huskytea wrote:
c) I wouldn't dare go to anyone within a close distance as I might know or they know me through some one and I don't want to drive for hours on end to have sex in a travel lodge for twice the price of the dam.
Statistically, there is a very slim chance of this.
I have done both. I first started out in Amsterdam and then moved onto Adultwork as I couldn't get time out that often to go to Amsterdam. I would go around 6 times a year at 1 week trips. Nowadays, it's just weekends or the odd 4 day trip.
In terms of looks, you can find very good looking girls on both adult work and de wallen.
In terms of service, adult work and escorts are miles better imo. You won't find kissing, owo, cum on chest/face etc in de wallen 99% of the time. In De Wallen it is like a conveyor belt and the girls see as many as they possibly can during their shift. Don't get me wrong, sometimes that's what I need and I have developed a good working "relationship" with a lot of them. But on Adultwork, I have had great experiences and I'm friends with some of the girls I've seen regularly on social media and occasionally go for coffee or lunch with some of them. I'm not so afraid of them "outing" me as I know they hide it from their families too. And it wouldn't be the end of the world for me if people found out what I do in my own time.
It's just what you're into. But adult work is convenient and an excellent substitute if you need some company and you can't just get on a flight to amsterdam that same day/night.