Hi all sorry for the newb question. I've been reading the board and uncertain about how to monger in Amsterdam. I'm looking for DFK and BBBJ and it seems like the red light districts aren't the place to go for that and also that many prive houses aren't around any more (?!)

can someone point me in the right direction? I'll be there soon and want to maximize my trip

You won’t easily find that in the windows. Window girls generally don’t kiss (I’ve had a few regulars who did, but only after they knew me pretty well). BBBJ is also rather rare, and there’s almost always an extra charge involved. I’d say your best bet would be a Prive or an escort. High-end escorts generally don’t do BBBJ, it’s not really a standard service in Amsterdam. Dita (ditavip.com) is probably your best bet. She does BBBJ (and very, very well, I might add, awesome deepthroat skills), as well as DFK. I haven’t seen her in a few years, though, so I can’t speak to her level of service these days, but I can’t imagine her being bad.

I don’t have experience with Prives, so someone else will have to help you with that.

Cassandra in the Singel RLD, only on Fridays, loves DFK at no additional charge.
BBBJ is also much more likely in the Singel & the Pijp than the main RLD.
Just ask at the door, don’t be shy, expect to pay extra.

Have you got the exact location of Cassandra? Can’t see her in the Device.

She’s usually in Oude Nieuwstraat, 22L.
However, she can move around, but always on Oude Nieuwstraat.
She has a sign with her name on, so you can’t miss her.
Very occasionally, she’ll work on Saturday.

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