondes, brunettes, bikinis......

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When you are not busy fucking girls or planning to fuck girls or looking for the girls you plan to fuck, you can of course "window-shop" in the RLD, but don't forget to see some of the city like Leidseplein, Rembrandtplein, Dam Square, walk along one of the big canals (Herengracht, Keizersgracht or Prinsengracht are nice). If the weather is nice you can take one of the free ferry services across the river from the back of central station. The route to NDSM Werf is a nice little run, gives you a quick view of the river without taking up much of your time (less than 10min I think to get across, you can stay on the boat if you want to come back). It's free! Also, if you want a good panoramic view of the city, try going up either to the cafe at the top of the OBA public library (Oosterdokskade 143, east of central station along the waterfront) or walk up to the top of the NEMO roof terrace (the big green building near the library, looks like a ship). Walking up all the steps of the NEMO is knackering but the view is good.

The Vondelpark (near Leidseplein) is nice in summer, there are always leggy Dutch girls running about in tight clothing, not that I am the kind of pervert who would stare at their asses as they run past, you understand.....

If you take the tram out to Park 118 it's quite a nice part of the city, you can get quite a decent view of the city from inside a tram. Don't forget to take some kind of map of the city - print out that map of the RLD but also have something which at least has the centre on it, even if it's just a printout from Google. Either that or get a free map from somewhere, but they aren't always particularly detailed if you are looking for a specific address.

Finally, don't get upset if a session goes badly, or if losing your virginity feels completely different to how you anticipated. It doesn't always feel emotionally comfortable having sex in this kind of situation, so don't expect it to go like clockwork every time. You can end up with a paradox where having sex doesn't actually feel all that sexy! Just brush off any disappointments and look forward to the next session, don't start mindgames with yourself where you start thinking "I couldn't get an erection with that really hot girl, maybe I'm gay, maybe I have erectile dysfunction..." or stupid stuff like that. The simple fact is that to have sex you need to feel at least fairly comfortable with the situation before you can get aroused. Once you feel comfortable and aroused, the rest will take care of itself! It's not rocket science, all I'm saying is that if you have an experience where it just isn't happening for some reason, don't worry about it, you are probably just feeling too tense or nervous to relax properly. When you are with a girl, try not to think too much.....just focus on the girl's skin, her boobs, her pussy, watch her mouth around your cock. You can't "make yourself" relax but you can focus on the sexyness of the situation, how it looks, how it feels, instead of thinking about whether the session is going OK, shouldn't I be hard by now, or focusing on your anxieties. And if you cum really quickly, so what, it doesn't matter, at least you're enjoying it! If it becomes an issue you can always try "tactical wanking" so that it takes you longer to cum in the next session....but hopefully you'll find that your nerves and super-horniness balance themselves out so that you can enjoy the session and cum inside the girl when you want to.

If you find a girl you really "click" with then consider going back to her. Yes, you are dealing with prostitutes, but they are people like anybody else and you will like some of them on a personal level more than others. Sometimes it can be an idea to try a girl at €50 then consider coming back for a longer €100 session if you think she's worth it. You just need to find a nice girl you like, and fuck her! If you are on a budget I would stick to €50 sessions at least for the first time with a girl, unless she's a known star performer and you've planned something extra special. It can be very easy to be persuaded to part with extra cash during a session and then regret it later, so decide what you are willing to spend before you go in.

Sorry for the long post.........I'm just back from Amsterdam so I'm in a good mood, and maybe I just like imagining what I would do if I was a 22 year-old virgin visiting Amsterdam for the first time!

