Frozenfire wrote:
Hi all. Looking at this hobby mainly from the outside it would seam that you have to keep your self in good shape to be fucking fit and try your best to be as well groomed and presentable as possible.
Can members here share there fitness plans and self care routines that allow they to pursue this hobby.
I think it's more to do with whether the girl finds you attractive (the right 'type') rather than simply whether you are in good shape. You can be in good shape but a girl may find another man not in such great shape to be more attractive. I came to the conclusion that with some girls it will make no difference, whilst with others it
may yield a slightly better service.
The separate subject of being physically fit is important in that it may enable you to last longer and have better sex (some scientific evidence behind it). However i know that is not the subject of your post!
I do personally keep myself in shape with both cardiovascular and resistance exercise, and also make sure i smell good etc.
I'll share a little story from a few years ago when i was with a friend who unquestionably is in even better shape than me and in my opinion better looking than me; he was actually rejected by a window girl whilst the same lady happily took me in. Now, he was a different race to me, and i can only assume that was a reason. She had initially asked him where he came from, and even though he said UK, she said "no i wont see you".