Search this site. There are plenty of posts about Society Service that will give you an idea of what sets Society Service apart from other agencies. Just a helpful tip: if how many pops you can get in the minimum duration booking will be your measure of success, SS is the wrong agency for you. Read more and you will understand.

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I concur with IQ. SS has a minimum booking of 2 hours and the girls are instructed that the first half hour be social time. If you’re looking to just fuck for an hour and get in as many shots as you can, you’re looking for the wrong kind of experience for what SS offers. Of course, most of the cheaper agencies are 1 pop or 1 pop per hour (assuming you even get the girl you booked), so that may not be much better.

Understand what SS is: you’re booking an evening with a gorgeous, sophisticated woman. You are expected to chat and get to know each other a bit, maybe have a drink or two first. It’s not about just sex. There are plenty of other options for that in and around Amsterdam.

As for the experience, if it’s the sort of thing you’re looking for, you won’t find better. Again, they have incredibly gorgeous, sophisticated women, you’re not gonna have some Eastern European girl showing up at your room dressed like a stripper. All their ladies are Dutch professionals and well educated, they’ll show up tastefully dressed, and they’re very good at engaging in conversation. As far as the actual action, it’s all YMMV of course, but I will say I’ve never been disappointed, personally.

thanks for your replies. Yeah I wasn't asking about the 'pop' to know how many I can get in a session. I wanted to know if SS girls are actually high end and its more about the experience or not. I frankly only want one pop, because more importantly I'm looking for a date with a gorgeous sophisticated and intelligent Dutch girl that I probably won't find here in Canada. I'm actually thinking of doing the Dinner Date package, anyone ever done one of those? Also anyone book Scarlett on SS?

Yes, SS girls are definitely high end. That’s sort of their whole thing. You’ll for sure be getting the sophisticated, intelligent Dutch woman. Have not done the dinner date package, so I can’t help you there.

As an aside, depending on where you are in Canada, I may be able to give you some help. I’m in Toronto and know the scene here reasonably well.

Once all this COVID-19 malarkey is over, I too am very keen to try out Society Service.

I have heard many great things about it from forum posters here and think that they provide a superb, high end service. It is not cheap but I often find that you pay for what you get!

Just posted my review, hope it helps!
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Hi Guys,

I have a few questions about SS that I haven't seen addressed in other posts:

1. Is it expected to bring a gift for the girl? Swoldiernation, did you bring a gift during your recent booking? If so, what kind of gifts would you guys recommend?

2. Is it expected to give the girl time to take a bath and get dressed before the allotted booking time is up? Or can you talk and then fool around during the entire booking time, and then the girl will quickly bathe and dress once time is up?

3. I don't qualify for the sneak preview, so I can't see any photos with unblurred faces. The kind of girl I am looking for is a slim girl (but slim with big natural breasts is also ok) with blonde or light brown hair and blue (or blue-green) eyes. Think of celebs like Charlize Theron, Miranda Kerr, Alice Eve, Lea Seydoux, Margot Robbie, Doutzen Kroes. For those of you who can see faces, are there a few girls who meet this description who you think are especially attractive? Swoldiernation, Scarlett meets this description and sounds like a 10/10. Were there any other girls on your short list that you were considering?

4. I've heard that SS is very reliable about their descriptions. But what about ages? I find it hard to believe that so many of their girls are in their early 20s. Any idea of whether they are accurate, or exaggerate in this respect?


Thanks.

1. Gifts are not expected especially on a first date. I have brought gifts in the past, especially for a subsequent date. It's a small token of appreciation that sets a nice tone for the evening. On the girls' profile pages, they list their preferred perfume, etc. I may get a bottle in duty free on my way in.

I highly recommend setting out refreshments. Fresh fruits, chocolate, and other sweet snacks, along with her beverage of choice (also listed on her profile), and Perrier or other bottled water really contribute to the tone of the evening. Remember, it's a date.

2. She will end the activities a few minutes early and head to the bathroom for a quick wash. At exactly the ending time of the booking, management will call her and ask if she is leaving. Management is strict on this rule.

3. No one who expects a repeat booking with SS should publicly discuss specifics of girls. It's bad form to kiss-and-tell about your date with a supermodel. (Sorry about that Swoldiernation. An edit button appears above your posts for some time period after you have posted. If that isn't visible anymore then site moderators are your only help, as far as I know. I did enjoy your post and I'm glad you had a great time.)

