We, Mr & Mrs Bear, have had several trips to Amsterdam over the past few years (starting with a rather ordinary siteseeing trip back in 2007) and loved the place however after a few more visits we got more adventurous and visited firstly Casa Rosa – with friends, and the Moulin Rouge to see the difference. After these next trips we chatted and talked about expanding our trips to encompass our fantasies. Being a happily married couple of over 20 years, and in our 40’s we were comfortable with each other, still very sexually active, but were ready to spice things up a little on our ‘dirty weekends away’.
One of our fantasies was a threesome, ffm initially, with me (Mrs Bear) as the submissive female, but really I was happy with the idea of myself and another lady satisfying my hubby together, and wasn’t really bothered about the female ‘interacting’ with me in this scenario.
We decided that an escort was the way to go (partly for discretion and part because of longer time and better venue, being in our hotel room with large bed and nice bathroom, as opposed to a small kammer on a busy street). We looked at various site, priced many agencies - as their rules vary on couple prices (some charge 50e extra, some 1.5 times normal price and some 2 x normal standard fees, all with usual extras on top of this price), the best prices we found were with Angelina and Friends - then 200e and girls on top at 220e, with most following at 240e and the high class ones upwards of 350 an hour.
We hummed and hawed, as it is a considerable sum for 1 hour that may actually have a detrimental effect on your relationship. Well that was my/our thoughts on it anyway, and until it happens to you – no matter how much you pre-empt things – you don’t actually know how you, or your partner, will actually react until it happens.
For us, we decided that if we were going to do it, (and we had toyed with the idea for quite some time and then gone into depth with our ideas, thoughts, expectations and reservations) then it would be worth the extra money and so we hired an escort; we weren’t sorry, and had a really good, exciting but gentle and erotic session and were really lucky with our choice of girl; after a few positive experiences with escorts - the same girl on a few occasions, as she was gentle and patient and took us forward slowly, and then with a few new girls, with whom we both interacted more, still with me as the passive female but now stroking and touching the other girl along with Mr Bear, while they both interacted with me together and separately, with Mr Bear watching.
We then decided it was time to try a club, and also a mmf threesome. First we tried Sameplace, but as we visited midweek it was a little slow, to the point of being dead – it was Tuesday evening ‘Tuesday Blues Day’, and there were about 4 men sat at the bar chatting to the barman, 2 men in the smoking room and one couple who entered just after us, walked in ordered a drink, had a smoke and left all within the time we got our drinks and sat at the bar. We had a nice chat, a drink, and a buzz thinking about going, but nothing else (entry only cost 10e each, which came off our bar bill anyway so no loss); next we tried Club Paradise - 15e taxi each way from rank near Barbizon Palace, 40e for the two of us for entry - and again the 40e came off the bar bill, so if you only drink 2 cokes it costs 40e but if you drink between you 42e it would cost you just 2e bar bill. Paradise has a lingerie code, but is a lovely venue, clean and plush, with sauna, swimming pool (with warm water) and well worth the visit.
We first visited on a Wednesday evening, which is billed as beginners night, there were a few couples in, all seemed quite insulated and all just there to ‘observe’ there were also a few single men who were looking for fun with the couples and/or anyone else there. A few chatted politely, a few asked if we wanted company and one started feeling my leg as I sat cuddled into my hubby watching porn on the TV. A polite ‘no thank you’ and he apologised and moved on. Although we had gone with the idea of getting some ‘action’ and exploring our sexual boundaries further, we first wanted to ‘see’ something, to gain the etiquette of the place and ascertain what others would do while we were ‘engaging’ - either with others or alone, so the fact there was nothing happening except people sitting around, drinking, and watching porn, in the various rooms and alcoves in the club, left us hindered by our own uncertainties in our surroundings. We had a pleasant evening together anyway, it was quite sexy but not what we had hoped for, and not as productive as hiring an escort, however we felt that, with experience and confidence (certainly on my part – although I am pretty sure Mr Bear was confident enough already) and maybe a busier night, that we could get what we were looking for, for both of us.
We next visited on a Thursday – gang bang night – as we felt it would be busier, and it was, but mainly with single men looking for fun with the 2 ‘house girls’ that were there to take care of these single guys. There were maybe 2 other couples in who, again, just sat around the edges or at the bar, later it became apparent that one of the couples was one of the house girls and her partner, who sat and watched as she, and her friend, set to work relieving the men, who stood around watching and forming a sort of queue. The girls, were giving various services but mainly the standard suck and fuck, although there were variations on this – at some point one of the girls had a queue one side for sucks and while giving a cbj, another man was up her, as one finished, then the other, she would clean, and then reposition for the next duo. Some men went straight from one queue to the back of the next, some went to the bar and some sat around watching, and helping their arousal by hand, ready for the other girl. We sat observing the scene for a while and then went to one of the private rooms together for a chat and fun.