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Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-08, 9:35 pm

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That is one hell of a post sir ^^. Well done. My advice is to relax, chill and just go with the flow. Amsterdam is a very relaxed place anyway. I wouldn't make too many plans, just do what you feel like doing. Girl wise, particularly for a first timer I'd recommend Ella, who is super friendly and a nice down to earth girl with perfect English, daty is also not a problem with her. Desi over in the singel is another friendly girl..I've only sessioned with her once but was really impressed with her attitude and service. Enjoy n have fun
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-08, 10:51 pm

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Thanks alot for that post, dont worry about it being long i actually am honored that you took the time to help a newbie out like me :D

I actually saw someone type on the Mary post earlier today and i was actually smitten by her. I don't like most black girls but some are so damn hot. Examples of girls i like are Misty Stone, Mya Lovely and Ana Foxxx but i dont really like Vanessa blue that much and Jada Fire (not a huge fan of big boobs anyway :P)
But she will definitely be in my short list. Hopefully she will look like the kinda girls i like.

Lily for some odd reason doesn't seem to catch my eye as the others did, i usually like Indian girls but i will definitely have a look.

Dunno about Angel Since i'm on a budget (max500 and that is being optimistic :P) since i have to see where i will be sleeping between 16th and 17th since durty nellys (they serve breakfast buffé and free wifi woho! :D) didnt have any beds available that night. Plus the food (but you have helped me out alot on that front <3)
I am naturally submissive in general and if she is the instigator then that would be awesome to be honest. I hate asking for things etc and would much rather have a girl take initiative in general so she might be very appealing to me. I will have to see how it goes :P

I will read more about Rosie later tonight and see how it goes but i will add her in the longlist for now :P.

Park 118 will be where i pop my cherry so to speak but i might go back there if there was 2 girls that i really liked or maybe go back to the same girl if i feel comfortable with her.
I was thinking of maybe going to the RLD to get a blowjob or something before going to park118 for the bigger event. (i think that would be 30 euro or something?). But i am not entirely certain yet if that would be a good idéa or not. Dunno if i should masturbate before Park118 or how long before i should do it. but i was planning on 2-4 hours beofore the park 118.

The biggest fear i have of doing anything with any girls is that im very self aware and i hate being a bother on anyone. So if the girl does anything with me and i feel that she does it "forced" then i will most likely have a shit time (just the way i am i guess...)
I'm pretty overweight too and i even hate looking into the mirror since i feel sad etc. I'm going to try and lose weight but i can't really manage doing that in just 5 days XD.
But yeah im a pretty sensitive and vulnarable kinda guy so that is the biggest problem i have. If i cant get it up then i know it's the nerves etc and that won't be the problem. What scares me is the mirrors i've read about that are in the room which makes me anxious.
I will try and forget that as much as i can and focus on having a good time but feelings sometimes wont be controlled.

I have my phone with google maps btw and i'm wondering if that will be sufficient enough or if a physical copy would still be required.

Thank you for your help and time i really appreciate it. I would also like to thank all the other people that have been helping me out since it really means alot to me to have had so many people trying to help me! :D

I will try and do as good of a trip report as possible once i get there :)

Shortlist
Wallen, Stoofsteeg 1-1, Mary (Nights)
Simona(Wallen, Sint Annenstraat 122, (Afternoon/Nigh)
Agneskia( Oudezijds Achterburgwal 72-3,) 4pm-2am
Veronika( , Stoofsteeg 3-1) tall ruski
Petite Ella (Bethlemsteeg 10)


Longlist
Wallen, Stoofsteeg 10-R, Elena (Days)
Wallen, Stoofsteeg 12, Lilly (Days)
Maybe:
Wallen, Oudezijds Achterburgwal 110, Rosie (Nights)
Wallen, Stoofsteeg 10-L, Angel (Days)
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-08, 11:32 pm

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Dreaded? If you're desperate? I love FEBO! If they had FEBO here in Toronto, I'd be 500 pounds.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 1:15 am

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Looking at photos of those 3 black girls you like, I think Mary might float your boat!

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I was thinking of maybe going to the RLD to get a blowjob or something before going to park118 for the bigger event.


You could do if you fancy it, although the price will be a minimum of €50 with most of the girls, even if you just want a blowjob.

