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Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-17, 7:59 pm

loolz Power Kat
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Or are you happy just to keep mongering indefinitely?

I'm interested to hear peoples thoughts about this :)
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-17, 8:56 pm

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comes and goes Loolz. obv depends if i'm single or not. but as i'm always single...

i'll always see Max i guess, as long as shes around.

my last trip to the dam was disappointing. i really have lost the urge to see random girls i've never seen before. Bulgarian Kim wasn't there, so didn't see her, and didn't feel like seeing any replacements. saw Marie, but it wasn't really that much fun.

as for London, same thing. my regular girl doesn't work at the moment, can't be bothered to find someone else awesome again.

so yeah - maybe my mongering bubble has burst for the moment?

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Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-17, 10:24 pm

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Hah, it seems like you and I have similar feelings - I thought it might have just been me :)

I was hoping to have stopped by now for a few different reasons, but it's easier said than done.

I got to a point early last year where I was fed up and bored of fucking random hot chicks and lost interest in seeing new working girls or any girls apart from my regular. So this got me thinking that it was time to stop. Another thing is money - it's been impossible for me to save whilst doing this.

So yeah, I would like to stop... I'm bored of mongering in general, and have been for a long time but I still really enjoy the time with my regular - as long as she's there I'll just keep going back. I guess I'll just need to wait until she retires at which point it will be very easy to stop, otherwise my target is to quit before I hit 30 years old (couple of years). I'm also trying harder to meet someone back home and if I get into a normal relationship I think it will also be easy to stop then.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-18, 6:49 pm

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I think whilst im single I'll keep going and a favourite is still working I'll keep going. But when shes gone I'll probably cut my trips to maybe once or twice a year while im single. I don't do this back home and don't get chance to meet women all that often so I'll need to go back once or twice :)
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-19, 12:55 am

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Sometimes yes and sometimes not. Living so close to the pleasure city, my perspective has changed or say evolved. The constant mongering phase, with which I started, kept going for quite some time. I think I am past it. It now comes in short bursts once in a while, I mean the window thing.

The clubs like Showboat and others were quite nice. The sex is was better than or at least on par with the windows while there is no comparison to the windows.

In recent times, the club seen is not at all encouraging. The ones that are good now are exclusively for couples which is good if you visit as a couple; if not, its a pity.

When I am alone, the lust rules over and it happens quite often.

Other times, it has to be a mix of astounding beauty, lure, feel of rush and feeling just right that drives me to the windows. Like when I found Croatian Tamara smiling at me when I was passing by (I didn't know it was her when I first saw her)...experiences like that are incredible (and she is incredible ;-)

I would like to do the clubs again sometime in the hope that the seen is encouraging.

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Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-19, 1:14 pm

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Hi,

Excellent question.

I was in the past deeply involved emotionally (meanwhile is basically based upon the sex and the fact the girl wants you to cum, regardless who you can be and what is your background) speaking with certain girls, BUT I decided to stop visiting last year during summer after my last trip. It wasn't an hard decision to make, and I'm simply quit like the girls do themselves by stopping their activities, turning the page and thinking of something different, even if I wouldn't say another life. I don't regret anything, or maybe just the fact that I didn't really have the time to say goodbye properly to few girls I used to enjoy the company the most. I had memorable, vivid, fantastic moments in those kamers, with lovely girls (some literally changed my life), but, a page must be turned at one moment or another, and so I did.

Anyway I do fully respect guys who still visit after years and years of mongering, the newbies who will have have the time of their life, for some, in particular the ones who'll lose their virginity, and the best providers know how to make them conformtable despite that situation. Otherwise without this deep respect I wouldn't be on that board, kind of fascinating me to see that some have kept touch with girls who also work for many years in De Wallen and elsewhere, including the other two RLD. I wouldn't say NO to keep in touch with ones of my favourites girls of my "mongering" time, they could be friends and even close friends. They have gave me their time, not their love but they provided services and were great conversationnalists for most of them.

Things have changed as well in my mind as soon as I've heard about the plans and the project of closure. And with all the issues in that respect (girls leaving, kamers shutting down, less activities, more fashion shops opening, etc), I thought that I had to make a decision and the sooner was the better for me. I completely respect and admire the girls doing this job, it's sometimes very hard, and you have plenty of facts to deal with when you decide to do and engage yourself into this full time job. You can hear sad stories but you can also hear and share funny anecdotes, exchange good old stories, make fun of silly/awkward situation, do pleasantries...

