Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-10, 6:42 pm
rodney
Posts: 95
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just wondering does anybody on this forum ever admit to future girlfriends what they have been up to in Amsterdam?
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-11, 3:05 pm
jimmy_nova
Posts: 329
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If someone was going to do that, why would they limit it to only things in Amsterdam and not also other places?
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-13, 6:33 am
officematt2002
Posts: 267
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I gave up girlfriends once I discovered Amsterdam and then all was revealed.
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-13, 4:41 pm
Mojito
Posts: 348
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Why limit yourself in a life with only 1 partner i.e. girlfriend/spouse/wife?
Only for a decade of unhappiness in what society calls 'marriage'. Then for half or more of your life savings to disappear...
Stay strong, stay single and happy mongering!
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-16, 2:43 pm
Grassleaf
Posts: 200
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rodney wrote: just wondering does anybody on this forum ever admit to future girlfriends what they have been up to in Amsterdam? I made that mistake back in college after my first trip in 2005. Never again, got the full "you're an abuser" speech, waterworks, foot stamping, trying to ruin my reputation in the university, the lot. The girl in question was definitely emotionally unstable however, so maybe you'll have better luck... lol. Whatever the public 'right' position is on prostitution, most women intensely dislike it if a man shows them; (a) he can't get any without paying for it (because she is then sleeping with a low value man); (b) he doesn't need an emotional connection to enjoy sex (ultimately, as much as they enjoy it more, neither do women, but they don't like to bring that up when it concerns a guy they like might step out on them) and; (c) he can replace them by picking up a phone (so can women, but everyone prefers it when the power in a relationship is with them). The indentarian left is the one most people (at least in Europe) take their social cues from about moral behaviour today, and unfortunately it is hopelessly schizophrenic about the issue of prostitution, so you can't appeal to a commonly agreed moral position easily. If you tell a woman you like P4P, it is going to send off alarms bells shrieking in most girls' heads, and she can easily denounce you on social media and whip up an e-lynch mob that will wreck your life and follow you around for years. Personally, I don't think it is worth being honest about to future partners (but I would also not punt if in a committed relationship). Is it hypocritical/unkind of me to stay in the mongering closet with future partners, instead of making the case that consenting adults should be free to do what they like and the sex industry should reform itself along the lines of New Zealand? Perhaps, but I'm afraid that, like the point that women commit huge numbers of sex crimes themselves ( https://www.independent.co.uk/life-styl ... 39361.html), are less likely to be arrested, charged or imprisoned (and receive lighter sentences when this does happen) than men for all crimes (including sex crimes), this bold plan will founder on the rocks of modern sensibilities, which can be summed by the phrase "Men are EEEvvvvviiiillllll". If it helps, if I ever get into a serious relationship again, I've no intention of asking my potential GF if she ever posted nudes of herself to OnlyFans for thirsty guys to diddle to for $$$, did camming or porn, or even (especially?) about her habit of drunkenly blowing random guys in nightclub toilets for free while she was at uni. Mature people know they have insecurities, that pursuing them will only make things worse, and that above all a relationship founders when one side of it acts like a creepy controlling morality police: https://www.dr.dk/mitliv/anders-kaerest ... m-det-foer (in Danish, run through Google translate if curious).
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-20, 4:33 am
lanavumi
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Lol. and what a dirty things anyone can doing been up here? Its very strange if you drive bicycle and read book during looking on architecte. All folks!
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-21, 1:56 am
Mojito
Posts: 348
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If you have a girlfriend, I would strongly suggest that you do not brag or talk about your past mongering experiences.
This is obvious for anyone with common sense!
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-21, 12:30 pm
Grassleaf
Posts: 200
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Mojito wrote: If you have a girlfriend, I would strongly suggest that you do not brag or talk about your past mongering experiences.
This is obvious for anyone with common sense! Yep, couldn't agree more. There are women out there with high sex drives you can go into a swinger/porn/escorting life with together, but they are very rare. Most often the reaction would be something along these lines: https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-lif ... ostitutes/
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-21, 6:27 pm
jimmy_nova
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Grassleaf wrote: Yep, couldn't agree more. There are women out there with high sex drives you can go into a swinger/porn/escorting life with together, but they are very rare. Most often the reaction would be something along these lines: https://graziadaily.co.uk/life/real-lif ... ostitutes/If she dumps him, he'll have dodged a bullet. She seems fucking awful.
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-24, 4:32 am
Mojito
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I still do not know why anyone would want to have a girlfriend/wife if you are a serious monger.
