My situation: In a new relationship which is, at this stage, purely physical.
No BJ on offer at all tho' (yet?). No commitment (yet??) So at this stage we are shagging, rather than "making love."

I'm going to be in Frankfurt shortly.

Is it ok to go to an Eros Centre and get my cock sucked?

I think it would be a big mistake. Better to visit one of the nearby FKK's.

Would that be done by a man or a woman?

Neurosynth, I quite like the RLD scene, it's been a long time since I got ripped off in Frankfurt BHV or Breitegasse.

Akibono, my use of the word "girls" in the subject line should be enough to make it clear that I mean females.

Strange question to ask!!!!!

Only you can decide what you are comfortable with doing!!

If it's a case of "it doesn't count as it's just oral" then i'd guess you'd be ok if someone licked her out but didn't shag her??? ;-)

lol, it's not my place to pass judgement though!! Either you want to and can live with yourself for doing it or you can't so shouldn't! Only you can live your life and we don't know people who we've never met very well!!



But......do let us know of your experinces if you do it ;-) LOL

I was just joking around. It must have lost something in translation.

Hey, that was Bill Clinton's logic: oral sex doesn't count. Works for me :)

No issue if you tell her and she consents.

Have you asked her the following question, "If there was something that you could do for me that would make me incredibly happy and it doesn't take much effort on your part, and I'd be very grateful, would you do it?" Then whip it out and stuff it in an orifice she never let you stuff it in before. I'd recommend anal, if you go for anal and she says no, you can settle on a blowjob, where if you ask for a bj, you're not going to get anal instead. Aim high my .

Seriously, this is a very good question. It's not really a question of what you are comfortable with, it's obvious you're comfortable with all of this. The real issue is how will she react if/when she finds out? No advice from any person here will be useful (myself included) because we don't know this girl. You have to really research her to know if it's ok. Some girls will flip, some won't care, some will get turned on (if yours does, congratulations). Does she see a difference between a blowjob among strangers and a hug?

If she's totally cool with this, perhaps it would be a golden opportunity to see if she'd be interested in an ignatz bukkake?

I'm also going to concur on the Neurosynth comment. I think it's a mistake to go for rld windows when FKK's and Partytreffs are near.

IMHO the most important point of the morality of visiting girls is whether she's honest or a ripoff.