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Dunno if i should masturbate before Park118 or how long before i should do it. but i was planning on 2-4 hours beofore the park 118.


Makes me wish I was 22 again.......for me I would be thinking about stopping masturbating 2-4 days before going to Amsterdam, just to make me a bit more horny, LOL. See how you are feeling.......as you get closer to the event do you have a raging hardon that you need to suppress, or are you feeling a bit nervous and not so horny? It's your body so you're the best one to judge.

That Durty Nelly's looks like a good location, Warmoesstraat is right next to the RLD, very central, and that street has a good atmosphere I always think.

With the RLD girls.......yes, you'll just have to see who actually catches your eye; you don't need to have a rigid plan of who you're seeing (although you will need to budget fairly carefully) but it helps to have a range of options where you have some confidence that the girl will give you a good session (trying unknown girls is fun but it does eat up a lot of €€€s before you hit gold, lots of them will be €50 CBJ only and you can't always trust them even if you pay another €50!!). Sure, if you have a good time at Park 118, maybe go there again. If you do like a particular girl it can be useful to ask her what days she will be working during the rest of your trip.

If you feel a bit self-conscious about "being a bother" to the girls, just remember that their job involves a lot of standing around waiting, and if you visit them they will be pleased to have a customer! They won't pay much attention to how you look, as long as you've bothered to shower that day and you treat them with respect that's the main thing. Remember they have feelings too, just be gentle and friendly, it goes a long way. I think of it like I'm paying for some time with the girl, and what she actually does or doesn't want to do is her choice. If you don't know what to say to them just ask them where they are from, how old they are, tell them its your first time in Amsterdam, compliment them if you think they are hot - if you are feeling shy or awkward sometimes its better just to be honest and say so, just so they understand why you might seem a bit quiet or whatever. Most girls will say "Oh you don't need to be shy with me!!!" and of course it's true! They've seen everything!

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But yeah im a pretty sensitive and vulnarable kinda guy so that is the biggest problem i have.


I think it's just a question of finding the right girl - with some you might feel a bit self-conscious, others will just feel "right" and you can open up a little bit with them. Some girls have a genuine warmth in their personality that comes across; if they think you are a nice person some of them will make a real effort to make sure you enjoy yourself.

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What scares me is the mirrors i've read about that are in the room which makes me anxious.


Sometimes in the prives they have them, not so common in the RLD (or at least I don't tend to notice them). My advice - look at the girl in the mirror, not at yourself! I don't think many of us on Ignatzmice are male model material, so the girls are already used to fairly low standards in the looks department ;) You can blame FEBO for that.....

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I will try and forget that as much as i can and focus on having a good time but feelings sometimes wont be controlled.


Yeah, that's true. Don't be discouraged by one or two awkward experiences; you might find that you gradually get used to being naked in front of strange girls and your hangups disappear when you realise the girls just aren't bothered by the same things you are.

Google maps on your phone should be fine (don't know how much data it uses, my phone is extremely basic). It can be handy to have a little paper map just to get an overview of the city, you might find one in your hostel or wherever they have free leaflets (quite often there will be a free city map with adverts printed on the back, so keep an eye out for one).

Have a good time, there's a lot of advice in this thread but ultimately you have to "do your own thing" depending on how you feel. Everyone is different, which makes reading trip reports interesting!

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Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 2:04 am

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Makes me wish I was 22 again.......for me I would be thinking about stopping masturbating 2-4 days before going to Amsterdam, just to make me a bit more horny, LOL


Thats unfortunate :P I'm almost always horny as hell lol. I need to masturbate 1-2 times a day or i tend to be very stressed or my body will feel weird. Ive actually only done it twice in the last 3 weeks cause i'm not alone and abroad in another country xD Horny AF almost all the time :(
We will see how it goes :P

That Durty Nelly's looks like a good location, Warmoesstraat is right next to the RLD, very central, and that street has a good atmosphere I always think.

