For me a GFE = no stop signs.

This is not to say that you should not consider her limitations,
or try to pack every known sex act in a 15 minute session.
Besides, limitations removed are much sweeter to cross.
Respect shown = respect gained.

I also think that genuine intensity and physical pleasure of both
parties needs to be in the equation. Spontanous reactions.
Actions that evoke further increments to the action. Trying to out
do each other. Giving the other person exactly what they want.
Out doing previous best efforts. Wanting to make memories.

REPEAT VISITS are the key.
Be well groomed. Shower and shave. Dress neatly.
Bring them a small gift to show you think about them.
Complement them. Respond to them.
And hope the chemical reaction takes place.

SunLover

GFE is a very subjective term. You're far more likely to find GFE when you get to know a girl and give her repeat business. One of the biggest benefits can be FREE TIME. It can happen with window girls, such as Sandra of Germany (now on Oz Achterburgwal), but it's more likely to happen with escorts, in my humble opinion. You gotta hope there is strong mutual chemistry and she reacts positively to your style. Chicks dig male hygiene and magnanimous, gentlemanly behavior.

Billybob,
one of the hottest discussions on " yes or no GFE" was this one ....

little true story....

When i was in Liege belgium...i was chatting with some girls on some dating site...one of them invited me to her place and we had planned a little scenario...i should join her in her bedroom...basicly that was it..when i arrived there was a little sign next to the bell saying that the salon is open from 12 to 23....so i had already an idea of what was behind the door.. i entered and then a small girl in the 40 ask me to climb the stair...there she was in latex outfit waiting for me... i told her about the internet chat and she confimed me naturally that she has nothing to do with that. so i asked her where i was..she said at a BDSM salon. ok then we talked for more the 20 minuts and she showed me the place with all the rooms. It was wierd because i was not supposed to be there and she acted like she was expecting me ...
Well then we had a drink ( free) there and she presented me to the 2 hotess. she offered me a massage with one of the two..in fact a bj and hj...really good techique..then i left... i send a text message to the personn who had lead me there and she answered syaing that she found me cute....in fcat that girl was one of the two hotess i didnt pick....but then we talked about it on the net and she asked me to help her with domestic problems that she had..we had lunch several times ans also sex of course...i have still some e mail contact with her...

I had a prostitute for a girlfriend, and frankly it isn't something you'd want. Most of these women are damaged goods. Either they come from a childhood history of sexual abuse, or have ruined their lives with cocaine addiction (or some combination there of). Don't over-romanticise them.

The thing I like about the RLD experience is its temporal nature. All you have is that moment,... no past, no future. According to quantum theory, the past is done (and doesn't exist) and the future hasn't happened (and therefore doesn't exist). All we have is the "now", and I don't need to get my tongue inside some stranger's mouth to bust a nut and have a good time.

i had a similar relationship that came from a chance window encounter and lasted about 2 years-in this case the woman was not damaged goods at all,just an economic realist-no drugs,no broken home-and she was over 40-she was west African and we had a great time,but she had a little immigration problem and had to get married to stay in the Netherlands-we shared a nice place in Den Haag

I have to agree with Rainer and Greenhoff on this one. Why would I want a RLD girl to simulate what my girlfriends or ex's do? What's the point of even going to the RLD in the Dam. I want to screw a young hottie and get my rocks off. Some posts and suggestions about bringing the girl a bottle of wine or flowers are hilarious!! This is the crap I have to do in normal life. If I'm there, it's to do what most guys really want to do - cum inside a hot body and face without all the bullshit. Sure, I do have a romantic bone in my body, but that's for real life girls. T suggest to this guy that he's going to find romance in the RLD is either wrong or sad. However, I understand someone wanting a GFE if they can't get it in regular life.

Sorry if this sounds too harsh, and if you disagree, but I (and I'm sure many others) have read to much stuff about GFE's, flowers, wine, etc., and I guess this post gave me an opportunity to express what nonsense this seems to be when talking about screwing a prostitute.

If you're just talking about great sex (probably), which is subjective, just try as many girls as possible and check out the Device.

Just trying to keep it real here- we are talking about whores.

That last word was "prostitutes" Thanks for the edit ??!

I would like to react to adymn post. There are probably multiple reasons why we go see the girls.....

I dont think it is stupid for some guys to bring flowers... I would make present to my hairdresser sometimes only because we have a good relationship but i know that i pay hair tu cut my hair.

One interesting thing about seeing the girl is that you can have sex with all the problems relating to steady relation-ship. Like who else do you see? why didnt you call me? ect....

The best relation-ship that i have is the one when i call call a girl anytime and she sould accept that i spent the night with me....

A the prositute is an good alternative to that especially we you often want to change of partner.

So why not make keeping good contact with the prostitue with delicate attention? i dont find it stupid...and if you threat them like meat their performance will be affected for sure...