I am going to Amsterdamn on the 28th of this month and am planning to visit a working girl on the RLD, i have never been with a prostitute and have had only 1 sexual encounter so i am quite nervous and dont know what to expect, in the device i must admit that Anna - walletjes would be to my liking,

I am a bit self conscious about my weight, size, looks etc and although i know sex is the job for the working girls i cant help think that when a working girl see's me she will not give such a good service like others have reported because of this :(,

maybe me just being self conscious but i would like to find out these things before i actually go to do anything

Obviousley i am nervous being my first time and the thing thats makes me nervous is the thought that i am having an "intimate relation" with a working girl who may be not "pleased" with me, obviousley i know its THEIR job to please and not mine but i cant help thinking that i may be the worst of the night/week

also i know about "extra's" being reported on the device but no where have i seen an extra where to get me started i go down on the women, dont working girls in RLD do this or is it that men dont ask because they know they have had someone elses "loveshaft" in them previousley

Also just out of interest, probably a stupid question but i would take it that all the working girls will obviousley "clean themselves" before the next "session"!

Your help would be much appreciated ;)

>I am a bit self conscious about my weight, size, looks etc and although i know sex is the job
>for the working girls i cant help think that when a working girl see's me she will
>not give such a good service like others have reported because of this :(,

Yes, it is their job and, because of that, they are willing to have sex with just about anyone that they feel they will be safe with. Safety, not looks, is their largest concern. FallenBuddha describes himself as "taking up the entire width of Trompettersteeg" so I don't think your weight is going to be an issue. It certainly doesn't hurt to have taken a shower and changed into clean clothes, though.

>Obviousley i am nervous being my first time

I think it safe to say that the vast majority of us here were nervous the first time that we approached a window girl. All I can say is don't worry about it. The girls are not looking for quality sex. In all likelihood you will be forgotten very soon after you leave the kamer, regardless of what you do (unless, of course you do something threatening, in which case you will be remembered forever - and never allowed in again).

> to get me started i go down on the women,

In general this option is not available with the window girls. Check out a prive, an escort, etc. for this service.

I usually ask three questions: 1) How much for how long?, 2) All clothes off? and 3) Multiple positions? I never attempt to negotiate. Either they answer those questions to my liking or else I thank them for their time and move on.

>i would take it that all the working girls will obviousley "clean themselves"
>before the next "session"!

In general, yes. Sexually transmitted diseases are a very real job hazard. Consider if you were in their place. Would you not clean yourself for your own protection? However, there is no guarantee, nor are there any requirements that the workers get a health checkup. Do a quick visual inspection of her. Look especially for genital warts, excessive or colored discharge from the vagina (some whitish stuff is normal), and be cautious of any offensive odor eminating from between her legs. Be ready to simply kiss your 50 euros goodbye in any of those cases.

Use The Device and look for girls who are noted as "friendly" or "easy to talk to" and have a high performance rating. Make a list of about half a dozen that you would like to visit so that you're likely to find at least one with an open curtain. Print the maps (see left column) and mark the locations of the girls that you're interested in. Once you're there, a *small* amount of intoxicant of your choice is often useful to calm the nerves.

You'll be a pro in no time. Write a report for us, OK?

the dogs

I appreciate your anxiety but remember that confidence is powerfully attractive. My advice to you, regardless of the situation, is this:

Walk Like a Man

As stated above, we were all nervous about going for the first time but you have an advantage over many of us in that you are getting advice here and have also had a look at the device. The first time i went to Amsterdam, i had no idea about this website and basically went with no knowledge or anything. Study the device beforehand and make a short list of the girls who have good ratings and seek them out when you are there. Make sure you have a few though incase some are busy or not working for whatever reason. Make sure you know what you are after before you go in and ask the girl at the door before you make your mind up and enter. Remember these girls are not interested in your looks or performance but are there simply to make money. Just that some have a better personality and attitude than others. Relax, remember the advice from here and you'll have a ball.

Cheers for the help people, I'm looking forward to it and think its be a good experiance, i think as you said it will be best to look on the device and find a "nice" girl so basically i an say "this is my first time so......lead me) ;),

cheers again ;)

bambam

good advice....don't be a wimp, just walk in and do it. thats what i did, i went there for my 21st birthday, my buddy handed me 50 euro and told me to pick one, i was nervous at first, but nothing stopped me when i went up those stairs, its been months since my amsterdam experience, i do not regret a thing. nothing bad has came from it, you'll be alright