>>>Here is my .02..

>do you like it on your face

>>>FUCK YES. I love facials. They only happen once or twice a year but god do they turn me on. I love having him kneel above me while pinning my arms down and just blowing his load everywhere. A close second is having my mouth fucked and then him cumming down my lips and chin.

oh Starr you are are a gal after my own heart! glad to find a fellow cum fan! (very few of my gfs "get" how much fun it is) it is a major part of my sex with kyle. i love having tose cum shots at least once a week, never get tired of them. novelty NEVER wears off...


>do you like to swallow

>>>Surely. This too is a rare occasion but he tastes so good I even love the little pre-dribbled taste I get in day-to-day activity.

shame these are so rare for you! Or do you not mind? would you like to have facials and swallow sessions more often? i would go crazy having them only occasionally


>does it turn you on (as it does me) when the guy tastes his own cum in front of you?

>>>Fuck NO. Sorry girlfriend this doesn't work for me although oddly enough him watching me taste ME is just ducky.

that is the total beauty of our whole bizare twisted human species! different strokes for different folks,.,..,

i totally get that you enjoy him watching you taste yourself. i feel extra dirty when kyle sees me taste myself - either on his fingers, or on another guy's fingers or cock - or off one of my dildos

but i also find it amazingly hot when kyle tastes himself. to me it's his equivalent of when i taste myself - and it;s SOOOOO dirty and taboo and fucking DEPRAVED that it drives me crazy with just the IDEA of it. it's very much a head trip to do with depravity. and you can't get sweeter than depavity! ;-)

ignatbandit wrote:

>I like the money shot. I prefer to see cum in the mouth and swallowed, rather that the girl spiting it out or just over the tits.

I hate seeing it spat out! waste of good cum!

breast sprays are not as good as facials - but they are the best i can do with untested guys

>By the way, swapping cum is called "snowballing".

yum!

>I find that after smoking marijuana and coming to climax, my ejaculations are very strong, and after the initial 4 or 5 ejaculations, the "organ" continues to pulsate with a frequency of once every 1 or 2 seconds, completely emptying the balls of all cum.

ok - if we ever find ourselves together in a hotel room - i insist you puff on big fat joint before you do me!!!

Trust me, I've been trying to do that for over 6 years... where is the magic slut button located? ;) Unfortunately, it's pretty much "Nil by Mouth" in our boudoir.

>Trust me, I've been trying to do that for over 6 years... where is the magic slut button located? ;) Unfortunately, it's pretty much "Nil by Mouth" in our boudoir.

Shame...

Obviously every individual is different. And you obviously like her enough (despite the lack of oral fun) to be with her for 6 years. So there has to have been - and still be - something that keeps you together.

For me the absolute key is total communication in which both people feel SAFE enough to fess up to totally bizarro likings without feeling that the other person will penalize you.

Kyle started by a conversation in GENERAL terms about how (as long as no one gets hurt) there are no such things as BAD sexual yearnings. Just quirky desires that arise from shards of our childhood that get twisted over time. And that we can either be ashamed of them. or celebrate them. He preferred the latter! But at any rate - he wanted us to be fully open with each other. I liked that he said that

He then started slowly fessing up to me about how he had fantasies about watching the woman he was with - doing it with other guys. Quite a gutsy thing for a guy to admit. and he encouraged me to admit MY wildest fantasies. And that;s when i started admitting that i loved it when cum had been shot on my face (accidentally during a blowjob)

from that - we opened up more to each other. i felt totally safe. however kinky my admissions - kyle would never mock me or make me feel bad about myself. and vice versa.

and it turned out that a lot of our wildest desires were complementary. He wanted to watch me - I wanted to be watched... I wanted to have facials. he liked giving and seeing them.

But this was obviously not first date stuff!!! it took skill for him to get me to open up, and his own admissions of kinky behavior - explained very gently and matter-of-fact - emboldened me

now maybe your sweetie doesn't have a wild side. but maybe she does.

theres a great book called "Secret Garden" that reveals how women have sexual fantasies just as wild as men. Maybe that;s a starting point for you to try and coax your sweetie to talk openly. or perhaps it starts with you gently talking about how desirable it is to be able to talk totally openly in a two-way street - about s-e-x...

hope that helps...

greta

Hi Greta,

Firstly I must say hi to you and the members on the board, its been a long time since I have been on the board, after my trip to to Prague.

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i have to say that a lot of pornos do look pretty mechanical. the guys take forever to cum - which make me think that they must be so desentitized by endless fucking (and with licodaine spray) And many of the girls seem like they are faking some of their orgasms - and certainly exaggerating their reactions to facials. Probably because it has become part of the expectation

You are so right, about beening mechanical, but as Seymore said on his website, not all of those girls and guy are as glamorous as we think, some of them look quite bad close up, (rashes, spots and all that) its more about the money.

Just a quick question, about Licodaine spray, is that what they use to last for so long, if it is maybe it explains why they cant stand to attention whatch JJ in action, nice women in his films, but he doesnt seem to stand up.............just my observation!!

I don't know the exact details of what male porn stars use to maintain their erections. My guess is Licodeine because that (to the best of my knowledge) is a topical anaesthetic that temporarily desensitizes the skin and underlying tissue. It's the primary ingredient in products like "Stud"

my guess is that those guys spray their cocks with that stuff to help them keep erect if they want to poke for long periods.

but i'm also guessing that if you spend a lot of time repeatedly fucking - your cock probably loses sensitivity. And also the parts of your brain that get turned on by having sex must get desensitized by having endless sex (as nice as it sounds in the abstract!)

or maybe the guys are thinking about baseball!

actually there are some good-looking guys I've seen in porno who set off an alert on my "gay-dar"! They are just a little bit macho-gay! no wonder they can keep from cumming! the hot slut that you might cream on within 5 seconds and 2 pokes is (to them) actually an unappealing GIRL - of little interest to them! it's just an athletic job! keep stiff and keep pokin'!

so i don't think any regular guy should ever be inhibited by watching porn and wishing you could fuck as long or cum as much as them. they may not be all they seem - and they certainly may be too desensitized to have as much fun as regular guys...

I could not agree more, you hit the cecil as they say, I must say one pint of guiness and a pull on the old tweed always does the trick for me, seems to last just long enough to satisfy and not blush from short cumings. Do you enjoy when a man can repeat more than once?