I'm just wondering, which do you think is better, sex with a normal girl (like a girlfriend or after a nightclub) vs sex with a RLD girl?

The RLD provides a sensual erotica experience, dim lit red rooms at night, mirrors in kamers etc. Which for me is what makes it all that much more exciting. It's the thrill for me. If it wasn't a district, it wouldn't really appeal to me at all. This is a difficult one for me to answer, but, I'll explain it like this, amsterdam sex is limited, I see it as purely (PSE) penetrative sex, rather than being really intimate.

Hookers from the uk piss all over, Amsterdam sex workers and are usually better than majority of normal girls you would meet. The intimacy is all there and that's the reason, why many men get attached or just develop a prostitute habit, because the sex is either, usually miles better, provides them with a real like GFE, conveinience, can act out on things they can't or couldn't in a relationship or with the average girl from there neighbourhood, due to worry of disclosure with peers for example.

Amsterdam is not a good place, if you enjoy a well done bj, 90% will perform it covered, won't allow you to ejaculate near them etc. Which takes a lot out of the fun of receiving a bj. It is a good place, if you want to fuck a lot of girls in a very conveinient and frequent manner, you could go in one kamer, finish, then if you wanted to, go next door. Don't mistake me, I'm not saying Amsterdam sex is pretty bad, but it is mechanical, negotiations over what's sought after, sex without kissing for the most part, it's really safe sex. It could be better, but that's dependant, you'll never get the intimacy there, from a girl in your personal life.

Hope this answers you

The thing is that they want to do pretty much everything with a condom, which kind of numbs any sensations. I saw people say on this forum that they do allow hand jobs without a condom, but if they don't want you to ejaculate near them then how is this so?

I'm just trying to find out as much info as possible before my first visit in a few months.

A long post but I got carried away with my reminiscences.............

Firstly, you're implying that RLD girls are not normal ;)

I know you don't mean it any derogatory way, but quite a lot of the RLD girls are very "normal" and friendly in terms of personality, others may have more "professional distance" or put on a bit of an act..........it can all be quite sexy in different contexts.......the hot, chatty girl-next-door type you wish was your girlfriend, the shy and submissive young eurocutie who lets you do what you want and quietly thanks you afterwards, the girl who really acts like a full-on prostitute and talks dirty to get you off, the naughty and slightly crazy unpredictable girl who is a bit of a livewire but is too beautiful to ignore.....

Like Amsterdamaged has already said, a big difference is that the sex can be very mechanical and less intimate in the RLD, and the need for safe sex makes certain activities less physically enjoyable, with the trade-off that it can be very exciting compared to a cosy night in with a regular girlfriend.

The comparison to the "girl after a nightclub" option really depends on what kind of girls you are realistically going to be going home with! For me that kind of thing just doesn't happen - the girls that would realistically respond to my efforts are not going to be the kind of girls I'm fantasizing about, not by a long way! If I was a premiership footballer it would be my preferred option..... but even some of those guys seem to enjoy prostitutes purely for convenience and excitement. Sometimes you don't want to lovingly pleasure a girl, you just want to fuck her, say cheerio and then go for a beer!

That's the main difference I suppose. Do you fantasize about loving, intimate sex with a partner who cares deeply about you, or do you tend to look at the pert bottoms of girls half your age and think "I really wouldn't mind some of that".

I think everyone wants a little bit of both, but for a lot of guys the beautiful girls are permanently unobtainable in "real life" or they are now too young to realistically chase. In the RLD they are not. For example, when I was in my early 20s I knew some very lovely and very sexy Spanish students, but these girls were a bit out of my league (in hindsight I should have swallowed my pride and begged one of them, maybe two together, I'm not fussy, for a charity fuck to end the humiliation of my continued virginity). They liked me but it was the kind of friendship where the girl thinks you would make a lovely boyfriend........for someone else.......presumably not quite so hot :(

I've just come back from Amsterdam where I picked out a insanely hot girl, very close to my ideal fantasy in many ways, only to find that she's Spanish as a bonus! I was so turned on during my second visit to her that I'll never forget the sight of her sat astride me in cowgirl position .... it's the excitement of thinking to yourself "My ideal fantasy girl..... is this one just here" as you put your hands on her ass and cum in her pussy. For this kind of girl, my main concern is just an urge to put my cock in her, I don't really care if it's great sex or not, I don't want a loving relationship, I just want to see her naked, touch her, penetrate her.... and cum in her. Of course a downside of the insanely hot girls is that they can be insanely irritating when it comes to negotiations and pricing...... but that's another story. You are close to cumming inside the most beautiful girl you have ever fucked and she's telling you it's going to be another €50 baby because your time has run out.... it's annoying, but let's face it, it's not going to be the worst moment of your life...



Some girls will offer bareback handjobs, certainly. A typical scenario is that you have fucked them in a couple of positions, your time is nearly up, you can't cum, and they offer you a handjob to finish (the nice girls anyway) or they start asking for more money to continue the session. They may offer to remove the condom, perhaps use some lube - it's more fun for you and the benefit for them is that you are likely to cum more quickly, before their arm starts aching. Remember that a handjob is easy money compared to letting a stranger fuck you.