With the RLD girls.......yes, you'll just have to see who actually catches your eye; you don't need to have a rigid plan of who you're seeing (although you will need to budget fairly carefully) but it helps to have a range of options where you have some confidence that the girl will give you a good session (trying unknown girls is fun but it does eat up a lot of €€€s before you hit gold, lots of them will be €50 CBJ only and you can't always trust them even if you pay another €50!!). Sure, if you have a good time at Park 118, maybe go there again. If you do like a particular girl it can be useful to ask her what days she will be working during the rest of your trip.


Yeah i got a night for like 25-30 euro or something which was one of the cheapest i could find that seemed close to the center and RLD aswell as offer lockers and breakfast. The atmosphere there seemed great too. Besides who doesn't love an irish bar ;)

I think i will keep the unknown ones to the next time when i have abit more money xD And abit more experience.

Thanks for the confidence boost, kinda need it since i have never traveled to an unknown country by myself. Not just that i'm trying out untested waters that i have never even considered before so it really helps.

Actually on another note, i saw a report about Simona and i really liked what i read. She did anal with someone which seemed to be quite hot and nice. Now i have never even considered doing anal before and i don't really know much more than the occasional scenes in porn. But is it worth doing anal or should i leave it for another trip perhaps? Would it be worth the 50% more or ?

Thanks again. I will make sure to do a proper trip report when i can :P
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 2:50 am

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I need to masturbate 1-2 times a day or i tend to be very stressed or my body will feel weird.


Usually I'm the same, I feel horny when I'm at home but I do find that in general it's more difficult to cum during sex than if you were wanking. There's a condom involved for a start, which slightly lessens the sensation from the girl's pussy, and there can be other things like does she use a lot of lube, how tight is her pussy, are you fully hard (can be easy to lose sensation and then your hardon if your dick isn't fully hard and isn't getting enough stimulation during sex). I don't normally try to have sex more than once per day in Amsterdam, that way I stay fairly horny and cum more easily, plus I couldn't afford much more anyway.

If I'm going a bit soft during sex, sometimes I find it helps to just pull out, jerk off a bit until I'm hard again, then put it back in! Most girls are OK with this although some can be funny about you touching the condom (the sensible ones get you to wash your hands before you start). It can be a little bit awkward if a girl is rushing a session and switches from BJ to sex before she's got you properly hard. The good ones have you lying there thinking "if you keep sucking my cock like that I'm going to cum before we even get to the sex!" and there can be quite a difference in technique.

But you're young and horny so I don't think you'll be affected by too many of these issues - provided you feel relaxed you should be able to enjoy the sex and cum gallons!

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But is it worth doing anal or should i leave it for another trip perhaps?


To be honest I've never tried anal, a nice tight pussy is enough for me. If it's your first time and you're on a budget it would seem sensible to leave anal for another trip and just enjoy the pussy for now.

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Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 3:51 am

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Yeah we will see how often i can go and what i can do. Thanks for the tip s. I'm very eager for the trip right now can't wait xD

Yeah i guess anal isnt that important :P
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 6:19 am

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Simona does do anal. It was very possibly my report you read that in, I've done that with her a few times. It is an extra with her, though, so it'll cost you another €50. I'm a regular and usually do long sessions with her, so we kind of have a special rate for long "anything goes" sessions with all extras included.

To be honest, anal is nothing special. It's fun to try every now and then, and it's kind of hot because it's different and a little taboo, but honestly, pussy feels better. Best way I can really explain it is that the actual opening is very tight, but once you actually get in there, it doesn't really feel like too much. Vaginas have much more texture and muscular control to them. Kinda makes sense, they're designed for sex, assholes are not.

If your budget is limited, I'd save anal for another time. It will cost extra with almost any girl most likely, so unless it's something you really, absolutely must try it now, it's probably not worth it.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 6:36 am

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Looking at photos of those 3 black girls you like, I think Mary might float your boat!


