Me and my wife have never been to swingers club
We will be in Amsterdam in about a week and are very interested in trying one.

I have been reading old posts and fun4two seems great except that it is over an hour away from Amsterdam...

Are there any recommended places closer to Amsterdam that would match well with a newbie couple that wants to watch and maybe (or not) engage in the action? I also read about Fatna Morgana but I don't know how far that is...

We want dimething fun not too intimidating for our first experience and not full of single males...

I appreciate any suggestions!

Last year we went to Paradise, 10 mins bus/car ride from AMS station. If you want only couple go for couples party on sat. Search paradise club, they have a good website. You can send them email and they respond well. We had a great 1st time experience. Its very safe and everyone even single are all respectable and gentleman. My wife got her first gangbang spontaneously in the dark room. I choose the guys who should come and join. All in sign language, no need to talk. Everyone took good care and pampered her for 20/30mins. Later I also joined 2 DP and one Gangbang with other couples and girls. though rejected atleast by 2 couples. Another one nearby is showboat. In this forum you will get a lot of refernece aand trip report. fata Morgana is very classy and very likely for top end couple. If you r average looking, you may not get any attention and and up in just watching.

Thanks for the info. Unfortunately bee will be during thebweek up to Saturday so we would not be able to make it on Saturday.

On other days is it worth it? Say, on Friday?

Any differences between Paradise and Showboat?

I know these are all newbie questions but does everyone has to get undressed? We are both curious but nervous and might even want to just watch, but who knows...

For a first experience yours sounds amazing! Any tips? Both me and my wife are a bit nervous!

Hi Immortus

You and your wife dont need to be nervous. Just relax. Let me tell you few things to make you feel comfortable :-

- first of all Netherlands is very safe country. Sex clubs are legal here and hence you wont be doing anything illegal
- People are very friendly. Noone will bounce on your wife. If you or your wife doesnt want, noone will force. Trust me its exactly this way.
- Couples or single men all are very respectful and discreet. They will respect your and your wife privacy, intimate moments
- The sex clubs are not cheat. You will get what you pay for. Sex clubs here are very classy.

Hence, you dont need to worry. Having said that, there are number of options which you and your wife can choose. It is
- sex club or swinger club
- erotic bar
- sex cinema

I have been to all of them. If you want detailed information then pm me and I will help.
Cheers
simplefun

Hi.. interesting post.. me and my wife are coming this month to Amsterdam.. we've been married over a couple of years now.. my thinking now is quite polyamorous.. i'd love for her to explore and open up.. try new experiences.. but she is a bit opposite presently.. more towards monogamy.. being exclusive to me.. is shy and conservative.... i've not been pushing her much for anything.. but have conveyed her my thoughts and feelings.. although she isn't sure.. but she says she might 'try' to be like a single girl / bachelorette during our visit... i'd love to get tips on what all we can do that would open her up and make her love being with others..... i want to get her a male stripper.. but can't find any online except for escorts.. i want her to get a massage from a male.. which she has kind of agreed to try.. but i cant find that either in amsterdam forums much... so what else can we do? start off at swinger clubs? or sex shows? erotic bars? any suggestions?

Hi

I can make your wife feel comfortable. I am pretty good in giving massage and then we take it from there. You can reach me at simple_fun123 at yahoo. I think the PM here is not working so thats why maybe better if you email me.

I know all the places in and around amsterdam so we can explore the city. Talk to u soon.

Cheers
Simplefun