I'm heading to Amsterdam for the first time on Thursday til Sunday with a few friends, whilst there I plan to lose my virginity because why not. I have a few questions:
1. Asmara or Park118 (I know Park118 has a better rep)
2. Does the attractiveness of the girls differ between the two prives?
3. Who is the most attractive out of either/ Who would you recommend for my first time and why?
4. Should I not masturbate for a few days before?
5. Who is the youngest girl? (I'm 19 so I would prefer someone closer to my age but this doesn't matter much.
6. Is the bath/jacuzzi option worth it for an extra 30/50 euro?

I know that attractiveness is subjective so I guess the type of girl I'm most attracted to is: Blonde, slim/slightly curvy, C cups. (But to be honest I'd probably fuck any girl). Thanks in advance!

1. Park 118 is the one you want. Asmara is awful; all their website pics are fake (notice how no names are given), the place feels dirty and depressing, the girls look like they don't want to be there and some will blatantly rip you off (e.g. I got asked for more money to continue after about twenty minutes of bad service despite paying for the one hour €160 option). Just go with Park 118; it has its reputation for a reason.

2. Park 118 girls are by far more attractive to me. It helps that they actually seem like they want to be there.

3. A little too subjective to give a good answer to this, and I generally find most girls attractive anyway as long as they don't look down and depressed. You'll get to see all the available girls before you choose anyway, so you can make your decision then. One word of warning: While I'm sure some girls would love the opportunity to take a guys virginity, I know at least one girl at Park 118 who will charge €25 extra if she knows you're a virgin, since she regards it as extra work. I don't know how common this is though, and I think a girl would usually make your experience better if you let her know.

4. Depends on you. If you think you might struggle to cum, then yeah, avoid I generally avoid masturbation for up to a week if I'm planning to see a girl because I feel that I can make the most of the experience that way.

5. Not sure. Profile ages generally aren't accurate, so you might have more luck checking reports on here and hookers.nl. One thing to remember though is that younger girls may be less experienced, so it could be advantageous to consider a slightly older girl if age difference is not otherwise a hugely important factor.

6. Personally I'd say no, but it depends on my mood and what kind of experience in want. I usually feel that the bath is just time I could've spent doing more fun things.

One more pointer regarding Park 118: DFK, DATY, BBBJ are extras on top of the €95 cost, and different girls will charge different amounts for these things (usually between €30 and €50 per extra), so bear this in mind if you're interested in these things.

Excellent advice from Jimmy.

Re: 5. I second that you should consider a girl slightly older and more experienced. In my opinion she will make your first time even better. For you perhaps late 20s, although I wouldn't rule out a 30 yo.

Judging by how my first time went, I would suggest getting your hands on a viagra pill. I got overly nervous first time in Amsterdam which caused a malfunction issue. If you get what I mean!
This will load you with confidence and take away any pre sex jitters. They are not as extreme as people make out. haha.

Other than that, yeah I would go for someone older, but maybe that wont matter too much as the majority of girls here have plenty of experience of all kinds of situations.

Personally I have never even been to any of the clubs though, Ive always found it easier and less pressure to walk past windows, and when I see someone I like, walk past another few times until she calls me over haha. but thats just me!

Whatever you choose to do, you will nodoubtedly have a great time, just relax and let her take control. have fun!

A prive is a good idea for a more relaxed session with less time pressure, could be a good option for losing your virginity, Park 118 sounds like the best option at the moment. Prives don't always have the youngest girls (in any case the minimum age of the girls is now 21) but it might be better to go with a nice girl who is slightly older than you, as per the advice in the previous posts.



My main reason for posting on this thread is to suggest a very nice girl in the RLD who might float your boat - Elena at Stoofsteeg 10-R. If you walk into Stoofsteeg from the Oudezijds Achterburgwal (OzA) canal end (OzA is the main canal with the red light windows on it, the entrance to Stoofsteeg is near the Casa Rosso theatre) then 10-R is the 4th window on your left.

Elena is young-looking and very hot (about 23/24), slim but slightly curvy with lovely natural B/C cups, hair dyed blonde. She's really friendly and chatty and won't rip you off.

Also if you are there over the weekend and happen to see a beautiful girl of Indian appearance in Stoofsteeg 12 (1st window on your left coming from OzA, so 3 doors away from Elena) that should be Lilly. Doesn't exactly fit your description but she's very slim and gorgeous and is another extremely nice girl, but isn't free very often so dive in if you get the chance ;)

Those are two of the nicest girls you could want to meet, both really good looking , so if you fancy a punt in the RLD after your prive experience and you can find either of these girls.... go for it.

Enjoy your trip!