4. Ages are mostly accurate. The only thing I have noticed is that they don't get updated very often. So girls that I have dated still show the same age a year or two later.

Thank you for your response, this is very informative.

Regarding 3, I'm sorry if it came off the wrong way. I was not trying to ask for specific details about any girl. All I was looking for was for someone who has seen the unblurred photos to offer an opinion like: "If you like slim blondes/brunettes with blue eyes, I think X and Y are the most attractive." That's all.

Yeah, I don’t typically bring gifts, maybe something small if it’s a repeat date, like some nice soaps from Lush or something. I always stay at the Amrath and they have a free minibar in your room, so that covers me for drinks. I also always buy a nice box of mixed chocolates from the chocolate shop in the Oude Kerk. That always goes over well.

So I checked the SS website using the Wayback Machine, and there is definitely something fishy going on with the reported ages. I am a bit surprised that they would do this, since they seem to stress how accurate and reliable they are in how they present themselves. On the other hand, I have heard only good things about SS, so maybe I am making a bigger deal out of this than I should.

RE #3. No offense taken whatsoever. I just don't discuss it.

Regarding age, when you get to be my age, the difference between 23 and 25 hardly makes a difference. In fact I generally recommend going with a girl who is 25 or older because she will be more mature and experienced. So if an age on the profile doesn't get updated for a year or two it doesn't matter to me. I find the profiles to be very accurate otherwise. The photos are retouched, but not much, and not to exaggerate body parts like the other escort photos you will find online.

Oh and by the way logins expire after one year of no bookings. Because of covid my login on the site has expired anyway, so I don't get to see faces anymore.

I wouldn't really rely on their website to show their age accuretly down to the day. It's reasonable when you think about it. If their age would get updated every year on their birthday, or even during the month of their birthday, that's a personal info someone could easily figure out. If they change it a bit randomly while still keeping it reasonably accurate to within a few months or maybe even a year, then that's a good compromise for both sides I'd say. I wish I had more to contribute but I haven't used their service yet. I've been thinking about it though and I enjoy reading posts on here from you guys but until I have a personal experience my self I can only offer to share my thoughts.

I'm curious, as somebody who has never paid for sex, how does one initiate things? Does the escort generally begin or is it up to you to "make a move"? I'm curious because you mentioned the first half hour is social.

In my experience, every time is different. Sometimes I’ve had the lady ask if I’d like to move over to the bed now after a bit, sometimes I’ll initiate it when I want to start. It’ll depend on the lady, some are more willing to take charge than others.

I'm also one of those who's never done this before so I wanted to ask you guys about something. How do you pick a lady? By reading the website one can quickly get an idea that the personality characteristics are very important. But when I look through the profiles and try to find myself under their likes or dislikes, I can barely find a profile that I'd conclude to be a good match with my traits.

I've noticed that their description under likes and dislikes became more general and vague after the website update but still. What I've come to believe is that the girls are looking for someone fun, spontaneous, cheerful, passionate and so on. Then after reading all that I'm left there thinking if I had only a handful of those qualities I'd be out there dating and not deciding about a booking like this. On the other hand, things listed under dislikes, such as passive, negative, melancholic, disinterested/detached and similar are the ones I'd use sooner to describe myself. I've never been on a date in my life and the reason is mainly because I'd say I have many such qualities that women don't find attractive but then I go visit a Society Service website and I find that even here I fall short. Which shouldn't surprise me since they're women afterall.

But then I remember all the praise their service gets and I think if it would truly be that bad if I gave it a shot? I wonder how do you guys do it? You probably don't see only one particular lady from the agency, although I assume you'd have a favourite, or do you? How do you deal with such things? I mean I can probably try to be a little out of my character for a few hours but bevertheless I'm afraid I'd have nothing to say, she'd find me boring and so on.

Yeah, I get what you mean. It is a bit confusing trying to figure out which kinds of clients they want, which is why I made this thread:

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Basically, I imagine that most men who are willing to shell out 1000+ euros for a few hours with a lady fall into one of three categories:

1. Men who, for whatever reason, have trouble finding attractive women for companionship and/or intimacy.

2. Very successful men for whom a few thousand euros is not a big deal. Men who could find similarly attractive women on the dating scene, but prefer the convenience of using an escort agency to save time and effort.

