Hey, I'm Gmaxx and I'm am young male, who is 30 years of age and from the US. My primary language is English and I have visited Amsterdam a few years ago, in October 2019. I have been to Park 118 once, mainly to lose my virginity and experience what 'sex' is like in my life. If I recall, I saw Eva that evening and she was nice and friendly with me as I was a virgin at that time. Sadly, I don't think she is there anymore. I consider it a good experience overall and I do plan to go again in the future, sometime in 2022 or so (no exact date yet).

Anyways, I'm new to this forum and I'm looking for advice in regards to fulfilling my goal which involves my fetish. I have a rather unusual fetish and while I'm not ashamed of it, it is certainly unsustainable in the long term which is why I am hoping to fulfill a very specific goal so that I can finally get it out of my system. My fetish is bubblegum blowing, basically blowing bubbles with bubblegum and of course, the bigger the bubble size the better as there is no bubble that is too big for me. Realistically, most people struggle to blow bubbles of considerable size (maybe like above head size or greater) and there are a few people who are exceptional in doing so (like a bubble over 3 ft or greater) but realistically I don't expect that of someone because blowing bubblegum bubbles, especially of such caliber requires tons of time and practice as well as copious amounts of gum (like 30+ pieces of gum) and special preparations which would take days to prepare. (Feel free to ask me more in details regarding massive gum size and the technicalities and I'll do my best to explain it) My goal is to find a woman who would be willing to have sex with me and is also capable of blowing a bubblegum bubble of at least head sized or greater. Either condition does not need to happen in one session and can occur at different times, including retroactively. As long as both conditions are fulfilled, then I would have met my goal. The gum used is Super Bubble brand, which is from the US.

Alternatively, if bubblegum is not available or logistically impossible, then there is another substitute, which is Bloonies, Fun Plastic, Plastic Balloon, Super Elastic Bubble Plastic, Magic Plastic, Magic Balloon, etc. These are toys where you would squeeze the paste/goo out of the tube and put it on a straw then proceed to blow a durable bubble of plastic. The straws they provide are to be used for best results. Basically, one would squeeze as much or use all of the paste in the tube, and then roll it and apply it to the straw then blow through the straw the make a plastic bubble out of it. Of course, the more one uses, the bigger the bubble will be. Mind you there could be holes during inflation so carefully pinching areas where there are leaks would mend the bubble to allow the user to continue inflating it. It is also a bit sticky so one must be careful not to get stuck on furniture or any object they wish to avoid messing up. The downside of this toy is the bad smell coming from the paste because it is polyvinyl acetate like glue. This is generally a safe toy as long as one does not put in mouth. Only put the paste on the straw and do not inhale from the straw.

Other considerations include that I'm not super wealthy in terms of money so I don't have thousands of $$$$ to splurge, but I am willing to spend a bit if it means that I can make something work out. With respect to bubblegum, keep in mind that since I'm from the US and the gum is based in the US (which is the good Super Bubble brand), I have to import it to Europe. I'm not sure of the logistics of doing so such as transporting gum in luggage and furthermore, even if I did make it to Europe, do establishments allow gum to be used there?

With that said, does anyone know what my options in terms of finding someone who would be willing to take my special request and make it happen? The conundrum lies in the fact that usually fetish models make porn to sell and not necessarily have sex with their fans (at least the ones that I know of). Furthermore, I am not interested in the dating scene and I just want to have sex and fulfill my niche fetish and ultimately get it out my system (not because I'm ashamed of it, but because it is unsustainable).

Additionally, I was once a member of a bubblegum community on Discord (Bubblegum Blowing) and BubblePop forums before I left on my own last year. I left mainly due to inactivity and not being able to find solutions to my problem. Also, I was once on Fetlife, but that also failed to bring any meaningful solutions or answers to my fulfilling my goal, which is why I've left there as well.

Finally, if anyone knows where, who, or how I can fulfill such a special goal in Amsterdam or in the Netherlands, I'd appreciate advice on how to go about this as it's rather specific and challenging (logistically, financial, and more).

Hmmm...

Interesting, ... this is a puzzle.

