Hey there,
I´m thinking about having a threesome with 2 lovely Working Ladies. Now my Question to those of you who have had one: is it worth the money or is it a overrated Fantasy? Did you get what you were expecting?
Thank you for your answers.

If you don't do it, you will always wonder, so do it.

Tips:
Make sure the two girls know and like each other or else they will be shy. You don't want them to be shy. You will see some window girls that team up in their windows and promote this service.

If you go with an escort service, have them team up the girls so that they will already have volunteered to provide this service and will know the other girl in advance.

Expect to pay at least double what you would pay for one.

Often the girls who will do this are either lesbian or bi, so expect them to pay more attention to each other than to you. Be sure to ask for more attention if you want it.

I am thinking about going to a Brothel, where the Girls know each other, and I´ll ask which Girls do Threesomes, and if they have a preferred Partner.
The Girls paying Attention to each other is fine, since I like watching Girl on Girl Action... Thanks for the Tipps...

Do you guys who've done threesomes see each girl sepparately before having a threesome with them or do you trust the first girl who knows the other one that you will like her too?

I roll the dice. I'm batting 500 and that's better than Babe Ruth. Dollar/Cost averaging would suggest you would be better off going with instinct over first seeing each girl separately. In the bigger FKKs some girls will walk around in pairs and won't even consider going separately.

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In my lifetime, I have had several threesome experiences and in my personal opinion - I have often found them to be overrated!

I actually prefer the intimate one on one experiences and enjoy the close attention that I can get with 1 service provider. With two, I often feel that the service is diluted and you may get unlucky and have 1 or possibly even both working girls to be rather 'lazy!'

As such, I completely avoid threesomes nowadays and sometimes window girls try to offer this service to me with a 'known friend' of theirs, but I always gently and politely decline.

Good luck mate, each to their own I suppose!

I've had mixed results with this, it can so easily go wrong.

Bad: a pair of sharks in Mainhattan, working together. Overpriced and underperformed and constantly upselling, an expensive anti-pleasure.

OK: 2 girls I'd enjoyed before, separately, in Yin Yang. I was warming up with one in the Kino when the other showed up and we greeted each other, and it all naturally flowed from there to the 3 of us in a room. Almost amazing, but I'd have enjoyed them better one at a time, it felt a bit rushed, and with interruptions to change condoms as they changed places.

Wonderful: in Bernds, I was reluctant to consider 3-some, told a girl I thought it could only work if the girls were Bi and into each other, she said I'll get my girlfriend. Another girl confirmed these 2 had a thing for each other. Result was bliss, 2-on-one, and I wasn't always the one, uncovered dual BJ, shared DFK with DATY , and one condom for both, back and forth without missing a beat.

Girlfriend was gorgeous, enthusiastic, inventive and popular, and departed first. Original girl stayed for cuddles and lazy afterglow pillow talk, forget the clock.

No upselling, and no extra charge for any of the things that others might call extras, just 2x the half-hour rate.

But then, that was Bernds, look it up.

Ticked 3-some off the Bucket List, I can't imagine it ever being as good again.

I've had four threesomes in my time banging Service Providers, two in London with EEs (both times one lady was of one my favourite regulars, while the other girl a different one each time), one in Berlin (with a German and another EE lady, I forget the nationality but I think she was Hungarian) and one in China when I was working there (with two Chinese ladies). They are pricey and the P4P world is full of rip offs, so they are not something I've indulged in often (like anal sex, you have to wade through a lot of bad experiences to get to the good ones I reckon). However, in my limited experience they have been high risk, high reward, and the pay off has been worth it in some ways (if just to cross it off my bucket list) but not in others.