Enjoy your freedom, save up your money and spend it on mongering trips around the world. You will be a far happier man then being committed to the same woman your whole life, watching her get old and fat, popping out a couple of kids and then using all your hard earned cash on supporting the family.
Many of my fellow mongers and myself feel a life of single hood and freedom is much more preferable to the alternatives.
Just do not get involved and do not get committed to anyone, that is my sage advice! GL :)
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-06-30, 10:23 pm
Grassleaf
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Mojito wrote: I still do not know why anyone would want to have a girlfriend/wife if you are a serious monger.
Enjoy your freedom, save up your money and spend it on mongering trips around the world. You will be a far happier man then being committed to the same woman your whole life, watching her get old and fat, popping out a couple of kids and then using all your hard earned cash on supporting the family.
Many of my fellow mongers and myself feel a life of single hood and freedom is much more preferable to the alternatives.
Just do not get involved and do not get committed to anyone, that is my sage advice! GL :) Agreed, the demands of a relationship are incompatible with a mongering lifestyle 90% of the time. Sex workers also find it hard to date (I'm talking porn stars etc here too) due to the fidelity thing. Interestingly, I don't think this would have been the case back when marriage was an economic proposition rather than an emotional union. But obviously as the institution of marriage has changed and (frankly) weakened, it has also made it more incompatible with mongering in Western countries. I'm pretty sure this isn't the case in Asian places like Japan or Korea yet, but that may changes as those countries get more feminists etc.
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-07-04, 9:45 am
bendover1004
Posts: 108
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Very rare but do you think they exist?
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-08-22, 1:08 pm
ACDCBCAD
Posts: 4
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My girlfriend likes to blow me first and then watch
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-09-25, 5:03 pm
Grassleaf
Posts: 200
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ACDCBCAD wrote: My girlfriend likes to blow me first and then watch Nice... I once had a girlfriend who, not knowing the years of extreme celibacy that I endured as a single guy, assumed that I wouldn't be able to keep it in my pants while we were going to be apart for three months and said I could get happy endings to avoid sharing me with an adulterous hussy. But that was blatant insecurity on her part, not a kinky streak. I hope you manage to keep hold of her lol, I would love to meet a primary emotional partner who loved to let me fuck SPs in front of her.
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-10-25, 4:26 am
Mojito
Posts: 348
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Good luck with that dream grassleaf! :)
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-10-25, 10:44 am
Grassleaf
Posts: 200
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Mojito wrote: Good luck with that dream grassleaf! :) Hahaha, believe me, I know it isn't really worth the effort. There are some guys out there who can pull it off ( https://theredquest.wordpress.com/2020/ ... sex-clubs/) but the ones who are honest about it will tell you that it is a full time job. I don't have much time for pick-up artists (I couldn't get through The Game back in the day after picking it out of a charity bin for 25p), but there was one whose blog I read back in the day who I had some respect for. He was upfront about the fact that he would usually need to approach about 25-30 women before he'd get a date, and even then there was no guarantee of sex, never mind a threesome. Personally I don't think looking for a woman who will let you fuck around is worth the effort, unless you stumble across a bisexual unicorn by accident; you can get a threesome for much less effort than that with P4P (even with all the drawbacks of scams) and there's much less dangerous than an emotional explosion from your significant other that way. Sure, the women might not come, but at least your johnson will get more attention.
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-10-27, 9:31 pm
Shinken69
Power Kat
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Many moons ago, when I was a student, I had a girlfriend who was a complete nympho, up for just bout anything, anywhere, anytime. Fantastic, I thought. She was a bit older than me and it was a huge amount of fun. Man it got old FAST!
Unsurprisingly, about five years ago, a friend sent me a link to a few of her porn appearances.
_________________ So many windows, so little time.... or is that money
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-11-08, 5:33 pm
Vkcs20
Posts: 63
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Why waste time with gf and marriage.
Work hard, earn money and enjoy the delights of mongering.
Life is so much better when you're single and free!!!
From a married man....
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-11-09, 1:55 am
mistygirl73
Posts: 69
Location: Ireland
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I'm married , myself and hubby like to go to sex clubs , have sex with red light ladies together or apart , been married 20yrs .. like to smoke lots of weed too !
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Re: Girlfriend
Posted: 2020-11-09, 2:27 pm
Shinken69
Power Kat
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mistygirl73 wrote: I'm married , myself and hubby like to go to sex clubs , have sex with red light ladies together or apart , been married 20yrs .. like to smoke lots of weed too ! Could you donate some genetic material for cloning purposes? (8~>)
_________________ So many windows, so little time.... or is that money
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