There seems to be two kinds of thoughts......guys who wouldnt go with a prostitute due to the fact that it is all to do with money ( or at least on the part of the worker) and also the amount of men that have been there before. Others, do not care of course and simply enjoy the sex.

Fo rthose of you who frquent working women regularly, what does it all mean to you?

I'm in the latter group though it does make a difference if she's nice to be with other than for sex.

Personally I'm happy to pay and only feel bad about that because I don't like parting with cash!

I,m definately in the latter group.Presently in a relationship with someone i met that way and she,s most definately more than just sex! It,s getting better the 2nd time around - we broke up and just got back together, a great way to celebrate my 50th b-day this week,also this time she,s no longer in the business. I,ve posted on a couple of threads on the topic-GFE real or fake? and sex slaves in the RLD,in my situation she,s a GFE and deinately not enslaved to a pimp or otherwise.

Anyone interested in what she,s like -she is almost a double of Nina on the Tromp near Sexyland for anyone who knows the Wallen RLD,just a year older

I don't frequent them regularily. I only do it when I'm in Amsterdam. It's a tourist attraction, you see. When in Rome and all that.

"Personally I'm happy to pay and only feel bad about that because I don't like parting with cash!"

lol, sums me up as well :-)

It's the oldest profession in the world, and will carry on for as long as there are human's. It's only a bit of fun, and the ladies earn decent money from it.

I am good friends with 3 of the thai working girls, and none of these are harrassed by pimps, they save there money, send some home to there families, and live a hell of a lot better than me!!

I've got a good job in the UK, but if they put the hours in can earn more in a day than I do in a week, and rightly so and long may it continue.

We all do love whores don't we? wether it's paid or a freebi, it's a service that you recieve after all. when you pay for it you recieve it and sex is no exception as simple as that. Like any other industries satisfaction isn't always guaranteed! I have had relationships with working girls as a regular customer in different places other than Amsterdam and I must say that most were really nice and pleasant to know. Some were just happy with a little gift and some others just wanted a good company, drinks or maybe a smoke and you get an enthusiastic fuck in return. One time in Morocco a girl refused to take any money for the second time I had her. She said that she made enough money to cover all her expenses and now she just wanted someone to give her a good time and treat her with respect. Something great but not always expected. My point is that there are people out there who does this for living, on the other hand there are people who are willing to pay so it's an ongoing business. I personally have no regrets paying for my own pleasure. Life is short,,, ENJOY!

Yes. That. I too am in a stable and successful relationship, but I really, really like women. Lots of 'em. Dressed up slutty, talking dirty and drenched in expensive perfume. Rather than have affairs, I indulge my curiosity and incredibly high sex drive once a year in the Wallen... my girlfriend isn't really a big fan of sex for a number of reasons. As friendly as the ladies of the kamers are, it really is just a posh wank.

Its guilt free. If your paying its not emotional, so you are not cheating.

Its important to feel confident that the girl is working for herself though.

I am the chronical prostituant. Allthough I'm not a bad man and I feed familie and kids there is something in my brains that makes me the prostituant.
Allthough I am able to date good looking women I don't want to play their games , their flirting with sex , most are divourced (I've had that) and that fact only turns me after some time down. Thank you.
I don't have that with young girls/women, they don't get me angry. They are what they are, I'll specialize in them , they make me feel good.
Your'e welcome.

:: Rant on ::

If it flys, floats, or fucks: rent - don't buy. It's not the cost
of entry that kills you, it's the maintence. It is cheaper to
pay for sex than to get it for "free". Besides, newness is
the spice of life.

Sex is a basic drive, second only to survival. Woman want to
control your sex, and thereby control you. Imagine controlling
someones food, air, or water and you get the picture.

In the US the laws are such that men are an economic
opportunity for woman to exploit. A few moments of weakness
can translate into a LIFETIME of monetary liability. Woman are
well versed in this area and use it to their full advantage.

Just not worth it. No way.

:: Rant off ::

Wim, you are the president of the CCCP- convivial conclave of chronical prostituants.

I never got the girl at home, only rare one night stands with the occasional hotty. I like young babes, hot ones, can't get em over here no how, no rap whatsoever. Europe is cool so I go whenever I can. I used to go every four or five months, now it is every other month and sometimes two in a row. In europe I have a rap (and euros). Most of the girls I meet are sweeties. I always invite them home with me for a good time at the beach. So far no takers.