I definitely wouldn't just agree with an Amsterdam SP's proposition to some hasty threesome with a girl from a neighboring kamar. Chances are you'll be disappointed and out of pocket (with a great chance of getting scammed) after a wooden performance by two SPs who are stilted and work separately without interacting. Therefore your best bet for a good experience if you are just visiting a city is to find a lady online who explicitly offers duos with a regular partner, as they will be comfortable and used to working together. Even better would be to find a regular back home who is comfortable with the idea of being with another naked woman; all the good threesome experiences I had were with women who had worked together previously.

Communication beforehand is another necessity to a successfully threesome vs an expensive dud. You need to make sure the girls know what acts you like, and you need to know what acts they do. Will there be an extras (if so pay for them up front, there's nothing worse than a steamy threesome losing steam while you fumble around with your wallet)? Remember, a P4P threesome is closer to a porn scene where you are a voyeur or a participant than an emotional sex session with passionate drunk partners tearing each other's clothes off; the action goes more smoothly if the team know what the goal is. For example, do you want the SPs to focus on each other at first or on you? Some guys want to watch two girls go at it in a lesbo scene (which in general is a disaster if the girls don't know each other), while the SPs themselves might believe they should be starting by focusing on you (via a double blow job, or DFK from one while another rides you).

None of my threesomes met this standard, which is probably why most of them were pretty mediocre (this is very much a "learn from my mistakes" post. All four took place in brothels (the London one essentially being a coop arrangement between various indie Hungarian girls who would fly in and fly out separately, but worked from the same address when in the UK in order to split the rent):

1. My worst threesome experience was in Berlin, where I visited a privehuis and picked out a sexy blonde German girl in her 20s, who had quite good English. She upsold me a duo with her EE colleague (another hot 20s chick with dark hair). I'd had lots of good one to one experiences in Berlin privehuises, but this one was a disaster from the start; any hint of interest or friendliness vanished the second the money changed hands, I was bombarded with demands for more money for extras (killing my erection in the process), and when none was forthcoming I got a rough and mechanical handjob from the German while the Hungarian (I think?) sat around looking bored (essentially I was paying her to be in the room naked and do F-all). Needless to say I never went back to that particular bordello after such a costly rip off, another (in what is a constant recurring lesson for me lol) reminder to not just pick the hottest girl in a place unless you've checked her reviews first.

2. My second worse threesome was actually well ahead of the first one, and took place some years before I was in Berlin, in a Shanghai hotel that kept a sauna/knocking shop on its top floor for male guests and those in the know (and a very civilized practice which I wish we would adopt in this country). It was a bit unusual in that (unlike most Chinese places) there wasn't a line up of escorts which you picked out; a girl just turned up and you had sex with her (I assume other punters with better Chinese than me could have requested a replacement if they didn't like their "masseur", but I only went there a few times and had no complaints with the looks or the service in my one on one sessions, so I never bothered).

Anyway, a short haired and rather giggly peasant girl from the countryside turned up who was a bit plain faced, but very chatty and skilled, and (unlike my fat ass and most other Westerners) had a cracking body, with a lovely tuft of black pubic hair between her legs and tiny tits. As we traded translated queries over our smartphones I got a request from her asking if her mate could join us, to which I said yes (not yet having had a threesome). Her mate duly turned up and was gorgeous, but sadly lacking her partner in crime's giggly good-natured spirit (I always like to meet a girl who loves to shag, they make the best hookers). What followed was essentially a double massage (good), and then the two women taking it in turns to blow and shag me, with the late comer wincing and acting shy, and giving a poor service, while the first girl tried to make up for it with an enthusiastic performance. I OTOH was a bit stumped, because I'd thought they meant a threesome where they'd be making out with one another etc. TBH I'd rather have had a one on one session with my first girl and left the other one out, but it wasn't a total loss.

3. The most satisfying threesomes I had were two shags with a regular Hungarian MILF and two of the other Hungarian escorts who worked with her at the same London flat on a rotating basis. All of the women involved were in their 30s to 40s, with my regular (about a 5/6), another who was thin with nice breasts, but a plain Jane, and a third woman who was a part-timer and was probably a 7 back in her twenties and still had some of her good looks ten years later; she also ticked my MILF boxes by having big plastic tits, dyed blonde hair and a tan, straight out of Pornhub. RRRRRR.