I missed that comment before. Thats awesome though :D damn makes me more excited now.


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If your budget is limited, I'd save anal for another time. It will cost extra with almost any girl most likely, so unless it's something you really, absolutely must try it now, it's probably not worth it.


Ah okey. I will most likely save for another time cause it really doesn't seem to be very important for me anyway. So many guys in tv shows or even other places hype anal so much. I know a friend of myn ghat bought his gf a 3000 euro necklace to have anal with her. (Wife actually)
That is some expensive booty lol.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 7:02 am

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Fuck, 3 grand for anal... bet he had a bad case of buyer's remorse pretty much right away.

People do hype anal a lot. It's sort of the forbidden fruit. It's a bit of a pop culture meme. It's fun and I like having the option to do it, but it's really nothing particularly special.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 7:36 am

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Fuck, 3 grand for anal... bet he had a bad case of buyer's remorse pretty much right away.

People do hype anal a lot. It's sort of the forbidden fruit. It's a bit of a pop culture meme. It's fun and I like having the option to do it, but it's really nothing particularly special.


He never told me which doesn't surprise me since it's his wife we were talking about xD he was pretty drunk when he told me of his intentions. I did however see him and his wife 3 weeks later "celebrating" their anniversary with a damn fine necklace xD all i could do was giggle.

Hmm I've been thinking. Would it be fun to perhaps make a poll with my ahortlist and make something fun with it to liven up the other forums orwould that be a waste of time? :P

Considering the reviews im assuming agnieska would win by a milestone xD
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 3:41 pm

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Something that might be worth thinking about.........what to say when the girl asks "what position do you want?"

In a prive or with a decent RLD girl it shouldn't be an issue to switch positions during the session (different positions work better with different girls and its nice to have a bit of variety), but what do you actually want to start with, after the CBJ?

Missionary is nice, you get a good view of the girl, but I find that as I don't have good upper body strength it can kill my arms if I'm resting my weight on my palms, looking down at the girl in a sort of "press-ups" position. It can be very intimate to get much closer to the girl, with your weight resting on her a bit more, but I only feel comfortable doing this if I'm very familiar with the girl (otherwise I would feel a bit mean squashing her!). I suppose you can go for a position slightly in-between (closer to the girl but not right on top of her, resting your weight on your elbows / forearms) but either way I don't find missionary the easiest position for an entire fuck (although it can be rather nice when I'm ready to cum, with a petite cutie lying back submissively with her pretty pussy on display). It might just be my poor technique but that's my personal experience.....

I do enjoy doggy very much, especially if the girl has a slim waist and a nice shapely ass. It's a comfortable position that feels natural and doesn't require any stamina because you're fairly upright, just resting your weight on your knees. Also it's nice to hold the girl's waist / ass, you can control the pace of the fuck to suit yourself, and I have to admit it does feel sexy to penetrate a girl in that position.

Cowgirl (girl on top facing you) can be very good if the girl knows what she's doing. It's minimal effort as you can just lie there and watch her lower herself onto your pole, and let her take control of the fuck. The view is nice because you are looking up at her jiggling tits! In a lot of my prive sessions (in Asmara) it was pretty standard for the girl to climb on top to start the session, but whether it works for me depends on what kind of movements the girl is making (if the girl leans forward a bit and then sits back down on my cock it gives a nice piston kind of movement, if she's just sat grinding on me it doesn't do much, and if she leans back too far *FFS MY COCK DOES NOT BEND THAT WAY*

Lying on your side spooning the girl from behind can be nice and very intimate, although I don't usually try it in the RLD, feels nicer in a proper bed. Does feel good to press yourself urgently up against a girls bumcheeks as you get closer to orgasm, and cop a good feel of her tits while you're at it ;)

That's about the limit of my usual repertoire (depending on the type of bed it can be nice to try something like standing doggy in a prive, also I do enjoy the "prone bone" occasionally which is basically doggy with the girl lying flat on her tummy). I've tried a few other things but found them uncomfortable.