Merry Christmas, Happy Hannukah, excellent Kwaanza, and a very good boooyaaa New Year

Doog
Pepto

" Wim, you are the president of the CCCP- convivial conclave of chronical prostituants " ,

good one Pepto , Fred could have invented this one , where is he , joining the Christ mass in Pohlheim Cathedral ?

Anyway, next time you ask Sarah (OZA) to your vacation resort , she'll surely accept it , hanging around the swimmingpool, she'll jump on your lap all day long .....

For tonight it is : prettig kerstfeest en beste wensen voor het nieuwe jaar, from Amsterdam !

I agree with Wim and Sunlover, my situatiion changed with the lady i mentioned a few posts above this so my plan of living in A,dam is back this time for real-have my paperwork to stay under the Dutch-American friendship treaty she has no problem with me seeing working girls in NL until we are ready to get back together and told me to do what,s best for me.

It,s definately a lot cheaper to monger in NL than here in Hawaii,hate to leave the nice weather behind.I guess i won,t get everything i want!

Well actually, as many here have stated, you always pay for it, and free pussy is, in the long run, the most expensive. I have been visiting Amsterdam for about 10 years - oops - time flies. I definitely remember being there in 1988 so I guess its a lot longer than 10 years. It seems like back then there really wasn't as many rip off artists as there are now. i used to go to Amsterdam and fuck 4 or 5 hot looking women every day. Kind of like a personal crusade. I would wonder around for an hour or two just determining my "line-up" and then I would work my way through the ones I wanted. But over the years the quality of "service" has declined with more and more frequent encounters with women that are either dis-interested or dis-honest. So for the last four years I have always gone with the same girl. I usually go with her every day I am in Amsterdam. Once in awhile if I see someone that looks really good I will take a chance. That has worked out about 50% of the time - although the last time I went I tried out three new ones and they were all pretty good - one I even went back to a second time.

But as far as the one I always see, we have no personal relationship - even after five years. We have great sex - at least I do. That reminds me of the joke:

Why do women fake orgasms?

They think we care.

I never post about my visits because the girl in question asked me not to. She says I have "special priveliges" - and maybe I do (I am not THAT gullible :-) - she says if I post what we do then everyone will want that type of service and she doesn't want to provide it to everyone.

Anyway I think prostitutes are great. As long as they are clean, professional, and pleasant I think the experience can't be beat. its much better than putting up with all of the bullshit that goes with trying to maintain a relationship - especially with American women.

But maybe I am just unlucky because I always seem to be attracted to hot looking losers. In Amsterdam there are so many hot ones that even if one or two dont work out it is still a pleasant experience. If I knew of an escort in the US that was half as good as the girls in the Wallen I would probably come to Amsterdam less. Well probably not.

Anyway I think a good prostitute is an awesome find.

Paying for sex, for me, means that I'm able to get a sexual moment without all the fuss and complications that's usually involved in a relationship. Compare going to a restaurant to eat a nice meal, without worrying about either cooking nor taking care of the dishes afterwards. It's convenient, and I usually consider myself paying for not having all the fuss, rather than paying for the actual sex.

Jake - she's five years in the Wallen and she's clean of posts ??
Still then , she has you , with her special privileges , she's one out of five or six .....

Sorry, I didnt mean to impy she was free of posts - just free of posts by me.

It is the only way I am going to get anywhere with someone who is young, good looking with a great figure. Plus the guarantee that you will get some degree of "satisfaction." The bonus is that many of the working girls are a delight to spend some time with. In the real world I would have almost no chance with the women I choose to see. This industry makes it possible.

Good anology. I reckon the kamers in the Wallen are a bit like eating fast food. You go in and satisfy a quick craving, without breaking the bank. You certainly don't stick around for the quality ambiance or the varied menu. But then, just like fast food, you have your girls that are Febos, they do the job without being that memorable. That's not to say all fast food is bland. Occasionally you find a gem, comparable to a cheap and cheerful, but delicious Indonesian takeaway place you find tucked away somewhere in Amsterdam. But then, I guess if you want a more gourmet experience with a better ambiance, you head for the Prive Scene.