Thanks to everyone for this site - you all make us proud! I cant thank you enough.

my partner (22/f) and myself (32/m) have done it only twice - both in Asia. Our last encounter was with a mature german couple based out of Sri Lanka (and they were frankly the couple which got us hooked!) . I have to travel to Amsterdam on business (apr 7 onwards) - so partner is not accompanying. While i want to check out the regulars - RLD, privae, I would also love to check the swinging scene out. I have no experience of Europe so wanted to ask for some advice from our experienced folks:

Paradise and Showboat seem to be only options (others are far, for couples only) - but does it even make sense for a single guy to go. I am no stunner but not bad either. Had partner been there, i am certain we could have found something but alone, is it worth spending money? Do couples even mix with singles? I would rather be in privaehous for an hour then be wanking after 4/5 hours at club - with E 80-100 down.

I am more into mature couples - 40+ (there is something about them - in fact, the reason the german couple got us hooked was their comfort level, their affection). Are these clubs then not an option? Is the crowd too young - too starry? Which days are good? (i have gone through the data but some it it is very old - and some confusing)

I have a fantasy of massaging a lady ( i am decent at it) - is it possible? Non RLD, Privaehous (where they will probably massage me -lol).

Is it possible to get a single girl to come for swinger clubs with you - any pick up places? I would not like to go with escort.

Last - and no offence to anyone - this is what the german couple, who have been in this for long mentioned (i know we have too little experience and one persons opinion can hardly define anything but) - is uncircumcised not preferred in Europe? Are you not looked at by ladies at all? May be its stupid question - but the german couples comments got me intrigued so i thought better ask. If i offend someones sensibilities - i apologise.

Any couple in Amsterdam - if you want to meet for coffee - would be nice!

Any advice will be welcome - grateful.

Yours,

inthai25

So many views and not a single advice. Will be grateful for your guidance and respond with a report. Thanks in advance. Cheers.

I've only visited the clubs as a couple, so can't offer much advice. Anything is possible, but I would be surprised if you could pick somebody up to go with you. Single women just don't need you, they can get in anywhere. Unless you are very lucky or a master seducer your only option would be to pay for someone to accompany you.This seems to be reasonably common.

A better bet might be the gangbangs organised at some clubs. I think sameplace does one on a thursday. These a re set up with single guys in mind so will probably be more enjoyable

thanks drizzle. A quick question - when you say you got to pay, are these escorts or single women who may just be looking for a partner to go to club with all expenses borne. I know its free entry for them but its even better if your drinks are paid too! if that the case, where can you pick them.

As far as I have seen or heard about, escorts. You could look at hookers.nl Conchita used to do this, don't know if she still does.

Paradise on Thursday nights and Showboat on Saturday are both good for a single guy.
Check the websites for details.
If you have the cash, Dita does escort service to Fun4two on Saturday nights.

Weasel

I already checked the rate for Dita: € 1.300 plus costs.....for the night at the club.
I presume that with that amount you could have much fun in other ways!