I'm also one of those who's never done this before so I wanted to ask you guys about something. How do you pick a lady? By reading the website one can quickly get an idea that the personality characteristics are very important. But when I look through the profiles and try to find myself under their likes or dislikes, I can barely find a profile that I'd conclude to be a good match with my traits.

I've noticed that their description under likes and dislikes became more general and vague after the website update but still. What I've come to believe is that the girls are looking for someone fun, spontaneous, cheerful, passionate and so on. Then after reading all that I'm left there thinking if I had only a handful of those qualities I'd be out there dating and not deciding about a booking like this. On the other hand, things listed under dislikes, such as passive, negative, melancholic, disinterested/detached and similar are the ones I'd use sooner to describe myself. I've never been on a date in my life and the reason is mainly because I'd say I have many such qualities that women don't find attractive but then I go visit a Society Service website and I find that even here I fall short. Which shouldn't surprise me since they're women afterall.

But then I remember all the praise their service gets and I think if it would truly be that bad if I gave it a shot? I wonder how do you guys do it? You probably don't see only one particular lady from the agency, although I assume you'd have a favourite, or do you? How do you deal with such things? I mean I can probably try to be a little out of my character for a few hours but bevertheless I'm afraid I'd have nothing to say, she'd find me boring and so on.

hi all! as it will be my first time using SS next week and also my first time spending over an hour with a high class escort. I was just wondering what exactly happens on a SS encounter? Is it two people talking in a hotel room? Do you guys go for a walk before or do they give you a massage? I've never had a long duration with a escort that was not just sex so if someone could provide info, I mainly just don't want to be awkward for 2-4 hours.

If this is your first time, it's better to trust the girl and let her guide you. After all it is her job to make you comfortable. Most, if not all SS girls offer erotic massage, she will probably ask if you want one. But if your shape allows it, nothing prevents you from having sex all that time, except for initial "mandatory social time".

Since writing my thoughts above, I got some experience with SS escorts, other NL agencies and other countries in Europe. And I have to say that I became slightly disappointed with SS. The great thing is that they guarantee a certain quality level. However, this baseline is also a ceiling in most cases. Once you've seen several different girls, it is easy to notice how they all play the same script with same basic elements. I personally like variety and new things, so this lead me away from SS to other agencies, which are way less controlling towards girls.

Of course I didn't met all 30+ girls SS have, but this is because of another issue. Pretty face is "must have" for me, and unfortunately there is not a lot of stunners in their roster. NL isn't lacking in really beautiful women and with "hundreds of applications every month" surely they can do better than that ?

In addition to lack of stunners, availability is getting really ridiculous. Out of 5 girls that looks interesting enough for me to book, 4 have basically zero availability for next 2-3 months. Either not available at all or 1-2 days per month. No idea why, and to be honest I don't care, I will just take my business elsewhere.

From what the girls shared with me, I would say it is extremley unlikely they are fully booked months in advance. Most bookings are made about a week in advance.

If you are only available two evenings a month, we can not work with you as your availability is too limited.

What makes is especially ironic is that SS recruitment FAQ literally says.

I'm not sure the reason for the solid weeks of "not available". However, a couple of times I have made a request for a night shown as not available only to be replied with "Good news. XXX is available." I don't remember if those were repeat, or new bookings. My point is it never hurts to check in with management about a request. There does seem to be a correlation between the most available girls - and best providers - and the order they are shown on the site.