3. Clients also fall into a sort of "in-between" category of being somewhat successful and having a decent wife/gf, but have relationship issues or boring sex lives and are looking for a break.


So it might seem paradoxical that they prefer men who possess the kinds of qualities that would seemingly render using an escort service unnecessary. But those kinds of men do hire escorts (and usually fall in categories 2 and 3).

I imagine they strongly prefer men in category 2, followed by men from category 3, with men from category 1 coming in a very distant third. Having said that, my impression is that they still happily cater to men in category 1 (they have a Virgin Experience, for instance).



I think you are honestly worrying too much about lacking the qualities they like while having too many qualities that they dislike.

My advice:

1. Try to minimize the bad (i.e. avoid being negative during the conversation ... I'm sure you can manage this for a couple of hours)

2. Don't worry too much about trying to be her dream date

3. Focus on basics: be polite, be respectful, dress well, make sure you are well-groomed and don't smell bad. The escort will take care of the rest.

Yes I remember reading your post and the concerns you had. It was a very informative read but my worries seemed a bit different that's why I asked, although I see now that we probably had very similar things on our minds. It's a bit hard to figure out how it would go indeed. Besides reading this forum I've also read some of the press articles they've posted on their website. There are a few interviews about their virgin experience that help you paint a picture of what to expect from the ladies but I'd say these can be divided into one of the two groups.

The first one are a bit reassuring where different (I presume) escorts that offer the virgin experience talk about it. They say how you can tell them anything, that they love to learn something new (i.e. a hobby you have that would perhaps bore the other person on a normal date), that you don't have to worry about saying something wrong, that you can ask them anything and so on. Combined this with the philosophy written on the webpage that the client is the king/is never wrong, that they will be appear to be interested in you no matter what topic you want to talk about, all of it seems appealing although one gets a sense that it's written for marketing purposes too.

On the other hand I remember reading an interview that seemed a bit more honest. The escort there talked about how she met a guy who was a virgin and how she made him talk about his interests although she was probably bored by listening to that and it is exhausting to try and make a conversation with someone when you don't have a connection with them. Then when the evening progressed and things moved to bed she talked about how hard it was for her because he was so shy and never said anything. She was asking him questions and he said he was enjoying it very much but she still found it difficult.

I understand her sentiment, she's a human afterall but what I'm getting at here is that on one hand they're selling this "fantasy" where you supposedly get a feeling like you're the best guy on the planet for her, but on the other hand it's a game that the two of you play. If you're fine with that and can get into it then it's fine. However if you can't see past that then it doesn't seem like such an amazing experience as they sell it to be.

I hope this doesn't sound too horrible so please be kind to me. Like I said I've never used their service and I'm just writing down my thoughts I've gathered so far. If I'm mistaken please do correct me.

I'd imagine that there is indeed a lot of marketing behind the way they present it. I'm sure their ladies have really enjoyed some of their dates because they learned something new from their client or found what they had to say interesting. But I'm guessing that during most of their dates they are indifferent (or worse) about the social aspect. Naturally, it makes a client feel good if they think that an escort enjoyed their company in some sense (beyond the money). But they can't pretend that each client is a heartthrob that they are dying to shag (most people have some self-awareness, and it would come off as too fake). It's much easier to sell the idea that they enjoyed your company in another way.

At the end of the day, escorts would probably only desire to be physically intimate with a tiny percentage of their clients if no money were involved. So there IS a game being played and there is no getting around that. It is what it is. Whether or not you think you can see past that enough to enjoy the experience is a call you have to make. (It's obviously expensive too, and that's another thing you have to consider.) I suppose I've become cynical enough to rationalize it in this way: most relationships are transactional in some sense, and the main difference here it that it is spelled out in an unforgivingly clear and unambigious way.



As far as asking them anything and not having to worry about saying anything wrong, I presume (since we are talking about the Virgin Experience) that that's in the context of learning how to have sex and be intimate with someone. I didn't try the Virgin Experience, so I can't speak on it personally. But I'd imagine that being with a professional would indeed make it easier to "open up" and have them show you the ropes compared to being with a girl in "real life" who might judge you.