I don't even know when I'll be back in the Dam, but it won't be for the moingering part, even if I consider to still visiting places like Casa Rosso, La Vie en Proost, and Moulin Rouge.

Let me have a thought for Brad07 (the one who helped the board to become more readable and created the great tool that you can see in Girls section, the picture which help to visualize the kamers) AmsterdamChris, MiamiDave, jgramos. I hope you still reading us from where you are.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-19, 7:37 pm

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Some insightful replies :)

retro wrote:
I don't do this back home and don't get chance to meet women all that often so I'll need to go back once or twice :)


Yeah, this sort of applies to me as well. I guess I'll need to wait and see if I get any urge to go back once/if/when I stop.

bitman wrote:
Sometimes yes and sometimes not. Living so close to the pleasure city, my perspective has changed or say evolved.


I take it you live in/close to Amsterdam? I've often wondered how my habits would change if I lived there. I remember speaking to one or two girls about this and they said I probably wouldn't visit windows if I lived there :S


Carice Liefde wrote:
...but, a page must be turned at one moment or another, and so I did.


Yeah, I'm trying to turn that page, but it's a reeeaaally heavy page :P

Carice Liefde wrote:
Anyway I do fully respect guys who still visit after years and years of mongering, the newbies who will have have the time of their life, for some, in particular the one who lost their virginity, and the best providers know how to make them conformtable despite that situation. Otherwise without this deep respect I wouldn't be on that board, kind of fascinating me to see that some have kept touch with girls who also work for many years in De Wallen and elsewhere, including the other two RLD. I wouldn't say NO to keep in touch with ones of my favourites girls of my "mongering" time, they could be friends and even close friends. They have gave me their time, not their love but they provided services and were great conversationnalists for most of them.


I would have to agree with all of that. I guess some guys just do this all their lives for whatever reasons and if that's what you want, it's certainly not a bad situation to be in (vs. a poor relationship). For others it's maybe just a one-off thing - I suppose it depends on why you do it in the first place...

On the topic of being a member of this board - If I hadn't found this board a couple of years ago and read some of the reports, I really don't think I would have visited a window girl in Amsterdam! So I blame this forum (and therefore Bluto) for my addiction :D But at the same time I've had some unbelievable and amazing experiences, and still do have them, so I suppose I have to give it credit for that. :)

Carice Liefde wrote:
I don't even know when I'll be back in the Dam, but it won't be for the moingering part, even if I consider to still visiting places like Casa Rosso, La Vie en Proost, and Moulin Rouge.


What if you're walking through the RLD and you see one of your old favourites free in a window? :D

Carice Liefde wrote:
Let me have a thought for Brad07 (the one who helped the board to become more readable and created the great tool that you can see in Girls section, the picture which help to visualize the kamers) AmsterdamChris, MiamiDave, jgramos. I hope you still reading us from where you are.


I don't really know these users except for MiamiDave who used to post some epic trip reports. Maybe they have all quit mongering?
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-19, 8:39 pm

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Hi loolz,

loolz wrote:
Some insightful replies :)


Thanks for the idea of topic.



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I take it you live in/close to Amsterdam? I've often wondered how my habits would change if I lived there. I remember speaking to one or two girls about this and they said I probably wouldn't visit windows if I lived there :S


I guess many things depend on how you handle/manage your personal and private life too.


loolz wrote:


Yeah, I'm trying to turn that page, but it's a reeeaaally heavy page :P


I know what you mean. You are one of those guys who come back for a particular person, who has built a serious and regular relationship with a window girl, and the girl herself knows what to expect and why you're visiting her quite often. At least when she works.


loolz wrote:


I would have to agree with all of that. I guess some guys just do this all their lives for whatever reasons and if that's what you want, it's certainly not a bad situation to be in (vs. a poor relationship). For others it's maybe just a one-off thing - I suppose it depends on why you do it in the first place...