I think if I was looking for something special, and sometimes I do, I would begin with an online catalog of sex workers (in Germany, it's ladies.de) and simply chat via WhatsApp each in turn until I found a woman who seems to be legitimately interested in my interest.

hahaha, I am quite curious of other ideas Ignatzmice members might come up with; but maybe your quest is that difficult that there aren't many other things to try.

Yours is quite the pursuit, best of luck!

... Eric

p.s. I'll be walking around Amsterdam in a few days because I'm there for other reasons; but if I happen to see a playful lady in a window happily chewing gum, I'll try to get her details and let you know ;-)

Hi Eric, thank you for taking the time to read and respond to my post.

I have checked the website and unfortunately, it is difficult for me to navigate as I don't speak German (might know a few words but that is about it) so I'm not sure whether I would be able to find what I'm looking for or be able to communicate if/when I do find a sex worker on there.

As for my goal, yes while it is quite the puzzle, I will mention that only two conditions need to happen and either condition can happen before or one another. The first condition is getting sex which only needs to happen one time and can be before the fulfillment of the fetish or afterwards, but it has to be the same person. The other condition is more of a long term thing, but as long as the person is able to blow a head sized bubble or bigger (even over multiple sessions - long period of time), then that would fulfill my goal.

For example, suppose sex worker "A" is interested and first has sex then bubbles come later (could be same session or later section). Then yes, that would work. Now suppose sex worker "A" instead does not blow bubbles but has sex, and while sex worker "B" blows bubbles but no sex (vice versa), then that would not suffice and would not fulfill my goal. In other words, no mix-and-match with my goal since my entire goal is to "find someone who is able or willing to blow a head sized (or bigger) bubble with gum and willing to have sex with me."

Another theoretical example:
Theoretically, since I had sex one time (in October 2019) with Eva at Park 118 in Amsterdam, if she also blew bubbles with bubblegum (or is capable to) retroactively or in the future and I know of it (picture/video proof of bubble blowing), then it would automatically fulfill my goal (even if the bubbles came later). Unfortunately, I have no such proof or knowledge on whether she is capable or does blow bubbles, and she is no longer at Park 118 nor is there a way for me to get in contact with her which means she likely retired from the scene. I just thought I bring this up as an example of what would count as fulfilling my goal. Therefore, I'm currently back to square one with my goal unfortunately.

Finally, yes, feel free to let me know of such a person if you do find her. Keep in mind that I am going to Europe yet, it is still something that is set for the next year (in 2022) and currently, I am just working out the details to fulfill my lofty goal. I don't know what the scene will be like in 2022, but hopefully international travel will be easier by then.

I'd say the most challenging aspects of my goal would be logistics, such as how to import the materials I want to make my fetish come true (gum), finding a sex worker who is willing to pursue it and fulfill it, and also ensuring that I am able to properly fulfill it. Realistically, perhaps if I could find someone who would pursue it over time and then when I meet up with said person to fulfill sex, then that may suffice. However, I don't know of any or whether a sex worker would be willing to do that, either before meeting or even staying in contact with me after meeting with me.

Sorry if I wrote even a lot, I just wanted to clarify everything and make sure that there are no stones left unturned.

You had a good start with Eva. In my opinion, she was one of the most friendly ladies around and gave a fantastic service. This would be perfect for someone such as yourself having their first service.

I can't help with where she is now, but she mentioned before that if her family discovered her job - particularly her brother - they would hit the roof for religious reasons. My guess is that she may have left the industry altogether.

The gum part seems easy enough. Just order a bucket or two of the stuff off Amazon and bring it with you.

That's unfortunate to hear and sadly, sex work is still heavily stigmatized even in areas where sex work may be legal. I suppose this means that I must start back from square one again, finding a new lady, sex worker who would help fulfill my goal.

If there is any way for me to find other sex workers or ladies who would be willing to undertake my goal and fulfill my request, I'd like to know.



Yeah, I'm thinking about bringing it with me. Since it has to be Super Bubble (other brands won't produce any good bubbles at all compared to Super Bubble) and has to be ordered, I will likely wait until it's closer to the time I am going since gum itself has a fairly limited shelf life (usually a few months before it's potency drops).