The next visit we made, several months later, was again a Wednesday and soon after entering the club we were approached by a man who was very friendly, engaging and with whom we spent a while chatting as we all had a drink. The three of us then decided to get better acquainted in a more private setting so retired to one of the private rooms and locked the door. A very enjoyable experience was had by all. That evening there were a few more couples, but they all seemed to know each other and kept very much to themselves.
We decided that the following night would be the night that I selected a girl for hubby to enjoy, so armed with a few recommendations from this site we set out to locate the possibilities; after several circuits and none of the pre-selected girls found – it was a dark, cold November night, we decided that we would give up on the quest for tonight, and before our next visit would have not only more names, locations etc of recommended girls but more to the point, a list of those known rip-offs – we were more worried about selecting a girl then finding, after Mr Bear had a bad session, that she had been known as a bad provider and we had the means to know but had neglected to do our homework properly! Anyway, deciding to get something to eat and drink on Zeedijk before going back to our hotel for some late night fun together, we headed over to Molensteeg. On the way up, in either 10-2 or 10-1, was a friendly and rather fun looking chubbyish girl (compared to the others around) who chatted with us both through the window, and showed the 3 fingers as we moved on – indicating 30e.
When we got to the bar we had decided on, during our chat I mentioned that it was a pity we had changed our plans because, although she wasnt on our list – there was one on Monnikan as a last resort standby but her Kammer, 4 I think, had been vacant all evening and infact, all trip – she seemed very friendly, and had reacted much better than most of the girls looking for business that evening. After a few more words of reassurance (on both our parts, I think) I ordered another drink while hubby ‘nipped out’ to do a spot of business, while I happily chatted to the barman.
On his return, his report was that she was called Monica, cant remeber where she was from but may have been Hungary, he confirmed 30 e suck and fuck, and she agreed. Suck was quite pleasant and she gave eye contact whilst doing it, however on moving to fuck – in missionary – all she kept saying, repeatedly, was ‘come on baby, give it to me’, which did nothing for his ardour - but I found very amusing. He did say he found it so off putting he couldnt finish and made his excuses. He wouldnt repeat the session with Monica but was worth 30euros for the expeariance and the suck at least.
Before he left her Kammer, she enquired if the lady he was with before was his wife, and he confirmed I was, she asked ‘does she know you are here’ and he told her I did, and that I had helped to select her, and also that we would be passing again soon, on our way back to the hotel. Which we did, and she waived furisly and blew us both kisses, and said see you again soon. I am sure she wouldnt have had hubby told her I was unaware of his visit to her.
The next day, although we were heading home, we had a few hours to kill, and went for another stroll around the rld of both Singel and De Wallen, and I decided that he should try another girl to compare the difference. After a basic lap, he picked this time as I was tired and went for a sit down, and selected Melissa from Tromp 3-2 or 3-3; this was another ‘shot in the dark’ because our list of addresses was again either not open, busy or worked nights and we were in the day – about 12 noon. It turns out Melissa is reported on this site, and is definately the correct girl, as she still has a bad knee! This session pleased him better his report is as follows:
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Friendly girl, Dutch, Blond hair, wore black nickers and bra covered by a fishnet style bodystocking; negotiated at the door, 50e completely naked, suck and fuck 2 positions, touching allowed. Chatting before getting down to business, she had noticed my lap with wife and she asked me about her, and said she doesnt do couples but for 20euros wife could watch – and keep warm! It was freezing outside, but roasting in her Kammer so no problem undressing. She then asked how long I had been here and when I go home, I was reluctant to tell her I was leaving after her session incase it impacted on the service, but as she was friendly, told her the truth. I neednt of worried as suck was very nice, eye contact throughout; moved to mish, she requested not cowgirl as she has an injured knee, and I was happy in mish anyway so continued – with no ‘come on baby give it to me!’ which was a releif. Happily reached climax in mish, and as I cum, she said ‘goodbye amsterdam’ which was amusing and lightened the mood.
She continued to chat whilst I dressed, and she changed her clothes (I was impressed by that) she told me that as of March, the Kammers will be shutting in that area by being compulsary purchased. She will no longer a working girl, some of the girls are moving to the other side of the canal or along the canl, and some including her, she says will cease to work completely. Shame.
Overall well worth the 20euro difference, if not more. Suck 9/10 Fuck 8/10 Overall 9/10 very friendly pleasant girl, would do her again but next time take wife to watch.
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Not sure that this is a trip report in the usual sense, and from now on, we will report in the conventional way, and more promptly after our exploits, but I/we hope that this account of our progression on our sexual voyages in amsterdam is acceptable as a first effort.
We are looking forward to our next trip, which is just a month away, where we hope to visit B1 and report back to you on our findings, as well as maybe other adventures.
Mrs Bear - with Melissa report by Mr Bear!
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