There are many/various reasons why you come to Amsterdam to visit window girls. For some it's for just a moment of pleasure whilst they have girlfriend or wife, for some it would be the first time with a girl, so they choose to have this opportunity to meet a professional, in this case it's way harder at their home, so they do take the plunge in de Wallen. For some it's because they have done it since many years and they just like to have that kind of relationship. We don't have to judge anybody : -)

Personally I wanted to have relationship with girls I wasn't thinking about doing this four, five or more years, but I didn't plan anything specific at that time and I was just taking thing and I was in "go with the flow " behavior. And as strange as it seems, at first time when I visited Amsterdam in 2008 (I visited other countries in Europe, but not Netherlands yet at that period) , I didn't even know where the main RLD was located so I just stayed two days and found the city beautiful without seeing that "kinky" part or whatever you will like to call that part of the city. I was astonished so I decided to come back in 2009 and met some beautiful girls then. I consider myself to be lucky enough for not having being ripped off in five years. I had bad/mixed sessions but none in which I thought that the money spent, the lady, the time the session were nothing but a disaster.


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On the topic of being a member of this board - If I hadn't found this board a couple of years ago and read some of the reports, I really don't think I would have visited a window girl in Amsterdam! So I blame this forum (and therefore Bluto) for my addiction :D But at the same time I've had some unbelievable and amazing experiences, and still do have them, so I suppose I have to give it credit for that. :)


Funny : -)

loolz wrote:

What if you're walking through the RLD and you see one of your old favourites free in a window? :D


It's not a problem for me at all. I talked to the girls I used to enjoy the company the most during the last three/four years about my will to stop, and all understood. Some are still active and I've been with them like 6 or 7 times each. They know me and I know them, so during the last sessions I was clear enough to say to them I was stopping. It's pretty sure I would have a chat with Anna, give an high five to Max and German Kim, give a kiss to Sanya, wave other ones. That's the least I can do.

loolz wrote:
I don't really know these users except for MiamiDave who used to post some epic trip reports. Maybe they have all quit mongering?


Brad07 is the person who worked on the board to adopt his current form, particularly in girls section. He also participated by doing regular updates from trip reports. It would not be the same without him and I'm deeply indebted/thankful for his job. MiamiDave, AmsterdamChris (who knew well working girl Tineke in Dolleb 7-4) and Jgramos are very charming persons who always gave me feedback on my trip reports. MiamiDave and I did share the same interest for Jennifer_Cutie for example. Even if Doc encouraged me to take the plunge in order to meet her as he thought she was the kind of girls I like.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-04-23, 3:21 pm

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Absolutely!

Unless I run out of money, then I have to stop...
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-01, 3:01 am

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some day...but until 1)i get a gf, or 2)run out of money, it'll be a twice a year deal. My time in Amsterdam began in the mid 80's through the early 90's, with a return in 2004, and another return in 2013 and recently as 03-2014... and I find that mongering just seems to be a less chaotic life with a lot of pleasure in many ways..at this age, I'm just happy a 20something year old will screw me,literally..
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-01, 11:40 am

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To be fair I have a partner at home but still like having sex with young attractive girls.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-05, 1:34 am

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No.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-05, 4:11 pm

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I'll give up when I'm dead not one minute before!! In fact I actually want to be fucked to death lol! :P

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Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-28, 2:15 am

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I might be working in/near Amsterdam in the coming year in a new job for a business start up. It would mean I move there and have thought, like other comments on this thread, if that would alter my habits and lust for it. Hope it doesn't :p
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-28, 3:22 pm

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i've visited prostitutes in amsterdam and at home, but my forays into this world are vary sporadic and sparse, so it's not really a problem for me. i don't do it actively enough for me to think about stopping. i'll take it as it comes!

some really interesting replies here though. it's nice to read your thoughts and feelings on the subject.

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Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-05-30, 7:40 am

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Ever is hard to say as for now no I won't be lol.JUst wish I had more cash......
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-06-10, 6:53 am

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Maybe if I ever decide to get serious with a girl. But for now I'm enjoying the single life while I can.
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-06-13, 7:29 pm

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Well, this happened sooner than expected - I have officially quit mongering :)
Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-06-15, 4:20 pm

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loolz wrote:
Well, this happened sooner than expected - I have officially quit mongering :)


wow, thats a bold statement Loolz. has yr regular stopped working now?

just found out Kim appears to have stopped working too - so for me, thats Amsterdam down to one girl, Max. might just change my november plans for amsterdam to go somewhere else for a change!

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Re: Are you ever going to stop visiting prostitutes?
Posted: 2014-06-15, 6:10 pm

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loolz wrote:
Well, this happened sooner than expected - I have officially quit mongering :)

Are you going to prison or something? What happened?!

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