I have great difficulty cumming in a condom. Maybe it’s a matter of concentration but does anyone know any tricks or techniques? Usually I finish of with a handjob but I’d rather cum doing mush.

Any advice would be great!

you are probably
1 ....a bit nervous instead of being relaxed (rather common phenomena in this hobby)
2 ....dont have sex often with a condom , more used with a handjob. thats why handjob works and not the condom. 4-5sessions and you are back on track again.

good luck!

I can never come with a BJ. Do what works for you and don't sweat it.

I will say however, that Trojan and other latex condoms are very thick and cancel most sensation. Try a different condom than latex and you will have a different experience.

Go to the job with a full sack.. I need to do this these days.

I like your choice of words “hobby”! I guess it qualifies.....although I don’t know it could be entered into a hobby fair/pass time exposition lol

I have been able to do it probe one but I’d like to accomplish it mish.

All good advice, thanks!

Sorry I meant prone bone!

I too struggle to enjoy sex with a condom on, something of a drawback when your health requires you to wear one in this hobby. As OP says above, your subconscious is cock-blocking you with nerves in all likelihood. The same thing frequently happens to me whenever I'm in a new situation or varying from a tried and tested routine. Ironically missionary is the one position I find works the most often for me, but even then it is hit and miss. I find it is important to find a service provider (SP) with a good attitude towards getting you off (much more important than looks IMO) as that always helps you relax.

Repeat business rather than a focus on variety also works for me, as I'm much more likely to come having sex with an SP I've been to before rather than a new girl I'm not used too. Finally, there's also Viagra, though be aware than this can come back to bite you by desensitizing your cock. Sadly maintaining a hard-on is of little use if you can't feel anything lol. However, with nerves or Viagra, a conscious decision to focus on a single fantasy, sensation or sight has often helped me cross the finish line; worrying with kill your ability to get to climax every time.

Finally, there are various other factors like age, weight, tiredness, whether you've taken drugs etc etc that can also inhibit you from reaching the sweet spot of ecstasy that a trip to see a lady of negotiable affection is meant to let you reach; there's not much you can do about age, but you can give yourself a helping hand by turning up rested, sober and (if like me you've piled on the Covid-19 pounds) losing some weight. Also, I always find it much harder to cum in a condom by the end of a trip than the beginning (after multiple back to back sessions over a few days), so try taking a non-mongering, non-masturbation day strategically in the middle of your holiday to reset your plumbing a bit.

I agree on many points with Grassleaf. Depends on many things. I too start well on a sex holiday. As I did in a swing club on one holiday. But I'd lost the vibe for wgs for the rest of the holiday. Weird I know. Lots of reasons. Now I have the urges again but need a full sack for condoms and wgs. On another holiday I was tired by the end of the week. Too much beer. Went to a swing club. Didn't perform too well. Various reasons again. A beauty as well. If you find a good wg it's worth going back to try again. Definitely seeing one milf in Bochum.

Its meeting an escort who does bareback bjs and CIM that's on my mind right now. Normally I'd advertise on AW but that function is still blocked and has been since early 2020.

The first one, in the condom, no problem usually. Then I look for a leggy model wearing thigh-highs and go for a s&f with j/o cumshot on her booted foot. While I like slutty boots as much as the next guy, I'm not really a boot fetish guy. But it got me out of the latex sack and got me that second orgasm rush so I could glide back to my room and pass out properly. One time my bored eastern european model liked this kind of thing and I got memory to last a lifetime!

So you can be a little creative and try to negotiate your finish.

But if you can afford it, you can always Prep-up and take your more calculated chances. I'm not a doctor so talk to one who knows about Prep and believes in harm reduction. No need to take major health risks these days.

“Prep up?” Not sure what you mean… Can you explain? Thanks red planet

PrEP is a drug you can take to avoid getting HIV, even if you're having sex without a condom.

I love playing foot fetish games, trampling, domination...this is life...impossible for me having sex without this, and i'm sure there are a lot people who likes but never confess!!!