For most of them, they think we are sad pathetic losers...for some more saavy ones, they will show a positive and happy front...thinking of you as a potential repeat customer and thus a possible meal ticket for income.

Marriage or civilian dating/romance aren’t for everyone. Costs are involved to maintain those relationships. And divorce can be hellishly expensive for some men. For the single and unattached guy who chooses to monger, he might have a six-figures income and appear no different than his civilian peers of a similar age, let’s say. Mongering is “a shortcut to intimacy” for the guy. It’s fee income to the female provider. Women who are providers have their own reasons for being in the business. My take: guys who embody a well-behaved gentleman tend to get plenty of respect from providers.

I would like to add, they perceive some customers as walking ATMs!

I would also like to add that after paying 200 Euros for an extended, relaxed session with a Czech window girl in de Wallen (who was the first working girl I had ever been with)....when after 30 minutes, I hadn't cum yet, she started calling me a dirty, smelly, ugly man....albeit very quietly under her breath, but I still heard it.

That is what the working girls really think of us.
The niceness is all a facade and a false pretense.

After many sessions, with many different types of working girls....even if you think you have found a special click, that unique chemistry, and you seem to feel safe and enjoy each other's company.

I can assure you, that for 99.99% of the girls, it is just a transactional thing, and a professional act...just enjoy it, and pleasure yourself with the ride/experience (no pun intended).

I witnessed a situation of a working girl with a customer.
I was recently in Belgium again, and witnessed a middle-aged businessman chatting up someone who was clearly a mid 20s, high class working girl in a hotel bar. She is stunning in all the right ways, think of glamour model/porn star appearance.

The next day, I can only imagine that it was a full night of sick and twisted debauchery...I saw the girl walking out of the hotel by herself. The girl looked like she had almost no sleep, she was walking with a slight limp (I can only imagine what he did to her), and her once perfectly done make-up and face was filled with a bit of ACNE on the side of her face.

She had changed her very sexy clothes from the night before...she must have a deceptively big bag.
Her complete demeanour had changed from a happy, smiling, pleasant, always laughing and chatty girl to one that looked absolutely fed up, and couldn't wait to leave.

I am sure she was a good provider, but that kind of service is all a paid for facade.

Having seen another similar situation of a call girl with a businessman who must not have been the nicest, gentlest punter around. The girl looked like she had been roughed up. There are many men out there who like to slap girls, choke them, fist girls, and are generally in to much harder, rougher, and more extreme sex.
Now, there are some girls who like that sort of thing...many I am sure. But that type of sex is not for everyone.

I can honestly say, maybe it is better for the women to work in the windows than to be a street walker/outcall working girl.

I am old, if I want that kind of extreme sex...I can watch porn online...in my personal life, I much prefer normal sex things.