By the way, just a little gum history. Bubblegum used to be pretty good in the 1970's-80's and what not, but then after a while it went downhill due to formula changes and what not. In early 2000's Dubble Bubble was the go to gum for big bubbles and was amazing, but then Tootsie Roll bought it out and changed the formula which made the gum no longer able to blow amazing bubbles. Then Super Bubble became the go to gum in late 2015/early 2016, and to present day, it still remains the best gum for huge bubbles. I would hope that it remains good for the coming years and late future.

Of course, the more gum used, the bigger the bubbles. However, there is a specific way to prepare (prep) the gum by soaking it (to get all the sugar out -- which makes blowing bubbles much easier), which requires some days and what not, but that's more of an advanced technique more than anything and also time consuming. This may be infeasible so I am not expecting anyone to be able to do that given the limited timespan.

One other note is that I'm more of an observer rather than a participant and while I have this 'fetish' of mine, I enjoy watching women blow bubbles than actually blowing bubbles myself (I'm bad at the skill but that's irrelevant since I am just a spectator).

Alternatively, if the fetish cannot be had, there is a substitute for it, which is the bloonies, magic plastic, magic balloon, plastic balloon product. However, there are downsides to it as mentioned in my first post.



In addition to this, I don't know if there are any women who might be willing to pursue this alternative, if for some reason bubblegum isn't going to pan out? Also, I don't know if there are any toy or craft stores that sell such products (basically bubble balloon hybrid toys) in Amsterdam? Basically, I don't like to rely on alternative or substitutes for my goal since it has it's own challenges and difficulties too.

I hope this is not boring you to death with all the details but it's just additional information that may help others understand the fetish and what not.

Thinking of you Gmaxx. Seen in Paris along the right bank of the Seine a few weeks ago.

Thanks and as far as the picture that you posted, it looks like a classic. I know it's been a while and I still have my sights set on fulfilling my fetish and the bubblegum stuff.

I know that it would be unrealistic to expect anything greater than a head or bigger than shoulder sized bubble given the constraints and circumstances that I'm working with. However, I do expect to meet some baseline in terms of fulfilling my fetish and by that, I mean having someone who would be willing to chew/soak (whichever is fine) several pieces of Super Bubble gum and then blow the biggest bubble they can with it. Correct me if I'm wrong, but I'm thinking that should be feasible and doable perhaps?

Just bumping this topic for a bit, and given the uncertainty of the world (pandemic and the Delta variant), I'm not sure if I am able to reliably fulfill my goal, even in Europe. I will consider other countries (UK, Germany, Australia, New Zealand, etc.) assuming that I am able to access them and would still be within my budget. Fulfilling a fetish especially a niche one is pretty rare and also demanding as it's very specific so I don't expect it to be cheap, however, I am aiming to shell out anywhere between 2-3 grand in USD to fulfill it-- I just need to find a very reliable and certain way to get this done, which is where I would need help with the logistics of this goal.

As a reminder, my goal is to have sex with woman who is capable of blowing a head sized (or bigger) bubble with gum. I am not too picky on the particular woman that I'm seeing in terms of aesthetics, as long as my goal is met which again, contains too conditions, having sex (intercourse), maybe kissing (cheek and lips at least), some cuddling/holding/hugging, and of course the woman being able to blow a head-sized (or bigger) bubble with gum.

Notes:
1) The fetish aspect does not need to be in the same session if that makes things easier.
2) Also, the sex session does not need to be long, as long as the sex occurs (intercourse + kissing). Nor do I need to orgasm but it is a bonus if I do orgasm/climax.

There are two ways I am willing to go about this, but it has to be the same (sex worker) as that is part of my goal/fantasy.

Scenario #1: Meet with the sex worker, have session, and keep in contact afterwards (if possible) and have her fulfill the fetish aspect.

Scenario #2: (Probably more realistic?) Find a sex worker who is capable of blowing bubbles with gum, and verify that (photos + videos of bubble blowing -- can blur out face if privacy is a concern), then book a session and fulfill the sex.

With that said, given my conditions, budget, does anyone know if I am able to realistically fulfill it? While I make it sound easy, I'm sure there may be a lot of pitfalls and logistical issues that come up.

