Are there any clubs which do not have a lingerie dress code? We are young couple in 30s and very recently married. We have not yet got into swinging or infact ever been with a 3rd person, as the wife isn't ready to take the plunge. But she said she might be ok to try things once and slowly go with the flow. However, I am sure, she wouldn't get into lingerie the moment she's there. So where else can we go that doesn't have a strict dress code and we get to meet other young couples?