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First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-03, 11:15 am

V225225
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I'm going to be in Amsterdam for a flying visit at the end of the month, and considering finally getting shot of my v-card.

Bit of backgound im 30yo (Yes 30!) and up to about a year ago have been happy to wait for the right person to come along but with my chronic shyness and nervousness around girls and the fact i'm not exactly that good looking i've come to the conclusion that i'm going to just get a pro to hopefully relieve some pressure on myself and get some confidence so i might actually be able to even approach girls. I always said to myself if it hadn't happened by the time i'm 30 just go and pay for it.

Anyway as it's worked out i've got a night and a day in Amsterdam and after reading around here and other sites for a while i've come up with sort of plan and wondering what people think and if there are any other suggestions?

I arrive late evening and am staying in a hotel close to centraal station, i'm thinking of going a wander round the RLD that night and maybe try to find Agneskia and getting the first time over with as lets face it after relieving myself to porn daily for all my life it's either going to over in seconds or i'll be too nervous for anything to happen at all. Any other suggestions of girls that work evenings that may be good? I've read about ella but she is only days.

Anyway the next day after doing touristy stuff, i'm thinking of going to Park 118 and taking a longer session that hopefully i'll be less awkward at and be able to relax a bit more and enjoy a bit better. Any thoughts for alternatives or other suggestions?

I have thought about getting an escort service to my hotel but with it being only one night and not arriving until about 10pm that night think thats not really possible.
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-03, 8:46 pm

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What dates are you going? Ill be there from 21st till 24th.

Haven't been in a while but id definitely try one of the girls recommended on here, can be hit and miss otherwise.
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-03, 9:31 pm

V225225
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Will be there the week later on the 30th.

I'm going to try to just stick to well reviewed girls.
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-05, 1:06 am

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@OP - Curious to read about your experience :)
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-05, 5:30 am

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1) Have more than one on your list. You never know when you will be foiled by an unexpected night off, or a closed curtain.

2) Stick to girls well known to be good providers. You can afford to get ripped off by a random stunner later, but you don't want to start that way. Agneskia and SImona are well-know nighttime girls

3) Spend a little more and take your time to relax. A little play and a massage may do wonders helping you relax. 15 minutes is not likely to leave you with a good impression.

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Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-05, 6:51 am

V225225
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Thanks for the tips, ill post a short report good or bad when I get back :)
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-08, 4:18 pm

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Hello V225225

I'd like to make a suggestion which could take some of the pressure off. Firstly, by all means check out the girl reviews and list a few which you think would be good, Agniezka, etc.

I would approach these girls and maybe just go for a hand job in the first instance. So much less pressure than losing your v-card as you say and this gives you a bit of experience as to what it's like once the curtain has been drawn and your in the room with one of th girls. Alternatively, maybe just ask for a blow-job and then see how you feel after that.

If the girl(s) have treated you well for the hand-job or blow-job session then maybe they'd be a good choice to see later for losing that v-card.

It's just a suggestion but it would go some way as to taking a lot of the pressure off for a first-time.

Good luck fella.

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Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-08, 5:56 pm

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I would recommend you don’t go into this being too budget-conscious. As others have said, you want to take your time. I would not be looking to lose your virginity on a €50, 15 minute session. I’d pay for an hour, relax, chat a bit beforehand, generally at the price point you’d be paying (usually €150-200), the service tends to be better, unless you did really bad and picked an absolutely awful girl. I’d stick to well-reviewed girls if you can, but if not, make sure to ask questions before you go in.

Don’t get ripped off, obviously, but don’t cheap out on your first time. You only get to make that memory once.
Re: First timer in all aspects
Posted: 2018-05-08, 6:19 pm

V225225
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Thanks for your thoughts both,

My original idea was exactly that tinovino, go in with a starter session of maybe just a hand or blow, then to follow that with a longer session probably at park 118.

I agree as well not to go cheap, if i had longer in amsterdam i would probably of tried the virgin experience from society service but with the flying visit nature it's not really possible.

At the minute i've got a few girls to look out for and i'll go in not expecting much with maybe a 30min session and nothing much more than a blow, if it goes well i could always extend the session for more.

The next day i'll head to park 118 and try for an hour with a jacuzzi before to relax a bit before trying to go further.

Thanks again for peoples responses
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