Picking up from your post in the other thread in order to maintain some thread integrity here.

In your inquiry to SS, focus more on the bubble part of your request. They won't guarantee sex because it is always ultimately a decision of the escort. However, it is an assumed part of the arrangement, provided you aren't un-groomed, un-civilized, or otherwise repulsive. Just ask if they have an escort who is able, or willing to learn, to blow those big bubbles and then be sure you are well-groomed, civil, and not otherwise repulsive.

I see and no problem at all. Anyway, in regards to Society Service and with no guarantee of sex (at the discretion of the escort of course), then it is possible I could end up spending hundreds of €€€ (or more) without even getting what I'm looking for. To me, if that is the case, then it is a big risk to take and I don't think I could ever live it down if I ever ended up being ripped off or failing to achieve what I am after in the first place.

That would just put me back into square one again (the conundrum itself - where fetish and webcam models don't have sex with their clients/fans only), or deja vu with my goal...

I simply just don't know what else to do to accomplish my goals? I was thinking of just bringing the gum, but again, given the limitations of the session (usually an hour long, maybe shorter) and no guarantee of the provider that I see would be willing/capable of blowing a bubble; it's just too much to do and difficult in a short time, with time-pressure of a booked session. Sorry if I'm not so optimistic about this, but I've just about exhausted all my workable ideas to make my fantasy a reality. Sometimes I wished I had another fetish that isn't as hard to attain or achieve, but sadly, that's just not who I am..

I kinda feel like you’re overthinking this a bit. Just bring the gum with you, walk around, find a girl you like, and just tell her you’d like her to blow bubbles for you and have sex with you. Offer an extra 50 or 100 or whatever if she can blow one the size of her head. She’ll probably at least give it a go if extra money is involved.

I suppose I will do that the next time I visit Amsterdam (likely in 2022 which by then the pandemic would be even more under control and less restrictions than now). Are you referring to window girls, private houses, brothels, or independent escorts?

Perhaps I am overthinking a bit, but there are just so many factors that I considered (mostly logistics, time, availability, and doing things impromptu/on the spot). With that said, are you saying that she would be capable of chewing/soaking the gum to get it ready to be blowable then blowing the bubble afterwards in a short span of time? I'm just not sure that with the limited time I have in a session that gum could be ready and that she can blow that size of a bubble spontaneously, but who knows, maybe I'm wrong?

Anyways, thanks for the response and I hope I am able to find someone who can make my fantasy goal fulfilled.

You can visit Amsterdam now (from 22nd) with very few restrictions. Delta is everywhere so irrelevant.

Ah well that's good to know and hopefully, there will still be fewer (maybe even close to none) restrictions when I am ready to go. I would have chosen to go this year, however, I just don't have enough PTO/vacation days to use since I just started a new job earlier this year, thus have to wait until next year (2022).

Also, by next year, I will have more money saved up which will allow me to be more flexible with my trip.

"it is difficult for me to navigate as I don't speak German"

Use Chrome and set the translate option (Google Translate 2.0.10)

Not perfect but more than suitable.

Hey guys, sorry I haven't been active on here much, but I did recently hear about the news of the pandemic getting worse around Europe and the world. It is unfortunate that Europe is going back into lockdowns and restrictions and I do understand the necessity of health and safety being top priority. At any rate, nothing new here in the US other than just that cases are also rising and the new variant (Omicron) going around the world currently.

With that said, I'm still wanting to get this goal done sometime in the future when it is safe and possible to fulfill it. As mentioned before, I just want to find a woman who is talented enough to blow a bubblegum bubble (head sized or bigger) and willing to have sex with me.

Correct me if I am wrong, but my understanding is that it couldn't be as simple as just bringing the gum and having the sex worker blow bubbles? I am under the impression that it takes time to chew/prepare (soak) the gum to make it ready to blow bubbles and then after that, it takes skill and time. Furthermore, each session is rather short (15-20 minutes for window girls) and 1-2 hours for those in privehuis? All of this is assuming the sex worker or woman already has the talent to begin with?

Sorry again if I'm sounding like a broken record or repeating myself a lot. I just wanted to fulfill my fantasy and then finally move on from bubblegum.