Some girls, as you say, just do not want any kind of spunk flying around and ending up on their towels e.t.c, so they won't do a BBHJ (they might change their mind for €s but it's better to ask beforehand and find a girl who is happy with BBHJ for the regular rate, if its how you intend to finish). Some girls don't use a towel, they wipe down the plastic mattress with cleaning spray between clients so a bit of cum is not the end of the world. Also in some kamers I've seen them use big rolls of paper, so that you are lying on what is basically a massive piece of disposable tissue!

As you can tell, it's not really an intimate scenario of cuddles and valentine's cards, but sometimes the whole slightly seedy scenario is part of the turn-on. I remember two sessions in particular where I really enjoyed the RLD atmosphere itself as much as the girl. One was a fuck with a very sexy Hungarian teen (before the minimum age change) in a tiny back room in Molensteeg, it was around midnight and it just felt so deliciously naughty to be somewhere at the end of a dark corridor with my cock in this girl from behind (she was quite dirty actually, the kind of girl who would let you slip a finger into her pussy).

The other time was a very mechanical session with a hot babe on Bethlemsteeg. She was a eurohotty from Romania or Bulgaria in her early 20s, good body, I can't remember the name partly because she was so businesslike it didn't register - "give me €50, put your clothes there". She blows me expertly to hardness then lies back for me to fuck her, legs open, fake tits on display, with a face like a teenage Kaya Scodelario (she was in a series called "Skins" playing a teenage schoolgirl, where I think she wore fishnets in her first scene...). I think this red light girl may have had stockings or boots or something like that still on, she was saying stuff like "oh yes baby, fuck me" in a kind of slightly bored and fake but still arousing voice and accent, she was actually talking me into an orgasm as if she knew precisely how long it would take to get me off........ I must have been in and out of that kamer in ten minutes and I really felt like I'd had a proper red light fuck with a total prostitute who was in complete control (I don't even normally go for girls with fake tits, but if you see the Wikipedia pictures of Kaya Scodelario you can understand that a girl with a similar face and physique, standing around in her underwear offering her body for sex, would be rather appealing)...

And finally, as far as ejaculating near the girls during a BBHJ goes, you will probably be lying down and the girl will be able to angle your cock so that the spunk lands over your belly and not her... although I did manage to get some on the tit of a busty UK babe a long time ago. More recently I've discovered that Elena (now a blonde) has quite a dainty handjob technique where she only seems to use a couple of fingers, and doesn't even get much over her hand (which is a shame, I like the sight of my cum oozing through a girl's fingers ;)

And Elena is at the other end of the spectrum of RLD girls, a young lady who is genuinely lovely as well as being a decent €50 fuck with a beautiful face, gorgeous tits and a curvy young body. It's not exactly intimate GFE sex necessarily, but a session with a girl like that is great because she is so natural, talkative and friendly. A really normal, cheerful young girl-next-door, assuming the girl next door is totally gorgeous and willing to whip her clothes off for your sexual pleasure at a moments notice for €50...

just want to quickly say - fantastic replies from both linkbat and amsterdamaged here, so thanks to both!

can't really repeat what's already been said, but just take the RLD for what it is. personally - and i'm sure people will disagree with me - i rarely go for anything over a 50 euro session for these reasons. it's a quick thrill; 20 minutes with a stunner i'd very unlikely get to go with "in real life".

it's mechanical, yes - but depends on how you look at it. if you feel like being in your own porno for 15 minutes or so, then the RLD is the way to go :)

if you're looking for balls deep cervix tickling fun with lots of sweat, kissing and whispering of sweet nothings, then you might have to bite the bullet and get a girlfriend LOL :D

like I said previously, if Amsterdam, wasn't Amsterdam, the district was just hotels, vacating girls or brothels or whatever else, it really wouldn't excite nor appeal to me HolyShitBSE, it is like you're starring in your own porn film in those kamers, I find the whole experience very arousing, you take a lap and see, who catches your eye, then your in some dimmed red lit room, with some hot strange girl, with mirrors, that you can enjoy the experience even more.

It's great when you visit a good mirrored kamer, I recall feeling like Christian Bale, when he played Patrick Bateman in American Psycho, during the threesome scene. like I mentioned, I treat it as some intense fucking and aim for a real porn star experience. it's much better this way. a variety of no strings fun. I know plenty of guys, with gf's, you just wouldn't be disloyal towards, sadly many are and love the idea of a ''business'' trip to Amsterdam. It's not something, you just experience day to day life.

Some of the best looking girls, experiences and shag's, I've personally had are in Amsterdam. you can get ''some'' foreplay, but just don't expect to be really intimate, that's all. because, that's not how the girls provide service in Amsterdam. it's safe. if you love to fuck, it's fantastic for that, because you can do so, and visit girl to girl. I'm not particularly concerned about a CBJ, yet, still I've had every session start this way and it CAN be enjoyable and good, don't think, just because a condom is used, it should be disregarded completely, I've been pleasured really well by a CBJ, which surprised me, because I used to think it was pointless. if her technique is good, it will still be ok, but enthusiasm provider is required, otherwise it may well be poor.

I remember some girls lightly kiss me and 2 even lovebite me, you can receive some of this, very rare for DFK. I think this will vary greatly per individual. the last girl I visited, I was in a rush to leave and she just grabbed me tightly and kissed my neck and both cheeks strongly 4 or 5 times, complemented me and on I left. she gave me a hell of a time for just 50e, she even washed my cock and danced for me before we began, unfortunately she is no longer around.