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Hmm I've been thinking. Would it be fun to perhaps make a poll with my ahortlist and make something fun with it to liven up the other forums or would that be a waste of time? :P


Well, you could start another thread (in the same Amsterdam section) explaining that you've made your decision on your actual "first time", you've done some research and got a shortlist of RLD girls, and now you just want some personal suggestions for good €50 fucks or opinions on your long-list. To be honest Elena & Rosie are not well known on here at all (except by me it seems, LOL), Mary and Angel have a few other reviews but not many....these are more my personal suggestions, and it would be useful to get other people's personal suggestions (you can specify what type of girl you ideally are looking for, e.g must be good at €50, slightly more confident / dominant, what kind of age range is acceptable to you. Vague threads like "who are some nice girls in the RLD" tend to get ignored as it looks like you haven't bothered to read any reviews, but there's no harm starting a thread along the lines of "I've got these girls on my shortlist so far, would you suggest anyone else?"

Also, have you seen the Top Ten Girls thread? I think the 2015 one is the latest one.

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The results of the Top 10 Listed Girls Poll 2015 are as follows:

1st) Max 88 pts
2nd) Agnieszka 86 pts
3rd) German Kim 52 pts
4th) Veronika Stoof 44 pts
5th) Ella Beth 40 pts
6th=) Polish Anna 36 pts
6th=) Hayley Singel 36 pts
8th=) Emma 16 pts
8th=) Sammy De Pijp 16 pts
8th=) Lily Stoof 16 pts


I'm pretty sure Max (1) and German Kim (3) are retired now, you've already got 2, 4 & 5 on your shortlist, and we've mentioned Lily or Lilly, however you want to spell it (joint 8th) already. Worth searching for the other ones in the "Window Girls" section to see what the fuss is about, although I can't guarantee all of them are still working - apart from Lily I tend to stick with my own idiosyncratic private harem ;)

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Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 9:48 pm

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I've lost track of most of what's happening in this thread, but reading some of Alderbran's last post I do remember, from the quoted shortlist, Hayley in the Singel. She is great, would definitely provide you a more girlfriend like experience, plus loads of conversation as English is perfect. Don't know whether it's your thing, but she likes fantasy novels.
she was often sat in a chair in the window reading a book when I saw her.

regarding positions, she is brilliant in the three traditional ones, missionary, girl on top and doggy.

It was interesting reading your post, Alderbran about not wanting to lie to close in missionary when you are not so familiar with a girl. I have the upper body strength but tend to just lie close if I want to, ADVICE to Matri (have I spelt it correct ;) just go for it.
Re: 22 yo virgin looking to lose it. But how?
Posted: 2016-07-09, 10:42 pm

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I've lost track of most of what's happening in this thread


Well, looks like flight and accommodation are sorted (Durty Nelly's hostel on Warmoesstraat) with the possible exception of one night which was fully booked....

The actual cherry-popping event location has been settled as Park 118

There's a pretty solid shortlist of RLD girls, and I was suggesting adding a few names to make it a longlist (just because of the annoying tendency of girls to not be there when you start looking for them).

Some stuff about cheap food and non-RLD stuff to see in Amsterdam, some more general advice about not feeling self-conscious e.t.c

I think that's about it....I was just turning to the more fun decisions like which position would you pick first if this was your first time ever.....

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It was interesting reading your post, Alderbran about not wanting to lie to close in missionary when you are not so familiar with a girl.


Yeah, I guess that's just a personal hang-up of mine. I think partly it was because I was paranoid about making sure the condom was still fully covering everything in contact with the girl's pussy, so I found it difficult to "let go" and have close, intimate sex. Also I do like to watch the view of the girl beneath me in mish......eyes, boobs, pussy...until my arms give out LOL

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