Is it just for sex?

Is it because you find it difficut to find unpaid sex?

You prefer paid sex?

You enjoy sex with her BECAUSE she is a prostitute?

Just wondered why so many men are such REGULAR rld customers.

Cheers.

Are you serious?

We all pay for sex in one way or another.

Let's say you meet a girl at a club or in the park, you will more than likely decide to buy her a drink or take her out for dinner and a movie. By the time you buy drinks for her and yourself over the course of a night, you have to be approaching 35 to 50 euros. This for the "chance" to have sex in the end. Of course should you end up in the sack you'll probably get more than 15 - 20 minutes, but there are many other reasons.

For instance, we're not all in peak, physical condition. Many of us are much older and the chances of having such young, attractive woman even give us a second glance are minimal at best. And even if we were young and toned, we're not going to be able to have sex with every girl we desire. Cash up front eliminates all of the barriers.

There's also something to be said about the fact that for most of us, these ladies are only available to us when we are on holiday. I, for one, am married. I think the thing that bothers wives and girlfriends about an affair isn't so much the sex itself, it's the emotional bond built up between two people that provided the opportunity for sex. Even though I am head over heels for Nina on the Tromp, the long distance between us does not result in a threat to my marriage.

In Amsterdam you have the opportunity to have sex with some of the hottest women around. It's well worth my hard earned money in my judgement.

Mike

I think these two questions must be answered in pair.

I have many difficulties finding "unpaid" sex - and we are not even talking about "love". And so I do not look for sex only, but I do appreciate a lot girl's kindness and care, even if in a professional way.

Arthur may further ask "Will you stop if you find 'love' ?". I don't know. I think I'll continue rather than stop.

As for "pay for sex", I definitely agree with cyborg43



Brillant. Pure truth.

Arthur, please tell us your answers :-)

Arthur, why do YOU visit prostitutes?

and why does anyone really care what someone else's motivation is?
-paniked

No, that's not the reason and I think most on this board who agree with that. If there were a street were non-pro girl would stand lined of behind the windows and giving it away for free, then there would be no doubt that that would be my favourite street.

Good point, makelove :-)

"Prostitute is good for just quick sex - No love - Just a quick sex"

2funkyforyou says : have kit kat and big a joint in Amsterdam.

Hi Guys,

Thanks for your answers. I use this board mainly for interest but dont use prostitutes. I normally just get info on weed , hotels etc .

Just interested in others motivation.

I do for the freedom afterwards-freedom to buy the car i want,travel where i want,eat what i like,etc.I,ve been free to make decisions without consulting a partner first since i was 15,will be 52 this week,so i,m not about to have to answer to a partner now.I also respect and treat well the ladies i meet in AMS and here in Hawaii and stay in touch with all that allow me to(pnone #,e mail,etc)

because my ex wife was an ugly pig..

got in the habit years ago, never looked back.

havnt got to take them to dinner, buy her expensive pressies, no more " ive got a headache" etc.

love prossies........

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I second what greenhoff have to say,i was last with someone 20 years ago,saw her last 4 yrs ago when she vacationed here in Hawaii and i can add the word fat along with ugly,would not even want to be seen with her!Right on greenhofff!

I don,t mean to ramble on or go off topic on my next comment so i,ll make it short.I do make some effort to be with non working ladies in thier 20,s with partial success,but did get commented on my choice of cars,and i answered-I payed total $1000USD for a 89 Cadillac,90 Jaguar while it costs minimum $15000 for a new compact which is car of choice here in Hawaii and i get way more luxury for less than 1/10th what they pay

Variety - 'tis the spice of life...

On the assumption that every stupid question deserves everything it gets, Magoo the amateur anthropologist answers:

Compared to other animals, humans are retards. They never fully grow up. All their lives they retain the ability to "play". Some say this is the secret of their success. Others say what the fuck? But I digress....

In particular, humans like to play with their most basic survival drives. What is an instinctive necessity for other species becomes a form of entertainment for humans.

Thus:

Food: essential to all animals, but humans play with it to create gourmet chefs, five star restaurants, health foods, fast-food drive-thrus, FEBO, MacDonalds, barbeques, picnics, designer kitchens, dinner parties, family feasts. Theres a living to be made out of feeding strangers, and many humans happily pay strangers to feed them, and the relative merits of different providers are widely discussed.

Survival: humans play with the survival instincts of fight-or-flight in sport, in mock-combat with another player or team, or against "the elements". Skydiving,
surfing, white-water rafting, all the adrenaline-pumping activites, and - at one step removed - in action movies.

Sex: humans play with just like they do with food. You get gourmet sex, health sex, and junk sex. Once again, theres a living to be made out of fucking strangers, and many humans happily pay strangers to fuck them. On websites like this one, the relative merits of different providers are widely discussed.

Or to paraphrase Douglas Adams in The Hitch-hikers Guide to the Galaxy, there are 3 stages of civilisation: what, why, and where.

1 What can I eat?
2 Why do I eat?
3 Where shall we have lunch?

or

1 What can I fuck?
2 Why do you visit prostitutes? (Arthur's question)
3 Where can I find a blonde and a brunette to make passionate love to each other while I watch and then fuck the blonde one first and then the brunette....

So there we have it: Arthur is asking a Stage 2 question on a Stage 3 forum.



Magoo

Some may find this odd - or perhaps not even believeable - but it's true. I don't need the sex at all; I get laid every day by my wife. For those few days that I'm on the road I think I could probably live without sex.

Still, I enjoy visiting the RLD ladies. Why?
1) It's an enjoyable way to spend some time.
2) I get to do things that maybe I don't all that often at home
3) I can present a different persona
4) I get to have sex with a beautiful young woman
5) No strings attached
6) It's a pleasant change of pace
7) I like the scenery

and probably about a dozen more reasons

the dogs
who, lacking any trips to Europe in the near future, just managed to line up an engagement with an escort in the Houston, TX area - definitely looking forward to that evening

most people think guys who see prostitutes are a bunch of lovely desperate fat ugly dudes who can't get laid normally

Whilst that may be true for some, many guys like myself see prostitutes because it is quicker , easier and less hassle

I still love the challenge of picking up at nightclubs or in shopping centres but i also love the no fuss ease of seeing a hooker

In the immortal words of Charlie Sheen, i'm not paying the girl for sex, i'm paying her to leave afterwards

my wife wont let me go to A.dam!
so how do you get to tell your wife that your going? and dont they mind?!

Peterpack, that Charlie Sheen quote is brilliant. I'm going to start to use that myself pmsl

I tell her that I'm going for the drugs

I hate to be picky but the quote is actualy from Oscar Wilde