My regular advertised that she did a joint hour threesome with whoever was with her in the flat for £100 (so you can see how long ago this was), and, since she was a good shag and quite generous with her time and customer service efforts to boot, I stepped up to the plate a couple of times despite my previous mediocre experiences with hotter women. Again however, I didn't ask about what they did (I was painfully shy back in my 20s) and just wandered into the room in a hormonal haze at the thought of seeing two women naked at the same time.

Neither session was particularly different to the other, so I'll just describe them briefly; each time the pair of ladies acted like a tag team on my body (the downside being they never touched each other, which is something I'd like to experience some day), including the frankly amazing feeling of a double blow job. Every man should experience the sensation of two sets of lips and tongues simultaneously exploring his junk, there's nothing like it. Both times I ended up coming inside the lady who was the non-regular, while having sex with both at different times, and the women were good at stroking your balls while you banged their partner etc. However, the experience was a little off in that they never touched each other, and I gave them no foreplay either (which I like in a one on one session). I enjoyed the pairings up until I came, but I think these days I'd kick the second woman out after one bang and finish the session with just my regular (who knows my preferences best).

Always overrated. I can just about handle one girl at a time. Two is too much! :)

Grassleaf made excellent points in his post and I generally echo his sentiments about the risks/rewards of ménage ‘a trois dates. My philosophy about threesomes: to ravish and to be ravished! I’ve found that some ladies that I’ve seen one-on-one might be shy at times in a threesome. My advice to guys on this topic: don’t expect perfection. One advantage is if you’ve met one of the ladies before and she can give a “pep talk” to her girlfriend before the date.

I’ve had at least a dozen threesomes with independent escorts over the years and what routinely works well is when the ladies are not only good friends but also proudly bisexual. One challenge in North America can be the fees entailed for 2 girls present-day.

Here’s an intriguing website I came upon. Two Amsterdam girls (Sandra and Jessica) who profess to be a real-life couple. Two hours for BOTH entailing a ménage ‘a trois: cost of 1400E. The photos don’t reveal that much in the way of details but their narrative (horny and crazy) sounds most excellent if they in turn “walk the talk.” Here is their website:

https://sandraandjessica.wixsite.com/sandra

Disclaimer: I have never seen them and have no affiliation with them.

Cheers!
Jim

That mirrors my capabilities. As well as only being able to handle one girl at a time, I just don't see how you can fully enjoy both girls during a session (and therefore you're not getting money's worth).

That being said, I can actually understand the comments above about why people enjoy threesomes. I suppose the thought of penetrating one lady whilst kissing or licking another does seem good - but I just wouldn't be able to concentrate properly on both!

Speaking personally, two girls giving you oral at the same time feels pretty awesome.

I have never tried it, but I have been considering it.

My reason for considering it is mostly due to being unable to decide which girl to see!

It seems like it would be poor value. I would pay twice as much for the same duration of fun! Also, I would miss the ability to connect with someone when things are one-on-one.

But there are too many girls who I want to see, so I may have to see more than one at a time ...

Have tried 3some experiences quite a few times. very overrated in my opinion.

Usually, you have one of the girls doing more work than the other.

Also, it is never quite as good as the fantasy suggests. My top 10 sessions have all been 1 vs 1 with a girl, as opposed to multiple partners.

I'm going to agree that a threesome is hotter to watch than it is to experience. I'd say it can work under certain circumstances, where two girls know how to work together and keep themselves both occupied without direction. And some guys with serious $$$ might just like to lounge around a hot tub doing mood altering chemicals with a couple naked of SPs once in a while. Personally I've found having a day of sex with different women individually to be a more reliable way of enjoying seeing different bodies naked. But I suspect that's only possible for the relatively younger guys, a category I'm starting to leave behind in my late 30s.